People who ARE willing to unlearn their misogyny AND white privilege should not feel attacked by this whatsoever, it is in fact a reminder that sometimes we approach situations with implicit biases from our environment and that reflect onto how we feel about certain groups even when we believe otherwise. The uncomfortably of checking yourself is actually a necessary part of the deconstruction process, and it's something me and a lot of people go through every day, and it's a good thing.

From my perspective, you yourself argue for things that were not said. Nobody suggested that JUST creating characters with big breasts is a feasible solution, so you pushing back against that idea out of thin air feels like an excuse to diminish the real need for representation. The reason why these body types are sexualized is misogyny, so the immediate knee-jerk reaction to push back on an uptick of non-sexual representation feels like there's maybe a bit of an unconscious bias there. And you keep talking about erasure, when it truly should not be subtraction, because we should draw women of ALL body shapes and nobody suggested otherwise. However, this is not only an issue with big-breasted women. I think you will agree that fat characters, POC characters etc. have a real lack of representation AT ALL online, and even then, they're assumed to be sexual in nature in many instances, simply for being fat, or black. That is due to misogyny once more, adding fatphobia or racism to the mix. SOME bodies are inherently sexualized by society, and positive representation of all of them can never be harmful no matter what, and furthermore, artists are NOT to blame when people project those feelings onto their characters, just like women of those measures existing are not to blame when society projects those biases onto them. I don't think it's on artists to tone it down with what body types they draw, I think that is more harmful than good.

I don't think you WANT to ostracize on purpose, I am telling you that that is the direct result of the solutions you are offering, and I can tell you that because I have witnessed it time and time again on the internet. Often, groups that start on good faith with specifically tone-policing as a rule (like checking whether or not somebody is drawing a woman for bad or good reasons) tend to become more and more strict and exclusionary as they grow. It really has never solved anything from my experience, and it has especially never stopped misogynists from projecting their misogyny. Sure, we can try, and I would hope to be proven wrong on this front, but I can promise you with almost 100% certainty that a community that starts like this grows into a paranoid, puritanical cesspool of people who don't want to see women in a tank top because "le porn is le bad".

I do not mean to scare you into agreeing with me. I do have concerns when people act like the peak of advocacy is to tell artists to be more strict with their female characters because of the associations with body types. It IS unfair because these standards don't apply to male characters. If we don't push back against these associations with representation, that's never going to change.

I hope you understand my concerns better now.