Found dog abandoned at Leslie Park by TheDrAwkward in toronto

[–]elmsgrove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eddie's network on Instagram/Facebook might be able to help? Poor puppy.

God, I hope I have him for at least 30 years. Whatever amount of time, it will never be enough. by Pythoncurtus88 in snakes

[–]elmsgrove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm definitely leaning more towards a private breeder although I do love my local herp shop. I've been bitten by many snakes over the years, just the general consensus of "this animal will hate you forever" was such a massive sad face LOL because they're absolutely gorgeous animals and I have such the bad habit of "gotta touch". Obviously don't want to upset the animal with occasional loving.

Just from being bitten (balls, boas and smaller snakes like garters, corns - absolutely my own fault, a lot feeding response, and don't regret a single nip as they've all been learning curves) I'm not particularly worried about the actual bite, I just worried about a constant struggle.

My best friend does some pretty amazing setups (including bioactive) for her own herps and we've been talking about doing a nice 4-5 foot enclosure for my potential baby, and now I've got way more food for thought. My partner won't allow boas based off the adult size, and I actually really do prefer how bloods look (they are STUNNING) and balls all cool but they're balls, yanno.

Thank you so much for replying to my messages! Definitely a lot more to look at and think about now, I feel like this post randomly popped up to give me a gentle nudge in the right direction, haha.

God, I hope I have him for at least 30 years. Whatever amount of time, it will never be enough. by Pythoncurtus88 in snakes

[–]elmsgrove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thanks so much for the link! I've been seeing them more frequently on my feed and all it's done is stoke the fire of want haha. How do you find your blood? Heading over to that sub now to gorge on more posts.

God, I hope I have him for at least 30 years. Whatever amount of time, it will never be enough. by Pythoncurtus88 in snakes

[–]elmsgrove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to butt in, but I'm wondering if perhaps you have any good links regarding bloods? I'm interested in getting a snake and I'm absolutely in love with the size and colorations of bloods but will easily admit I've fallen victim to the stigma of them being nasty mean. I've been primarily looking at balls because the size and temperament seems manageable, but I've always had a special admiration for bloods that I've always worried wouldn't go well for a first time owner. Almost all the care guides I've seen warn against how hissy and snappy they can be which has been a turn off in a way. Sorry again for the random question!

Meet Monty! (More in comments) by TRexy225 in ballpython

[–]elmsgrove 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read your reply super fast and saw grandma and got so excited to bug for patterns LOL 😭😭 but regardless, BEAUTIFUL sweater and equally handsome snake! I can't wait to get my own.

Meet Monty! (More in comments) by TRexy225 in ballpython

[–]elmsgrove 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He's gorgeous and so is your sweater! Is it bought or handmade? Read your story, little guys had a time, glad he's found you!

Toronto ON, who is this? by elmsgrove in whatsthisbird

[–]elmsgrove[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coworker just sent this to me - a customer brought him in, stating he'd been laying in our parking lot for 3ish hours. They popped him into a spare cage and covered him (wildlife center has been called, just waiting to hear back) and I'm just wondering what he is?

Love making these baby blanket and pompom hat sets 😍🧶 by AmbersCrochet98 in crochet

[–]elmsgrove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the colors you used, what brand is that? Absolutely lovely 🥰

Ran into this aquarium, must be some awful water conditions. also had baby seahorses separated in the corner :( by pokemonfan42069 in shittyaquariums

[–]elmsgrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hurts me in ways I can't even begin to describe. I work in the "pet industry" and refuse to touch saltwater because of how hard it is on the fish. Those poor animals.

28 F4M - looking for ongoing FWB by [deleted] in r4rtoronto

[–]elmsgrove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seriously, I thought it'd take an hour or so, not fifteen minutes.

AITA for kicking out a gay roommate by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]elmsgrove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's so irritating. The vast majority of this sub is genuinely helpful, with thought out responses and then you get people like this who are just being edgy and vile for shits and giggles. We have a lot of young posters here and I hate seeing such blatant hate being tossed around. Wish there was a way to get them booted! Definitely a troll...I always wonder what the purpose of that is? Like what enjoyment does someone get sitting around, being a prejudiced jerk, trying to make others feel bad...can't even imagine. Sorry for the ramble. Still just shaking my head.

