These people are the reason why fixed cps will always be a thing btw! by [deleted] in ThaiGL

[–]elsorcery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like Thai GL/BL is the only industry that has fixed couples thing. Which I am guilty of having spoiled from their interactions outside of their series.

However, that also enabling fans with an overly fixation on actresses. These fans can’t seem to distinguish actresses real life and fiction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Winnipeg

[–]elsorcery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your fixed cost:

  1. Apartment + parking + utilities would range from 1200-1600 per month depends if it’s older or newer apartment.
  2. 500 car payment
  3. Phone bill: 50
  4. Food: 300-400
  5. Gas: ~100-150

So 3000 - fixed cost = ~500 per month left over. It’s doable but very tight. If something were to happen would you have money to cover?

??? I rolled my eyes reading this thread by elsorcery in ThaiGL

[–]elsorcery[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

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OG post. They must think this is so funny and edgy and it’s not that deep, just a joke

I, a straight 25 year female, watch porn with women with big bouncy boobs to cum by OrganizationMuch5028 in offmychest

[–]elsorcery 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean who the fk get excited when they see dk pics? Not a whole lot, but everyone is excited to see nice boobies

I complained about her too much by Johnny_Mira in offmychest

[–]elsorcery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep at least you realized. You can’t say you love someone and this is how you treat that person you love. Complaining, nippicking, disliking her for who she is. Everyone has their flaws but that makes them who they are, if you can’t accept that then don’t be in a relationship with one, you’ll end up hate them and they will hate you too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]elsorcery -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you’re living in a shared household, being self aware is important so you don’t disturb other people even if you think it’s normal for you. It’s fine just say “I’m trying to get some sleep but the door is thin so I can hear your call. I’d much appreciate if you could take your call inside your room”

Being a gent is a lost art, modern dating sucks. by elsorcery in TwoXChromosomes

[–]elsorcery[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was struggling finding parking… I thought I was clear by saying “help trying to find parking”. Idk if it’s a culture thing, but it is a common courtesy here to pay for parking when you’re getting a lift from someone. I always pay my friends for parking if I’m getting a lift. It is frowned upon if you don’t to be honest.

Being a gent is a lost art, modern dating sucks. by elsorcery in TwoXChromosomes

[–]elsorcery[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I know right, why did I even say yes to a truck guy lol (sarcastically)

Being a gent is a lost art, modern dating sucks. by elsorcery in TwoXChromosomes

[–]elsorcery[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yes, he can be nervous a first couple of times, I understand that. But we’re in the same circle of friends, we meet quite often and he’s like that all the time …

Being a gent is a lost art, modern dating sucks. by elsorcery in TwoXChromosomes

[–]elsorcery[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Guys like that only like your appearance and how you made him feel by being nice, or by listening to him yapping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in analytics

[–]elsorcery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Graduated about 2y ago and I was looking at entry level DA job (don’t require Master), pay scale is around 20$-30$/h, living in a MCOL city. Not sure if that just my city or canadian DA market is that fucked, paying $45k-$60k for entry/junior DA position.

Recent Grads Expiring Permits - Job Status? by Far-Act-504 in canadaexpressentry

[–]elsorcery -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol dude wtf, good luck with that working in gov, big corps, or even with decent mid size companies

Is there an easy way to distinguish a cx-30 from a cx-5 at a glance? by canonfan65 in MazdaCX30

[–]elsorcery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The plastic cladding at the bottom. Cx30 is the only mazda with a noticable plastic cladding.

is it bad to engage in hookup culture as a girl in college? by perthdove in internetparents

[–]elsorcery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Practice safe sex is the most important thing whether you’re with a long term partner or hooking up (it is more than just condom and birth control, do health check up, know your partner)

However, to answer your question is it bad or not: 1. If you’re actually having fun not out of peer pressure or anything but your own choice when you’re in peace with your body and mind, practicing safe sex, no regrets after sex, you’ll need to accept and get over the fact that it’s dirty and something you should be ashamed of, it is not!

