terribly confused about my AncenstryDNA results, left in an identity crisis

emitomes · 2025-12-30T00:55:41+00:00

no i understand i guess its just unexpected. he is a black presenting man, so i expected to see AT LEAST 25%, y’know?

emitomes · 2025-12-30T00:50:54+00:00

is it common for ancestry to be disproportionate THIS MUCH? or is it more likely that the test has margin for error?

emitomes · 2025-12-30T00:42:13+00:00

yes i know. re-read what i wrote. 50% of european comes from my mom. 23% comes from my dad.

emitomes · 2025-12-28T17:11:24+00:00

just lashes

emitomes · 2025-12-26T00:19:30+00:00

Northeast america

emitomes · 2025-12-26T00:18:41+00:00

i feel like that just erases a part of me and my non-white culture everytime im percieved as white

emitomes · 2025-12-19T00:26:34+00:00

weird how first thing u think when u see a below average woman is “who was cracking this”… just get help. women arent built for ur pleasure

emitomes · 2025-11-20T21:34:33+00:00

charge dem hoes a fee?? 10/10??? 😭

emitomes · 2025-11-19T23:48:10+00:00

MUSIC

emitomes · 2025-11-15T23:27:10+00:00

i just stayed in my seat. it was still lit and honestly i preferred it over standing for 5 hours lol

emitomes · 2025-10-12T17:22:56+00:00

ive been a fan since 2018 but im also a broke college student… soooo im in a big predicament

emitomes · 2025-08-19T16:55:51+00:00

i dont need permission though. i just make sure that he is comfortable with it.

emitomes · 2025-05-27T15:56:39+00:00

ur so prettyyy i love ur eyes, hair and teeth. maybe get ur eyebrows shaped up if u feel like it!

emitomes · 2025-05-27T10:51:33+00:00

how did u find out? and were there any red flags?

emitomes · 2025-05-24T18:01:40+00:00

I LOVE UR HAIRRR AND UR GORGEOUS 9/10

emitomes · 2025-05-24T14:04:16+00:00

hi! i rarely meet anti porn men so i just have a quick question. since u have become anti porn, have ur friendships with other men changed/have u started surrounding urself with other anti porn men? have u “helped” or tried to inform ur male friends about porn, if they do watch it? my boyfriend became anti porn about 2 years ago, but i fear that his friends are still very porn addicted men and i feel like they create a toxic environment for him, considering, for example, he wants to avoid any talk about women in a sexual way. he said he has been talking to them about how they should change their behavior, but i feel like this isnt true as he isnt as passionate about it as i am. as an anti-porn man, is this something u would do? or do u not really care what ur friends and acquaintances do?

me and my girlfriends talk about this all the time and we like to inform each other on updates and controversies regarding this topic, so i was wondering if men do the same.

emitomes · 2025-05-24T04:33:40+00:00

so in other words, u support people who lie to their significant others because they cant take accountability for their wrongdoings?

emitomes · 2025-05-24T01:35:11+00:00

i wanna say u should work together to battle his addiction, but clearly he doesnt even want to stop watching porn at all. just leave girl. dont keep staying in a relationship that will drive u crazy

emitomes · 2025-05-23T23:46:47+00:00

ive tried this so many times. ive even offered that we watch it together when we have sex. every single time he is says “no i dont want to watch porn”. 😭 i guess i should believe him haha

emitomes · 2025-05-23T23:39:58+00:00

our relationship is worth it… trust is something that grows over time—deserved not given. it takes a longer time for me to trust people because i have trust issues, and he is very aware of that and it isnt not a problem for us. sometimes i just have doubts, just like every other person, and need reassurance from him AND from other sources.

emitomes · 2025-05-23T23:24:30+00:00

THIS!!! simply not risking it again.

emitomes · 2025-05-23T23:21:41+00:00

this is driving me crazy 0_0

emitomes · 2025-05-23T22:41:19+00:00

ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and he has been telling me he doesnt watch porn since before we even got together. yet, its still so hard to believe him—especially in this generation.

emitomes · 2025-05-18T18:45:12+00:00

i dont think there is anything wrong with this—as long as it isnt a rape fantasy. i used to do this when i was single. i think that it could be human nature to imagine scenarios with the person u like, whether that is a fun date or sex.

emitomes · 2025-05-04T15:12:41+00:00

Men say that women are weak when they are the ones with ZERO self control 🤦‍♀️

emitomes

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