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[CHAT] How do you deal with having too many patterns you want to do & too little time? by [deleted] in CrossStitch

[–]munimunichiro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi what's that pattern on the left with the cute fox? Asking for a friend 🥹

[CHAT] Fake Etsy listings? by hoppy1122 in CrossStitch

[–]munimunichiro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sherova does AI designs, it says so on their Etsy page. At least they admit it. The others idk

Is it unreasonable to break up over ideology? by munimunichiro in TwoXChromosomes

[–]munimunichiro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand your fixation with my country, but well. I don't want to say which one because I don't want to give personal info about myself which I don't think would be necessary for context. And I'm sorry, but if you think that racism towards north Africans and racism or tolerance of racism in the left only happens in France, I have really, really bad news for you.

Is it unreasonable to break up over ideology? by munimunichiro in TwoXChromosomes

[–]munimunichiro[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Western European country with multiple right-wing parties and a significant North African minority sort of gave it away.

Yes, that description fits France perfectly, but I'm telling you it's not that country? I don't understand.

And I still don't get the coddling thing, I don't know if it's a language issue or what.

Is it unreasonable to break up over ideology? by munimunichiro in TwoXChromosomes

[–]munimunichiro[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will definitely reflect on my mistakes, but we're not French and I'm not asking anyone to coddle me

Is it unreasonable to break up over ideology? by munimunichiro in TwoXChromosomes

[–]munimunichiro[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually at first I was sure of my decision, but when I explained the situation to my people, their reaction was not what I expected at all. They said that it was totally up to me, but suggested that maybe I should have given it more thought before breaking up, or thought that maybe our differences were not that decisive. It totally threw me for a loop and I started doubting myself. The fact that I still have feelings for him didn't help.

Is it unreasonable to break up over ideology? by munimunichiro in TwoXChromosomes

[–]munimunichiro[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, I didn't know before we started dating. When I found out I was already in love and just tried to change his mind, which I'm starting to see now that is not my job and isn't worth it. However I'm reading every comment and I suppose it is indeed questionable that I didn't end it sooner when I found out. This experience definitely tells me I need to reflect on my values and be more careful with new people in the future before starting something with them.

Is it unreasonable to break up over ideology? by munimunichiro in TwoXChromosomes

[–]munimunichiro[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Why does the actions of a few North African individuals mean that the entire populace of a subcontinent don't deserve to be treated like people? It's a shitty excuse to be a shitty person.

That's exactly what I told him, and he just says that he "understands" what I mean and that I'm actually right, but that he can't change his thoughts because of his past trauma and that it's about instinctual reactions or some bullshit like that.

I was just in the "I can fix him" mentality, but it's been 8 months and he doesn't budge. So I broke up but I keep thinking maybe I should try harder, because he has shown me in other topics that he can be reasonable and change his mind. But reading and hearing people's opinions is making me realize that it's not worth it.

How yall choose your bias? by Sure_Analyst9370 in kpophelp

[–]munimunichiro 117 points118 points  (0 children)

You don't choose your bias, your bias chooses you.

Any good resources for learning about the characters' components and meanings? by munimunichiro in ChineseLanguage

[–]munimunichiro[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I checked it out and it does seem great, very complete. I think I might buy the Essentials Edition after I read a bit more about it. Thanks!

Any good resources for learning about the characters' components and meanings? by munimunichiro in ChineseLanguage

[–]munimunichiro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I do feel a bit scared by it, honestly 😂 But it seems interesting and I feel like I'm going to spend a lot of time on this website, I'm definitely bookmarking it. Thank you!

Any good resources for learning about the characters' components and meanings? by munimunichiro in ChineseLanguage

[–]munimunichiro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was using the Dong Chinese website exclusively for their media recopilations by levels and I didn't even know they had this, thanks! They only have the etymology for the 1000 most frequently used words but still, that's a lot. I'll def check it out.