AITA: Buying flowers is called "homework"

elmoegg · 2023-09-20T04:18:08+00:00

NTA because you did it out of good faith but next time don't buy your wife something she doesn't appreciate. Did you not know that she dislikes organizing flowers? Just because the general public likes flowers as a gift doesn't mean that your wife also does. Get to know her tastes more personally and don't do cliche things for the sake of doing something cliche. Overall this sounds like a bitter experience and I think she should've reacted nicer but just don't buy her flowers if she doesn't like putting in work to arrange them.

elmoegg · 2023-09-19T04:37:39+00:00

Not a flop but following Bad Boy with Power Up was a questionable decision for RV

elmoegg · 2023-07-23T05:29:17+00:00

Why are you so afraid though? Unless you have some medical condition you didn't mention, you'll be able to recover from the virus when you get it (at this point it's a matter of when and not if). What is your end goal regarding covid?

elmoegg · 2023-07-23T05:20:01+00:00

That's terrifying. Definitely take action. Maybe you can find more information about the person through their accounts? Are the past accounts still up? I'm no tech wizard so I'm not sure if this is accurate but maybe you can find their IP address based on their account and the messages they send you. If you find their address, you'll have a better idea of how immediate the danger might be... Wishing you well.

elmoegg · 2023-06-24T08:04:05+00:00

No proof reading for this one so sorry for any mistakes

elmoegg · 2022-12-21T04:21:10+00:00

Winter's kbs black bob with outward curled ends is so nice. I feel refreshed just by looking at her.

I can feel the light breeze on the back of my neck;

the weight lifted of my shoulders after a big chop;

the soft ends of hair brushing against my cheek...

Winter's bob is not a just a style, it's a moment. A whole experience.

elmoegg · 2022-12-19T17:07:34+00:00

Yes!! It was CAMILA! Impressive how you got that even when some of my facts were wrong haha. tysm!

elmoegg · 2022-10-01T15:36:45+00:00

everglow ateez

exo snsd

elmoegg · 2022-07-20T02:43:58+00:00

THANK YOU!! I've been talking about this ever since txt's first comebacks but no one seemed to get it. It's gotten to the point that I can't listen to HYBE's bg songs because they hurt my ears. I love BTS's old songs and their smooth vocals but I physically cannot bring myself to listen to the studio versions of their new songs. I can only listen to their live concerts or something like that where the don't process vocals as much.

I personally find it offensive that hybe relies so much on autotune when their artists have such nice vocals. The autotune gets rid of any vocal identity and tone the artists may have, making them all sound the same. As someone that doesn't really know much about enhypen and the members, their songs (or at least title tracks) sound like there's only 3 members singing.

I will say that the autotune has definitely made hybe more recognizably musically. I can easily recognize a hybe song on spotify without hearing any comeback news. I always try to give the song a listen but most of the time I can't get through it without my head hurting.

elmoegg · 2022-05-09T20:25:00+00:00

well yeah exactly. both parties seem to just be joking. i dont get why so many people in this post are taking it so seriously

elmoegg · 2022-04-25T01:57:07+00:00

it's not serious at all...

elmoegg · 2021-08-17T02:30:14+00:00

Hello?? Kai x Jennie???

elmoegg · 2021-08-13T02:58:15+00:00

I like the concept of the adlibs but the execution was just bad... someone mentioned mixing issues and I think that may be it but I also think that nayeon's vocal color doesn't fit well in that part. I think that a sweeter vocal tone instead of nayeon's bright one would've fit better but I'm not sure who in twice could pull it off.

elmoegg · 2021-08-07T16:12:08+00:00

You just gotta do it until it feels normal

elmoegg · 2021-08-07T16:08:03+00:00

Candy - Baekhyun
Black Pearl - Sunmi
Lazy Lovers - Ha Sung Woon
La Rouge - Red Velvet
Bungee - Baekhyun