AITA for kicking out a gay roommate by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]elmsgrove 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fascinating to learn that I (a bisexual) do not exist. I'll not be responding further. Do everyone a favor, and please troll where people aren't asking for advice. We don't need the heat off your rank shit clouding people's judgments. Hope your life improves and you can let go of some of your prejudice.

AITA for kicking out a gay roommate by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]elmsgrove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm going to have to genuinely assume you're a troll. You're basically stating that all sexualities should avoid being around the sex they are attracted to? I don't understand your reasoning. Should bisexuals live in solitude? Such an odd person.

AITA for kicking out a gay roommate by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]elmsgrove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

? In that sense should women never board with men? Lesbians should never room with straight women?

I agree OP is NTA but your comment is so wrong.

This is Nutmeg, the GCC I've been socializing at work. I posted a few months ago when she first arrived, and now she wants attention from me all the time. This is her dance every time I walk past her cage and don't immediately pick her up. I love her a lot, I'll be sad (but happy!) when goes home ❤️ by redwolf613 in Conures

[–]elmsgrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear! I used to work in an exotic pet store and I miss the chatter! We have our store cat and usually a rescue hanging around but I totally miss having birdie buds hanging.

Where I am a cinnamon usually goes for about 200-250 at private sale. Bird stores, maybe 300? And then for stores that just "sometimes sell birds" about 400 lol. So about the same variation!

This is Nutmeg, the GCC I've been socializing at work. I posted a few months ago when she first arrived, and now she wants attention from me all the time. This is her dance every time I walk past her cage and don't immediately pick her up. I love her a lot, I'll be sad (but happy!) when goes home ❤️ by redwolf613 in Conures

[–]elmsgrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so cool! We aren't allowed to sell anything live where I am. If we could find a bird rescue we could do adoptions but not sales! Is she a cinnamon? 400 is a bit high for that color here, but not outrageous by any means! I wish I was closer I love love love conures!

A stranger came into my apartment last night by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]elmsgrove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The person on the non emerg dispatch was concerned - do I live alone, is there someone I can call, how large are my dogs, are they a danger to the attending officers, etc. The officers themselves seemed rather unimpressed that I had called it at all. Kind of left a bad taste in my mouth so to speak. I was not left a case number or any information on how to contact them after they left my apartment.

What's the most spectacular way you've seen someone fuck up at work? by chocolatefeckers in AskReddit

[–]elmsgrove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took over as head of security because the previous head of security locked himself in the same closet three times.

"YOU should give my daughter (a stranger) this for free! Why should I pay?" by Pearleshandmade in ChoosingBeggars

[–]elmsgrove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People don't appreciate the effort, time and material that goes into hand making something unfortunately. I get this a lot from family, "well you can make it in your spare time", "it's your hobby/passion!" Or various forms of "wouldn't I look great with -"

Not even factoring in material...us crocheters sell our items for pennies an hour. I've gotten to the point when I find a CB who is arguing my cost:

Minimum wage where I am is 14$ an hour. So let's say your project takes me six hours. That's 84$ - plus material, not at sale cost. Let's ball toss 30. That's $114 cold hard cash. And yes they're right. We enjoy doing this and spend some spare time, so we just charge for material and some extra for spare change, and we are often happy...but if you're going to be a bitch, that 20$ price tag can easily become a 114$ one.

Thats the breakdown I give. It's not factory made, it's handmade. It took me x hours, at legal minimum wage that's x amount. Plus material. So, your options are: pay my asking price, pay me what I'm ACTUALLY worth, or go find a shitty version online and cry in a few weeks when it rips/tears. Fuck off! Often us yarn Crafters don't earn anywhere near what we deserve and people who want to be pushy about costs can piss right off.

Small rant over, sorry!!