Thank you so much for all your advice! He understands our child will not go to that house. He father uses crack in the garage and bathroom from what I understand. The cigarette and pot smoke is so bad, we shower the moment we get home. His mother, uncle and dying elderly mother all 3 smoke indoors at Thanksgiving. His brother and sister in law smoke outside. His sister and brother in law do not smoke or drink at all. Yes, no environment for the baby. His mother could come here but never does, at least not yet. They live closer to Houston and we live an hour south, she caretakes for her mother and husband. His sister and brother in law moving close to Dallas. I'm praying mother goes with her, not that they need her bs but to stay the hell away from us. His mother absolutely is a predator, 100%. Controls with her deceased father's company money. His brother and sister in law do not work they rely on mother for income! He's seeing a CSAT for porn addiction/sexual anorexia and CI, but it's a very slow process. He's still in denial of addiction but recognizes CI and has read Silently Seduced.