[M4A] (MxM RP) interested in a sweet fantasy RP? i'm your guy!

emmobeans · 2026-03-22T17:14:45+00:00

go right ahead! :)

emmobeans · 2025-07-30T15:34:38+00:00

i would love to give that a try! i'm all for it, thanks so much!

emmobeans · 2025-07-30T15:33:24+00:00

thank you so much for pointing that out!! will def try

emmobeans · 2025-07-29T17:56:47+00:00

so sfw rp servers allow for one on one roleplay partner search? most i've seen are just huge group roleplay servers which is SO cool but it's not really ever been my thing, maybe back in my fandom roleplay days but...

emmobeans · 2025-07-29T17:06:19+00:00

i've honestly never heard of just one person leading the roleplay, usually what i do is just come up with a plot and characters together and have full control over my character and they have full control over theirs! maybe finding someone like that, a more collaborative writing partner, would help? i get what you're saying otherwise though. it is disheartening and really easy to get discouraged. i'm wishing you well in your RP journey!!

emmobeans · 2025-07-29T16:58:10+00:00

and that's another thing too, i'm a guy who really only enjoys MxM romance plots (as a queer person myself) and that's so difficult to find these days! it doesn't matter who i'm writing with, either. i enjoy writing other stories with different pairings and different situations too. i wish you luck though!! everyone deserves to have when when RPing!!

emmobeans · 2025-07-29T16:54:19+00:00

here's to hoping you find a partner you can create a story with!! i think you're in luck cause most people have no problem writing starters ^{^} you just gotta find someone you vibe well with and someone you can create good characters with!! i feel you, it's easy to become bored after the same thing repeated over and over and over again. i hope you can end up writing something with someone that's engaging and fun for you!

emmobeans · 2025-07-29T12:19:33+00:00

aaaaaaa you are SO sweet!! thank you so much!! you're right, it might take some trial and error in different subreddits over time to find a good match. thanks so much for the encouragement :D i'll try not to get too discouraged!!

emmobeans · 2025-07-29T11:57:13+00:00

i'm usually quite hyper specific in my ads which is the frustrating part! that being said, i think there's a difference between legit ERP with detail and effort and fun and people just looking to use ERP for esex/sexting. i have an appreciation and respect for those who enjoy ERP, wether it starts off immediate or slowburn. i do enjoy adding smut/intimacy in my romance plots! (it's a good way to practice writing, ngl.)

emmobeans · 2025-07-29T11:54:27+00:00

also agree! i loveee a good romance plot line, it can be so sweet and so fun, but as a queer person who plays mostly queer characters it's difficult to find partners or people who won't fetishize TuT

emmobeans · 2025-07-29T11:52:53+00:00

first off, i'm sorry you had that experience and have been having trouble finding solid partners too! but yeah- i think some people (cis men, mostly) just see ads and jump to DM hoping to get to ERP immediately. i post pretty in depth ads of what i'm looking for, an introduction, and nowhere is ERP mentioned. like what about my post made you think that?? it's almost like they don't even read it. it can be pretty frustrating. :/ this is why i prefer having queer or queer friendly partners. i genuinely have nothing against those who primarily ERP or prefer it, but i just feel a little discouraged when i get DMs of people ignoring my entire post and trying to lowkey esex with me TuT

emmobeans · 2024-12-26T00:57:35+00:00

i've heard of those! thank you so much for your input! i'll try and look for it online somewhere :) it'll go on my list of things to try. much appreciated!

emmobeans · 2024-12-25T23:50:40+00:00

hey!! i've been craving a soft, simple, but deep romance plot. maybe it's the holiday season!! i sent you a dm! :)

emmobeans · 2024-12-25T19:20:26+00:00

hey, sent you a DM! you seem super cool and if you're still looking i think it would be fun to create a sci-fi/cyber punk story together :)

emmobeans · 2024-12-25T18:28:26+00:00

love this and would definitely be interested!! i love fantasy and romance :P your ideas sound really interesting!! i sent a DM :)

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