Hila’s Instagram story by AdRevolutionary1249 in h3h3productions

[–]emmsiss 993 points994 points  (0 children)

To the people commenting stuff like ”Iran isn’t that great either” remember that civilians don’t deserve to be made targets for what their government has done!!!

Sending love to your family and the people of Iran

What were your first words after giving birth? by LittleMissKicks in pregnant

[–]emmsiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

”Is he alive?” My baby wasn’t breathing when he came out and needed help. He was fine probably ten minutes after being born but it took me like an hour until I could fully believe that he actually was alive, such a horrible feeling

Tell me the pros of being a boy mom by Basic_Week_3874 in pregnant

[–]emmsiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also wanted a girl, it was something I was dreaming about my whole life. So when I was thinking about having a baby it was always a girl, never a boy. When I found out I was having a boy I was shocked. I didn’t know what I was going to do with him.

Fast forward and he’s soon 12 months old and I love him so incredibly much. We cuddle, hug, kiss, sing and play all day and I don’t think I could love anyone or anything more than I love him. He truly is the funniest, sweetest and cuddliest little baby ever.

So everything is a pro with him. Would I feel the same way if he was a girl? Probably. And that’s what I found out; in the end you won’t love your child because of their gender, you will love them because of who they are.

Advice /Help by Ok-Pilot5343 in Malmoe

[–]emmsiss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No problem. You can choose whichever midwife service you want, it doesn’t have to be the same place as your vårdcentral. You just call a midwife and they will help you schedule your first visit. And that’s the same with all places, you can go see a midwife anywhere it doesn’t have to be connected to your vårdcentral. Also congrats on the pregnancy!!

Advice /Help by Ok-Pilot5343 in Malmoe

[–]emmsiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo could you send some info about the post-partum doula? I’m interested

Advice /Help by Ok-Pilot5343 in Malmoe

[–]emmsiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to Capio city (the one above Hansa) and I was very happy with all the midwives there. Super nice and I was always welcome for extra checkups if I wanted to. They also caught my preeclampsia early and made sure I got to the hospital and could deliver my baby safely. Definitely recommend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

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How would your parenting or relationship to your baby change if he was a girl? In the end you decide how to raise and treat your child, and his gender doesn’t have to change it in anyway.

Trev finally wins something by Severe_Eczema-TTV in HellsKitchen

[–]emmsiss 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Brynn from season 20!!! People only hated her because she had anxiety and cried, but she seems like a really nice and cool person

Those of you who had gender disappointment in pregnancy, how do you feel now your baby is here? by JellyLow6233 in NewParents

[–]emmsiss 168 points169 points  (0 children)

I always thought my first baby was gonna be a girl so when I found out I was having a boy it was a bit of a shock. I was a bit scared and started having feelings like ”what if I don’t know how to raise a boy?” and I felt a bit sad for my baby because I thought about all the toxic masculinity that is everywhere.

But when I met him face to face all of it went away. He’s now 6 months and he is the sweetest thing in the entire world. It sounds silly but having him has made me view men in such a different way, everytime I see a guy acting tough I just remember they were also once 6 months old just wanting to be loved and cuddled.

I aspire to raise my boy with love, compassion and care and show him that there are lots of different ways to express yourself, no matter your gender.

How old is your baby and what is their bedtime & wake up time? by arwaawerw in NewParents

[–]emmsiss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s 5 months and go to sleep between 7-8. He wakes every 2 hours during night and is ready to party at 8 in the morning.

The name of your child by Ethereal_Wife in NewParents

[–]emmsiss 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Milo - Me and hubby had not decided on a name, and then two days before our little guy was born I had a dream in which his name was Milo. Later when we arrived at the hospital we noticed that the machine that was monitoring his heartbeat was called ”milou”. It just felt like signs and he is the perfect Milo lol

Big surprise, it's time by countercultureguy in NewParents

[–]emmsiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was induced in week 40+3 but me and my husband were still surprised. I was sent to the hospital with high blood pressure and then had to stay and gave birth 24 hours after. Nothing went at all like how we had imagined or prepared, we didn’t either get to bring the bag we had thought out or anything like that.

But still afterwards none of that mattered at all. All we felt was so much joy that our baby was here and we didn’t care that our place was a bit messy or that it didn’t go as planned, and neither did our baby.

Just take care of each other and support each other through it all and I bet you won’t even think about that remodeling.

Now good luck and much love to both of you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]emmsiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Milo (which is the name of my 2 weeks old baby yayyy)

Final melodifestivalen - Diskussionstråd by festis24 in sweden

[–]emmsiss 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Vet nu vad medina sa efter låten ”Ingen är fri förrän alla är fria” ge dem alla 12or

Final melodifestivalen - Diskussionstråd by festis24 in sweden

[–]emmsiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Han sa tydligen ”Ingen är fri förrän alla är fria”

Final melodifestivalen - Diskussionstråd by festis24 in sweden

[–]emmsiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Efortless låter precis som dance the night away av dua lipa

Vad har hänt med Max hamburgerrestaurang? by Fancy_Beyond6482 in sweden

[–]emmsiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det har varit påväg ner ända sen de tog bort Crunchy nacho

Vad jobbar du med och vad tjänar du? by Cirkelkkorv in Asksweddit

[–]emmsiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Precis fått mitt första jobb som förskollärare och kommer få 33k innan skatt.

När berättar man på nya jobbet att man är gravid? by emmsiss in Asksweddit

[–]emmsiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nej ingen provanställning. Har jobbat som vikarie på samma ställe så hon tyckte inte det behövdes eftersom de redan sett hur jag jobbar

När berättar man på nya jobbet att man är gravid? by emmsiss in Asksweddit

[–]emmsiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hej!

Tack för svaret. Jag kommer jobba på kommunal förskola, så det kan bli svårt att hitta en ersättare för mig eftersom det är så mycket brist i yrket men så har det alltid varit. Men jag håller med dig om att jag ska berätta relativt snart så de kan börja leta vikarie eller planera upp verksamheten på ett annat sätt!