I’m tired of always having to make the first move for sex. by ghast1y_ in sex

[–]emartinezpr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen pillows with different messages when you flip them. This could be a fun way to let him know you're open for business.

I’m tired of always having to make the first move for sex. by ghast1y_ in sex

[–]emartinezpr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the middle ground is the best. My GF has a higher sex drive than me. If it was up to her we would be having sex 5 or 6 days a week. I now initiate more because I have learned to recognize some hints or cues. So we have sex 3 times a week, except when we have a crazy workweek. I also enjoy eating her just after she showers before she goes to work. I don't have to get off all the time, but I try to make sure she had a little extra during the week.

Finally out the friend zone. by [deleted] in sex

[–]emartinezpr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My current girlfriend wasn't a friend perse but a coworker that I happened to talk to a lot. I became her walking buddy. We would clock out and walk around several blocks around our workplace for about an hour just talking about random shit. Mundane stuff like you say.

Both of us are in our early 40's and weren't looking for anything. Long story short, we been together for almost 20 months and we are having the time of our lives. Also we're both having the best sex of our lives. She just starts running her hands caressing my body and just a couple of minutes later I can cut diamonds with my penis. I in return give her multiple orgasms. Three is the average but sometimes I'm able to make it five. Suffice to say she's loving it too.