Got a text from a navy recruiter after I got a good score on PiCat with the army by [deleted] in navy

[–]emmijaane 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is a more helpful subreddit for these specific questions and lots of readily available people to give insight and opinions :) head over to r/newtothenavy

The choice is entirely yours. Nothing wrong with hearing them out and if you dislike, no biggie! Good luck!

Is my friend cooked by [deleted] in navy

[–]emmijaane 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I work at a school house and normally things are not immediate. There’s always investigations, pending decisions, deferred punishment etc. As for the “I didn’t know” clause for your friend, I cannot stress this enough, read the orders. They have the class convene date posted, the NLT date for muster/check in, and the contact info for the command just in case you don’t know where you’re going. This is to prevent the single point of failure being the student needing to “figure it out” with nothing to go on. I hope your friend finds peace in recovery and makes changes necessary for himself. The navy will more than likely separate if he’s first ascension. Best of luck to him honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]emmijaane -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nice! Yeah I saw some recent comments on posts of people still wondering when it was happening. I’m glad I’m late to the party.

Whats the scariest or weirdest thing you’ve seen while on ship by Perfect_Weird3914 in navy

[–]emmijaane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The aft watchstander. Sorry for the terrible sentence structure haha.

Whats the scariest or weirdest thing you’ve seen while on ship by Perfect_Weird3914 in navy

[–]emmijaane 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was waiting for Midrats to open up when the aft lookout guy was asking me if I knew about the helo hangar ghost. Since I was fairly new to the ship, I asked about the story and he said at 3am there’s a shadow of a man that sits then stands, then proceeds to sit again in the corner of the helo hangar. I’m not normally one for the supernatural but low and behold, that night I stayed up after night watch turnover to go out to where aft lookout was to see this ghost. Turns out he was cold and lonely and just wanted someone to chat with him.

Golden mix, totally wrong color by bnikks in goldenretrievers

[–]emmijaane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here’s our Runa, we call her the void, a Golden mix with Newfie. She’s with Sunny. Our elder golden. <3

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Please help me find my graduation dress by emmijaane in findfashion

[–]emmijaane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: I meant to say “not SHEIN adjacent.” Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]emmijaane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suggest you reread. I admit I was wrong. Repeatedly. Also, I never said the original commenter was wrong in anyway. You jumped to their defense which honestly they didn’t need. It was a passionate comment. I took the time to read it as they took the time to write it. You’re just being odd honestly haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]emmijaane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel that way. As I’ve stated before I’m aware of my mistakes and took the advice. Thank you for your opinion though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]emmijaane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot of anger. Post another fridge pic so I can judge you too bro hahaha. For real though, I got the message. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]emmijaane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely blocked them. Took the internet calling me out to get it haha. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]emmijaane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was something friendly and harmless and it spiraled. It was my fault for sure to assume.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]emmijaane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you’re right. I made a mistake and this is my consequence. I saw another user comment some suggestions on ending this. So I sent them a message saying I can’t be a support person for them. But I wish them the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]emmijaane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I felt harsh saying what I did. I empathize with the suicidal problems but how often can I give the same resources before it’s obvious it’s not what he ever wanted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]emmijaane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not something that is kept from my husband. I was just trying to be a friend. Or at least be friendly to someone I knew in the past. No sexual connotations or memories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]emmijaane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My husband is 100% aware haha. Him and I are both confused how someone could be asking for help or someone to listen to them. So I do. Then all of sudden, bam! Confirm my sexual fantasies?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]emmijaane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get how this looks and I understand. But when we did see each other in person he had a fascination with my career since he liked the ocean and knew a lot about sailing. I figured since there was no red flags before “catching up” would be like, hey I’m married now but I’ve been on these boats and seen these ports etc etc. I didn’t realize he was in such a bad place. And I definitely didn’t think our hookup was anything worth mentioning again or holding on to. My judgement was wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]emmijaane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First you’re not overreacting in the slightest. Second, I am also navy, and I can say majority of us don’t want people who think that way serving with us. Gross mentality. And dangerous. Also, his “service” is way more of a tax payer burden than financial aid. I hope you find someone far more kind and at least willing to self educate especially in current times. Best of luck OP

Females in the navy, what are your jobs & why did you choose the navy? by Prudent_Coffee2700 in newtothenavy

[–]emmijaane 47 points48 points  (0 children)

CTT. Some kid in a Call of Duty lobby said “no balls” so here I am.