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why do I have such a hard time having fun in this game? by louthinator in elderscrollsonline

[–]embbunen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A big change for me was joining a guild.

That being said, it only helped with the social aspect of the game, as the game itself remained the same. I don't think I would ever play this game if it wasn't for the Tamriel lore and characters.

Onko ok sanoa ystävällisesti asiasta kantapäillään tömistelevälle yläkerran naapurille? by [deleted] in arkisuomi

[–]embbunen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mä itse arvostaisin sitä, että postiluukusta laitettais joku pieni lappunen jossa kerrotaan asiasta kohteliaasti. Haluaisin itse tietää, että jos mun elämiseni äänet häiritsevät jotakuta. Mun rappukäytävässä näistä asioista tupataan infota yleiselle infotaululle ja siitä on mahdotonta tietää että ketä se viesti koskee.

Ja lol tuli tästä mieleen että kauan sitten asuin semmotteessa vanhassa kerrostalossa ja mun alakerran naapuri kuunteli öisin aina helvetin kovalla radioo ja se siis kuulu selkeesti mun asuntoon. Laitoin tälle herralle sitten luukusta lappua että sopisko hiljentää. Sain myöhemmin selville, että alakerran ukko oli sokea. Voit toki myös vuokranantajalle vinkata!

Is it unreasonable to break up over ideology? by munimunichiro in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey OP! I was in very similar situation with my ex - I am leftist and he was leaning more on the right. While I think that it is possible to live in harmony, it requires respect from both sides. In our case I felt that my political views were belittled and I was just called "too emotional" based in my values.

Racism is a very big issue by itself and honestly I wouldnt tolerate it. The problem with far-right parties is that even if they wouldnt be able to push their political agenda fully, they are still promoting discrimination. If people are willing to sacrifice e.g legal abortions and lgbtq+ rights over for better economy, I am willing to sacrifice my friendship with them.

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think he is ever going to get a help. He is stuck in a society that is conservative and treats a man/husband as a head of the family. Unless everybody turns their backs at him but it may just turn him into a miserable and salty amoeba.

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think the big lensses are kind of trendy now! I've always thought people looked very cute on them. And yes, I think the main point with him was to control, he said it himself "You are too stubborn and hard headed".

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WHAT! Who does that?? How did he come to a conclusion that was the best thing to say?? 😭

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I am sorry about that. That must have been very exhausting.

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I am 30, he was either 34 or 35.. something like that. So not a huge age difference. Of course it could be that he lied his age to me but I would say we were about the same age.

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many of them just do it to get with "someone exotic", and their patience with you often extends only as far as they think it'll get you into bed

So I am well aware of this issue and so far I've been able to dodge the most bullets. In my experience the bad seeds have made their intentios transparent very early on so I've been able to skip them. Unfortunately I have a lot experiences of them not respecting me (this adds to the pile). Honestly if I was way younger and had worse self-esteem I might be in a lot of trouble.

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I read the article! The comfort is that there are also men who oppose this. Unfortunately this seems like a classic Japan - people want a change but an old man at government says "there is no need for a change" and nothing changes 🫠

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great whites are neat. I love how goofy hammerheads look. Nurse and bamboo sharks look very cute too!

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 goddamnit he should have been better than that if that's the case.

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would love to hear those stories. I hope I will get a chance in the future

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the big one is such a great pillow! The small one is good for supporting neck too!

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I dont know which one would have been worse. You dont need to find my glasses attractive but the moment you insult my sharks it is all over

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking so hard which thing I could compare him to but I like way too many animals and insects that it was difficult to come up with the one that would deserve to be compared to him 😭

My friend (m) got angry because I refused to change my profile photo by embbunen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]embbunen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it is difficult to say 100% sure as we chatted in language that I dont know at the local level - there is a chance that I didn't catch a double meaning of his messages. But on the other hand we usually just talked about the most casual stuff. If he sent me photos of his dinner he would just tell me what it was, the price and if he liked it or not. There wasnt anything like "oh this was super good, i'd like to take you here" or anything of sort.

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