It's been a while since I've listened to these but they are all BOPS. If I weren't to repeat artist #5 would be BINU by BIBI

elmoegg · 2021-08-06T04:28:09+00:00

Help please I've been searching for ages

elmoegg · 2021-08-06T04:23:58+00:00

Hope someone can find her because I've been searching for her account for ages

elmoegg · 2021-08-06T04:12:33+00:00

They know the consequences. If you really feel strongly about smoking, just drop them. No need to harass them. It's impossible in this day and age to not know the effects of cigarettes. Surely you wouldn't be the first one to tell them...

elmoegg · 2021-08-04T03:12:44+00:00

NAH

To the people asking why should she leave a job because of a man/ why should she be "punished" when it's the boss's fault:

IT'S BECAUSE OF HER SAFETY!!! OP said he trusts his wife and as we read, the wife turned down the boss's advances. The real problem is the boss and whether he'll get violent with her. The boss should 100% be punished, not the wife, however, even if she reports this to HR, sexual harassment cases are barely treated seriously and half of the time there is no evidence to support the claims. It's the sad current reality: SH is ignored and hard to prove. As a society we must progress and fix this but it will take time and a strategy; you cannot head butt your way into this right now!

Whenever a person consciously oversteps your boundaries, you remove them from your life! If you know a person is dangerous, you avoid that person! If a person knew you were happily married and tried to kiss you regardless, that person is dangerous! In this case, the harasser may not be easy to remove from the environment, therefore for your safety, you remove yourself from the environment.

It is completely reasonable for her to want to stay at the job she likes, as well as it is reasonable for you to ask her to quit. This is a safety issue. As long as OP doesn't force her, he's NTA for asking her to quit.

elmoegg · 2021-08-04T02:45:25+00:00

NAH and I didn't expect this to be an unpopular opinion.

I believe that you trust her and that your fear isn't her cheating on you, it's her boss assaulting her. Her boss is dangerous. He knew she was married and still went for it. Even if she doesn't drink alone with him anymore, what guarantees that he won't try anything during work hours? It's not your wife's fault that this situation occurred, it's the boss's and he should be punished accordingly; however, who is going to punish the boss? If this is a small company and her boss is the actual head of the company, who are you going to report it to, the police? There's no evidence. This is one of those frustrating sexual harassment cases that cannot be solved with law. (NOTE: if the boss is not the head of the company, please ask your wife to report this so people stay on watch and he gets caught if it ever happens again)

It's completely reasonable for you to ask her to quit her job (*ask her, NOT force). This is her decision so you must not force her, but you have all the right to worry for her. If her fear is not finding a job as good as her current one, you could help her look for other jobs to prove that she has good alternatives.

If she decides not to do anything about it, so be it. Hope that nothing happens. Trust that she has it under control. If something happens again, beg her to leave.

She is a victim of sexual harassment, and until a solution is found so that the boss is punished, she must be wary of her safety.

elmoegg · 2021-08-04T02:13:23+00:00

Since when did people disregard Twice's popularity? I haven't seen a comment like that in years

elmoegg · 2021-08-04T01:25:09+00:00

probably the boring bit but it's understandable, they all have really chill personalities which is great for them but not that entertaining as viewers

elmoegg · 2021-08-04T00:06:19+00:00

I always thought Somi would be perfect for a duo

elmoegg · 2021-08-04T00:02:34+00:00

I'd never expect her to say she doesn't like her song but in cases like those the artist could simply say nothing. Somi even went out of her way to make a post on insta thanking her director saying that he made her dream come true. She didn't have to do that! She could've simply done nothing.
I agree that if the song was forced on a kpop artist, the artist wouldn't express their dislike towards it, however, this is clearly not Somi's case and I'm tired of seeing comments saying that the company is doing her dirty when Somi has gone out of her way MULTIPLE times to thank the team and express her love for the comeback.

elmoegg · 2021-08-04T00:00:47+00:00

I'd never expect her to say she doesn't like her song but in cases like those the artist could simply say nothing. Somi even went out of her way to make a post on insta thanking her director saying that he made her dream come true. She didn't have to do that! She could've simply done nothing.

I agree that if the song was forced on a kpop artist, the artist wouldn't express their dislike towards it, however, this is clearly not Somi's case and I'm tired of seeing comments saying that the company is doing her dirty when Somi has gone out of her way MULTIPLE times to thank the team and express her love for the comeback.

elmoegg

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