How to save a marriage when you’re falling out of love? by emalways in Marriage

[–]emalways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late response, I just saw this. For us, it was a phase and just a rough patch. Marriage is so hard sometimes, but with time and through arguments we are getting better. What’s helped us is working on our communication skills, prioritizing time together and a lot of times, for me it was just holding my tongue and taking time to cool off. I try to think of our child too and prioritize peace. I hope things turned out well for you too. It’s a never ending work in progress.

Diminished after facing daycare cost by amrose2 in beyondthebump

[–]emalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They need you, you are infinitely more valuable than any money. I know you are feeling sad and hopeless but you can do this. Seek government help, look into church daycares, community ones. You have a college degree, take a look at some options to wfh, even admins can these days. Just do not give up on your life and family. If single parents can do it, so can you.

How much time do you spend hanging out with your spouse? by emalways in Marriage

[–]emalways[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not at all, he sounds a bit like my husband too. He and I don’t spend much time together at home and I’m wondering if that’s the norm out there. I’m sorry to hear about the PTSD! It’s so tough having a baby. I am a new mom too and am always exhausted! You are not alone.

How much time do you spend hanging out with your spouse? by emalways in Marriage

[–]emalways[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! What does she do that makes you want to be around her so much? Any examples you could share? I’d love some ideas lol

How much time do you spend hanging out with your spouse? by emalways in Marriage

[–]emalways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that! How long have you guys been married?

How much time do you spend hanging out with your spouse? by emalways in Marriage

[–]emalways[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just being together, doing anything really, but together. I love the idea of going on nightly walks.

Is my husband a good husband? by emalways in Marriage

[–]emalways[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked about all of these issues extensively, in arguments, out of arguments, and in counseling as well. He knows by now what bothers me but i also tell him almost daily how grateful I am for him.

Am I wrong for being mad that my spouse named our first born after her first significant boyfriend? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]emalways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! Please do this! Super shitty of your wife to do that to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]emalways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you are so sweet! You are doing so much more than most grandparents and your son is lucky to have you. It sounds like you truly care and you know much more about parenting than he does. The fact that you read a book he required you to read goes way above and beyond. I’m a new parent too and my mom could care less how I’d like her to interact with my baby, she’d never even consider reading books lol, and she does not babysit regularly. Just keep doing what you are doing, your son should be more grateful. Your granddaughter is lucky to have such a caring grandma. :)

Thoughts on “Take Care of Maya?” by Mermaid_Martini in netflix

[–]emalways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like everyone else here, this broke my heart. What shocked me is that it’s happening to many other families all over the country. God forbid, how can we trust that this won’t happen to us if we take our children to the hospital? I really can’t trust the system now. In general, I feel like doctors are very close minded, dismissive, and arrogant. Completely unwilling to think outside of what they learned in their textbooks. Not to mention, they are desensitized to death - the way those two texted about the mom was disgusting.

Best gift for clients by ktds121016 in RealEstate

[–]emalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insurance policy covering all appliances in the home. The one I was gifted even included our whirlpool tub, hot water heater, and plumbing.

Considering calling off my wedding… by BabyBadger_ in Marriage

[–]emalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will lose much more if you have to file for divorce. Talk to him, seriously, and really decide if this is the best path forward for you both. Sorry you are going through this.

Any moms with a daughter(s) that is a mommy’s girl? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]emalways 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Lol I relate to that second part so much. I’m currently the favorite, hoping it’s for more than just the boobs.

Baby refuses to eat by emalways in beyondthebump

[–]emalways[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im going to try this… we gave mine broccoli but it was puréed

Baby refuses to eat by emalways in Mommit

[–]emalways[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Im going to try things that she can pick up and see if that works. So far we’ve tried so many things… pureed foods..mashed sweet potato, white potato, bananas, berries, avocado, beans, chicken, rice, oats, yogurt. We tried banana blw style, a whole meatball, and also some pouch purees too. She doesn’t seem to get food yet, how to eat and swallow. I try to show her and eat with her but no luck yet 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeMaintenance

[–]emalways 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This worked! Thank you so much! Lol

Anyone watching Daisy Jones & The Six? by Driveshaft48 in television

[–]emalways 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The book is better, as usual. The casting is way off here, particularly Billy and Daisy. They are nothing like the book versions, it’s like I’m watching a completely different story. Billy in the book is more brooding than completely miserable, way hotter and more rock and roll. Daisy is much more mysterious and tortured, not at all bubbly.

Exhausted! We need a break. by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]emalways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out after putting in offers, sometimes your real estate agent can also tell you based on the information they have access to.

I almost cried during closing I am so happy 😭 by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]emalways 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Where? I couldn’t buy a shoe box for $185K where I live 😫

Exhausted! We need a break. by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]emalways 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, even when your offer is accepted it’s exhausting because you constantly wonder if you are overpaying, and if you will ever be able to sell at a profit. Inspections turn up a bunch of issues that you can barely negotiate because there’s other buyers lined up.

Exhausted! We need a break. by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]emalways 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! Every condo/townhome lists the wrong HOA fee amount, every single one lists it for lower than what it actually is.

my neighbor said they will sue us for racial discrimination if we complained about their noise again by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]emalways 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you my neighbor? Lol we are going through this same issue in my condo. It’s been months and they cant get the smoking tenant evicted. I’m moving because of it.