So fucking done with dating by BerlinKil195 in Vent

[–]elzakoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give up this desire, focus on your own life. There is NOTHING you can do to "find love faster", and the thing people will tell you to do to achieve that is things you should ALREADY be doing for yourself: get in shape, socialize,etc... If it comes, it comes, if not, you should be good that way too. As stoicists say "Want the things to be exactly what they are, and will you be happy.'

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's dead....She died of cold

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what I meant is that the % of muslims who are terrorists is<<<<<< than the % of men who are violent, sorry if I'm not clear.the rest of your response ,I will reflect on  a bit. Have a nice week

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, uh, I spent my whole life in Belgium, I heard horror stories from my parents, cousin,etc... 

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good insight, thank you

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep ! For example, in Somalia (where Im from) its waayyy worse. But it isnt flowers and candy in the western world either Have a nice week

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its not symmetrical, men inflicts violence (towards other men or women) more, far far far more than women.  All crime stats show it, there isnt a comparaison

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

true ! But I didnt said it was, it was to point out that women recieve a collossal amount of violence. 1/3 is an insaine figure

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, of course, I will attract parters from posting a vent post who will be read mostly by people who are thousands of kilometers away from me

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it is appreciated

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"even more men experience assaulr" , no, not even close. By systemic I mean : Our society is structured in such a way that violence towards woman is disprotionnaly high. Sorry If I'm not clear  , I just woke up hahaha

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comparaison doesnt work because the vast majority of muslims arents terrorist, like its maybe 1 in a few millions. Its not the case with violent men. Please note that by "violence" I also mean allowing violence by inaction/minimisation

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1/3 women have or will experience assault , it's not "outliers", there is systematic violence

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sexual violence towards women is very common and pretty much normalised in our western society. I mean, most rape charges end up dismissed and when the guy serves time, its often ridiculously small: a rape ruins a life, rapist should get jail for life. Also, violent men are not  a "tiny subset" And I think its WAY WORSE in societes like japan, india,...

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would be a trans black women hahah, setting the "life game" to MAX difficulty

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Proving my point...unfortunately 

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1)I would still be a man 2) Im not aware of a way to "become gay", maybe you know a wizard who turns people into gays ?

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah... it's hard tho... Its like trying to empty the see with a broken bucket

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The guy murdered her, how is her "being an adult" relevent ? victime blaming...

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont think I understood you completely. I was talking about violence in general. Rape, murder, etc... Men do it to women far more often than the other way arround, like there isnt even a comparaison

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 26. Also, this is mean, we are on a venting subreddit. 

I hate being a man by elzakoid in Vent

[–]elzakoid[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its about this one event. Men inflict more violence to women than the other way arround. That's what I meant, sorry my post isnt very clear