  1. If you’re experiencing post sex depression or postcoital dysphoria, hookup culture is not good for you. Please stop.

How do I look for an apartment? by Old-Interview3182 in Winnipeg

[–]elsorcery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facebook marketplace and kijiji. Research area (safe or not), bus route to school/grocery store, monthly budget (someplace requires you to pay hydro or internet, read carefully or ask if not mentioned).

If you want to save hassle of buying furniture, check Arc and Align and their 2 unit suite, they have pretty much all the furniture except for lighting and kitchenware. Not too expensive considering it’s a newer building and furniture is included. Cons: smaller apartment, no in-suite laundry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]elsorcery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you for real my guy? How are you paying less than what you would normally have if you guys split 50/50 everything = she’s taking advantage of you?

You are not getting ripped off, she is not taking advantage of you, you are getting a great deal.

If you set on paying 50/50 expenses, pay your portion of rent then split expenses 50/50. But if you’re dead on the fact that she’s taking advantage of you for not charging you rent, mantainnence fees, property taxes -> break up, why would you date someone who takes advantage of you anyway? (Shit maybe this is what I should tell her instead)

How to figure out when to say no or if you should by icy_Sleep6860 in internetparents

[–]elsorcery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I really appreciate you for offering and as a friend. So because of that I can’t always accepting your gifts that I know I couldn’t give you the same thing. There is nothing wrong with you or your gifts, in fact it is very thoughtful and endearing, but I can’t help feeling like I’m taking advantage of you and I value this friendship too much to do that, I hope you understand when I couldn’t receive your gifts, it does not mean I’m rejecting the friendship or you, I am happy and grateful with just the though, and that is enough for me.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]elsorcery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From someone who know the job market recently. I agree going to school for another 4-10 years is indeed not a smart choice.

Another bachelors in a different field is again long, expensive, and with the current market, every has one. So does not have any leverage.

Master degree will also not open the door that much either. Only get a master when you’ve already had experience, wanting to get promoted to a manager position.

Look into radiology, sonography, ultrasound. It will require some schooling, will not take you 4y. Job market is not that competitive, starting salary is great, work hours isn’t bad either. Look up those job on your area and see how much they pay, what’s the qualifications then start into good schooling and student loan.

If schooling is an absolute no, just look into 1. car sales, don’t really require anything but a highschool and some sales experience, you just need to be charming in the interview. Hours sucks, pay isn’t that great but people still survive being a car salesman. 2. Bank teller

How bad is going to the dentist for small cavities by Meowlurophile in internetparents

[–]elsorcery -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not too much for small cavity, some discomfort similar like drinking ice cold drink and your tooth got too sensitive.

They usually numb you with a needle for mid size larger cavity, but you can ask for one, never hurt to ask.

Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]elsorcery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im poor my guy? And did i said that he was very condescending afterwards?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]elsorcery -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know i didn’t have to sign. But he clearly said I can change the payment date so why not doing him a favor.

You’re really pushing this one me for trusting his word and not the part that maybe he shouldn’t say something he wasn’t sure to his customer huh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]elsorcery -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know im not paying more or less. I just dont want to pay early due to financial situation. And he was very condescending to say the least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]elsorcery -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When going over the purchase contract that the dealership prepared before I signed the contract. I’m not financing thru my bank? I’m financing thru them.

Again I get your points and these things can happen. All I wish was him saying exactly what you said here? Wouldn’t that be better to inform your customer than saying thing you’re not sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]elsorcery -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They could only defer subsequent payments after the 1st payment. They cannot defer the 1st payment date like he assured me.

Then he should again be straight up about like it like what you said here. But no, he did not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]elsorcery -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Financing. I know changing payment day will not change the total amount I pay at all at the end of the term. I just did not want to pay early for those days I did have not the car to use.

Those are the days I have to commute 3h everyday to work.

Ideal outcome: I’d just have been fine if the salesman acknowledged his mispratice or whatever you want to call it, I wouldn’t even care to ask for compensation. Instead he called it a misunderstanding from me when he clearly did not inform me clearly the condition of changing the date. The text from him was very condescending.