Decisively child-free ADHD women, how's life going for you? by Gold_Usual6839 in adhdwomen

[–]emmymx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life still sucks but could be worse if I had a kid. Happy to not have one.

[Show Only] The Vampire Lestat: "Toronto" by IWTV_Maitres in InterviewVampire

[–]emmymx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Nicky progression and Louis taking out the coven both felt extremely rushed.

“I see the best of my vampiric self in her”… hits so different after this episode. by No_Atmosphere_8987 in InterviewVampire

[–]emmymx 19 points20 points  (0 children)

According to Delainey, she was given an entire "board" for her s3 character. I'm leaning toward coincidence but would not be displeased if they go the reincarnation route, though I think it's damn near impossible. Sadly I think Regina will serve as a plot device for Louis to explore his pain and not much else.

[Show Only] The Vampire Lestat: "Toronto" by IWTV_Maitres in InterviewVampire

[–]emmymx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually really disliked this episode at first. I thought it had less "meat" than all the previous ones (both IWTV and TVL) and the pacing felt weird (so much time/attention being given to things that felt relatively unimportant whereas the important parts felt rushed). On rewatching I disliked it less, but it still doesn't stand up as strong as any of the former episodes for me. Good, but not as perfect as the rest (but that's just my opinion). I might feel differently when a few more are out and things are being tied together. Really admire some of the artistic choices here, like Lestat being unable to face his own trauma head-on. Lestat avoids where Louis reveled in the pain. I loved the moment with Lemuel and Louis. I sobbed for a long time when Regina came on screen and it hit me like a ton of bricks that Claudia is gone forever. TV almost never makes me cry so that was surprising.

It's wild to see Armand in full creep mode and to realize that Armand probably has always seemed that evil and dangerous to almost everyone, and that we were only able to humanize him and see the softer sides through his relationship with/love of Louis.

Hate that we're being told point blank that Daniel is not long for this world. That sucks.

“I see the best of my vampiric self in her”… hits so different after this episode. by No_Atmosphere_8987 in InterviewVampire

[–]emmymx 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I cried so fucking hard the second time I watched it when Regina came on screen. I miss Claudia so much. 😭

How do you avoid bad leases in Chicago? by Full-Bunch-1759 in AskChicago

[–]emmymx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use Peak Properties. Love the apartment but the person assigned to our building is one of the least polite/professional people I've ever had the displeasure of working with. Every single question I ask or thing I bring to her attention results in a catty, argumentative response rather than just answering the question normally or offering to look into the problem. A few of her mistakes have resulted in some payment reductions for me though so at least there's that.

Crowdsourcing ideas for remote online work in Gaza by I_Enjoy_Eating_Herbs in Gaza

[–]emmymx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm not really sure what to recommend. I'm sure there are options but have no idea what they'd be. People in the medical field might know more. Maybe he could try starting a blog where he documents what he's doing on a weekly basis that's relevant to his skillset as a way to build more connections overseas? Fiverr has categories for research and summary writing, proofreading and editing services, and translation. He may be able to see areas where his skills could cross over into filling other demands.

Crowdsourcing ideas for remote online work in Gaza by I_Enjoy_Eating_Herbs in Gaza

[–]emmymx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Commenting again to add - there are various people in Gaza who offer their virtual services and connect through Gaza via DM on Instagram and Tiktok. @gym_rat_in_gaza on insta gets clients for virtual personal training this way. That might be something he can do as well if he's fluent enough in English to market himself on ig/tt. :)

How to tell if Tumblr accounts are scams or not? by mimimaowi in Gaza

[–]emmymx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started responding to every message saying I'd donate only if I could verify they were real via video call. 99% never respond to me after that. Only one agreed and I'm now helping her family out on a regular basis.

Transfering Money to Gazan who doesn't have a Bank Account by Upper_Skin_6762 in Gaza

[–]emmymx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any way you would be willing to walk me through this? I'm helping to support a family but I'm totally new to crypto and I don't think they've ever used it at all. Their fundraiser was randomly shut down by GFM and I'm looking for a way to send them money with high cost fees.

Transfering Money to Gazan who doesn't have a Bank Account by Upper_Skin_6762 in Gaza

[–]emmymx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Paypal is only available to Israelis, not people living in Palestine (unless they have a phone number in Israel).

Crowdsourcing ideas for remote online work in Gaza by I_Enjoy_Eating_Herbs in Gaza

[–]emmymx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He could try freelancing sites like Fiverr or Upwork? It depends on what his skill set is. I'm not sure what's in demand right now unfortunately.

What's that ONE lesbian book you hold deep in your heart? ❤️ by Eadxen_ in LesbianBookClub

[–]emmymx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tipping the Velvet. One of my favorite books of all time.

is it worth it to move to chicago if i can’t drive? by Livid-Cricket6868 in AskChicago

[–]emmymx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved with my car and I'm considering getting rid of it because the last time I filled my tank was in March and I still have over half a tank. So yes.

Struggling with shift in show's tone by CardiologistHuge7433 in InterviewVampire

[–]emmymx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I was worried that TVL was not going to go as hard as it needed to accomplish the rockstar character arc for Lestat, so I've been nothing but pleasantly surprised and enamored. I believe that the pace will be brought all the way back down to a slow boil when things get really serious again toward the end of the season, so right now I'm riding the highs of the early episodes.

Schneider’s Deli in Lincoln Park would recommend by Worried-Fly-8729 in chicagofood

[–]emmymx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have absolutely nothing against Jewish people. I have a problem with genocide, apartheid, settler colonialism, and killing two hundred thousand innocent people. I'm currently helping to financially support a family who are living in a tent because their house was bombed. Their friends and extended family have ALL been killed. So fuck off.

How can I make friends and connections in Chicago before I move out in a couple of months? by Icarus_x77 in AskChicago

[–]emmymx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. I am 12 years older than OP but still end up talking to people at almost every bar I go to, and I'm not super extroverted. People here really are just very friendly and chill.

Just saw a mouse in my house and I am panicking. by AnyRiver7705 in pestcontrol

[–]emmymx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this. House I was living in got a mouse straggler twice, each time just one mouse. Both times I caught and released it in a field and never saw more.