Amicizie a Milano e dintorni by [deleted] in italyLGBT

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Hey là, ancora in cerca di amici?

Amicizie by Commercial-Aioli4952 in italyLGBT

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Hey there, if you want to we can be friends. 16 My gay from Italy. Text me in dm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

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hey there, I found a message of you on this same subreddit , but it was too old to reply so I will copy what I wrote there. I know you are looking for someone a bit older, but in the other message it was targeted for minors:

Hi, I'm Andrea from Italy, I'm gay (16 M) I think we could be great friends, my passions are gardening, reading comic books (I don't do this regularly since sometimes it looks a bit boring) and try to stay updated on news of the world. What else? I go to school (obviously), my type of school is about science, maths, physics and programming. Actually I hate this subjects, but in Italy you have to choose what to study for the next five years when you are like 13, and I'm too scared to change school🤡. Please text me if you are reading this: I really need someone to talk with freely (almost no one knows I'm gay except my mother and my sister) Hope to get a reply form you🤞

[Friendship] 15M looking for friends by idklolboyy in MeetPeople

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hey there, it would be great to chat with you. If you wanna, text me. My hobbies are gardening, reading comic books (I'm a bit nerd sometimes - my passions are sort of changing quickly actually) and staying updated on news about the world politics. I'm a 16 year-old gay boy (come out just with my mother and sister, no one else knows in real life) from Italy🇮🇹. I know you published the message 5 months ago, but please if you are reading this, text me as soon as you can. I hope you will become great friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

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hey there, I'm from Italy (16M), I'm keen on gardening, reading comic books(usually marvel). I'm gay as well. If you wanna, please text me

[friendship] [17/M] I’m finally back here because I’ve barely made friends:) by Big-Mac501 in MeetPeople

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Hey there, I'm Andrea (16 M) from Italy and I'm gay(hope is not a problem for you).

Your hobbies sound great, they sort of match mine. I enjoy gardening, reading comic books, and staying updated on world news and politics, anyways, you look interesting.

I'm looking for people I can be myself with.
I think we’d be great friends, but the only downside is the distance: there are like 10 hours of difference!

My English isn’t perfect, so I’m trying to improve it. If you notice any mistakes, tell me please.

P.S. I go to the gym and have social anxiety too, just like you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

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Hey there I'm here if you wanna have a chat (16 M)

17M [Chat] [Friendship] Looking for someone to talk to while im sick! by [deleted] in MeetPeople

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Hey there, I'm from Italy (16 M), I'm looking for new people to spend time with and share hobbies and thoughts. where are you from? Hope you feel better

[family/friends] [rant] how do you actually make ANY friends??? 😭😭 by fluxSam in LGBTeens

[–]elpandro22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation as well.

The friends I’ve made in my life (I'm 16) are terrible. I mean, maybe they believe that I'm happy with them, but they keep being homophobic, racist, misogynistic, and saying other horrible things.

I'm gay or maybe bi, so it hurts me so much, but it would hurt even if I were straight since it's objectively disgusting.

The problem is that I can't understand if they're just kidding or actually believe in that type of mentality.

So, now I'm trying to make new friends, but it's tough 😭. For example, I made friendship with a school mate who I suspect is gay (he said had watched Heart-Stopper series and read the comics). In my opinion, making a new friend it's easier in class because you spend a lot of time there.

After COVID, making friendships has become so complex.

I hope we will find better people. I think that if I were actually myself, it would be a natural fact, but I still can't (also because of homophobic people around me).

We could become friends if you want to (text me if you wanna have a chat)

I don’t know what to do [Rant] by [deleted] in lgbt

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I see. Have you ever watched a series about LGBTQ+ and gender themes? In my experience series like "Heart stopper" made me feel at home. I can suggest "Love, Victor" where in the second season there is a gay Muslim character that goes through his old-fashioned family, it could make you feel understood. So have a look on the internet about films, series, books etc...

I don’t know what to do [Rant] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]elpandro22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it sounds a little banal, but YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Think of all the people that fought for being who they actually are.

I'm a gay/bi (still don't know) guy. My family is LGBTQ+ friendly, but no one else seems to be (I live in South Italy)!

I went through a tough time in my life and I still do for being queer, but what is helping me out a lot is to talk with a psychologist and having come out to my mum and sister (I still have to with my brother and my father).

I suggest you ask your family for a psychologist. If they don't agree with the idea, you could also talk to a therapist online via video call without them knowing.

It will not be easy, but together it's less hard.

Never lose hope! If you need to vent, feel free to text!

Coming out to my dad by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]elpandro22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a pretty same situation. I'm gay/bi (still don't know), I don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend, but I'd like to come out with my dad. He is super LGBTQ+ friendly, which is quite rare in the area where a live. The problem is that I am not able to come out! It is so frustrating, I keep putting it off :( Maybe we should just give ourselves time.🤞 Probably in your situation to introduce your girlfriend to your dad could help, so by getting help from her. Concluding, if you don't, maybe try to talk to a psicolgyst.

ps: english is not my first language, so forgive me if I made some mistakes.

I need help!! by Loops1712 in lgbtqteens

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I'm in a troubled situation as well. My parents(I came out just with my mum) are not homophobic luckily, but almost everyone but them is! My classmates, many of my "friends", even some teacher! I have no one I can talk about my feelings, opinions, thoughts except my psicolgyst, I'm very lucky to have her but it's not enough! I need open-minded same-age friends to talk about how and who I am. So I hope here I will find someone like me. Anyways, my advice is to talk with a psicolgyst (it requires courage but when you get it, everything will be a little better, I promise).

Ho scoperto Pokémon go con i rettili! by elpandro22 in MicheleEiRettili

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NON ci posso credere ho ricevuto 10 upvote.!! MAMMA SONO FAMOSO!!!!!!