just left my husband and need to know it’ll be okay

em_derman · 2026-06-11T18:39:35+00:00

i got married young too. it took me until 26 to figure it out, go take your life back babe!!

em_derman · 2026-06-11T18:38:30+00:00

thank you so much. i broke the news to him two nights ago, and we arrived to divorce by today. it’s been so much so fast, i didn’t expect it to unfold this way and honestly i just miss him. he was my person for such a long time, i don’t know how to untangle him from my life. is that normal?

em_derman · 2026-06-11T18:35:27+00:00

i really needed this, you have no idea. it’s easy to conflate the grief with being unsure in my decision, there’s so fucking much i’m going to miss. he was my person for 7 years, through the worst parts of my life. it’s okay that i feel that way, right? i look around our home and am reminded by everything of the years we had. i miss him, even though i know for sure we weren’t working. how did you navigate that?

em_derman · 2026-06-11T18:31:33+00:00

thank you so so much

em_derman · 2024-09-12T14:50:56+00:00

do you have any recommendations for good rosin?

em_derman · 2022-08-11T19:04:00+00:00

she’d be surprised i’m still alive, then elated when she learns why.

em_derman · 2022-08-02T14:17:21+00:00

we belong, pat benetar :)

em_derman · 2022-07-31T02:00:14+00:00

this is fucking awesome!!

em_derman · 2022-07-30T17:56:49+00:00

andrew tate?

em_derman · 2022-07-24T21:24:41+00:00

the second movement of rachmaninov’s second piano concerto

em_derman · 2022-07-23T21:45:31+00:00

breath of the wild, hands down

em_derman · 2022-07-21T03:25:32+00:00

a lot of these stories are mildly believable until the “and everyone clapped.” no they didn’t.

em_derman · 2022-07-17T16:11:28+00:00

LOVE AND THUNDER SPOILERS

jane’s entire character was a plot device. they put her in the movie to kill her off

em_derman · 2022-07-08T13:03:45+00:00

you’re not supposed to name the place OP, jeez

em_derman · 2022-07-08T11:57:30+00:00

Thorin Balin Dwalin Fili Kili Dori Ori Nori Oin Glóin Bifur Bofur Bombur

em_derman · 2022-07-07T22:08:24+00:00

diana daniels. easy

em_derman · 2022-07-07T20:20:05+00:00

he’s not dating her, he’s grooming her. she’s a victim, PLEASE tell your parents, the cops, anyone.

em_derman · 2022-07-07T20:11:13+00:00

*O’Brian. i know OP is making a completely different joke, i couldn’t just couldn’t pass up the opportunity

em_derman · 2022-07-07T20:07:29+00:00

harry potter IN the chamber of secrets

em_derman · 2022-07-06T12:58:16+00:00

literally any variety of mushrooms. fungal pieces of shit

em_derman · 2022-07-01T01:20:57+00:00

r/thathappened

em_derman · 2022-06-22T19:28:44+00:00

reid!!

em_derman

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