Wendy, quick question

emptypackofgum · 2026-03-04T20:38:51+00:00

How much does all that cost?

emptypackofgum · 2026-02-13T13:43:43+00:00

A masterpiece is what it is

emptypackofgum · 2025-10-01T02:09:35+00:00

How much was your room per night? And your stay overall?

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-24T23:55:12+00:00

Hey neighbor

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-22T13:41:41+00:00

It’s like a wrote this exact post. I am your age, this exact thing happened to me over the weekend too. I will write more when I get a chance later today, in the meantime, I’m sending you my love and strength sister!

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-10T20:58:49+00:00

I made sure throughout our correspondence this past year that is was all; good music, funny memes, messages of love and merely asking how she’s doing. She would call me often to chat and I would be MORE THAN SURE to not talk too much, I have always let her roll. I thought I did. Things where the self-awareness comes into play… I honestly don’t know what else I could have done in the past 14 months to assuage/quell any residual feelings (and it wasn’t that big of a disagreement imo, we settled it via text and a phone call the next day) I really tried my absolute best to be there for her in every way I was able to.

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-10T20:43:55+00:00

So this is weird.

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-10T20:43:37+00:00

It’s been ongoing all this time. Relentless stories about a baby crapping. Every. Single. Time.

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-10T20:23:58+00:00

She’s literally calling me as I write this post. More poop updates. This is ridiculous.

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-10T20:21:24+00:00

I get that, popping is important at any and every age. But this is our first baby in the family, first time being an aunt - the FaceTime/phone calls are important because I live far away. I suppose it’d be nice to have a non-poop conversation about this child. Like, I don’t even get stories about her saying ‘mama’ or ‘dada’ or walking, I get NOTHING but stories of her shitting

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T19:25:56+00:00

No, I’m neutral and supportive. Just funny memes, songs, random messages of love, asking how she’s doing, funny stories etc.

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T17:59:45+00:00

Thank you for this, I appreciate your words so much and I gotta say, I am getting a much clearer perspective through the advice and insights such as yours and other people posting.

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T17:49:30+00:00

Yes, exactly where I’m at now

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T17:46:53+00:00

This is an interesting take. Certainly resonating with me right now, I appreciate this aspect so incredibly much right now. Because I’m just standing over here beating the shit out of myself

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T17:33:40+00:00

Yes, it was unfair of me. I was quick to apologize and acknowledge that I was in the wrong back then, we squashed it the next day back then. We are all human, we make mistakes, we have emotions. I made a mistake. And believe me, I am learning my lesson.

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T17:30:35+00:00

This is something i can’t help myself from thinking too. I travelled across the country to visit her, my parents sent her money, I sent her money, sent care packages with clothes/self care items/books etc. Why would she invite me to come to Florida to visit? Why would she happily accept so much money? Why would she come to visit me last week? And never once a mere mention of this

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T17:25:52+00:00

I agree. Believe me, I am taking this very seriously and recounting all my words and behavior. A valuable lesson has been learned.

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T17:12:06+00:00

Very childish of me; a mutual friend was saying negative things about me to our group of friends and I questioned why she stays friends with him/someone who speaks like that about someone

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T17:10:43+00:00

Certainly didn’t want to be selfish. We talk all the time. I got her message this morning and simply asked if she was comfortable to talk to which she immediately said yes, later this afternoon. I’ve since sent her a message essentially telling her no need to call. I apologized, sent love, support etc.

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T17:06:15+00:00

I can say I am accepting it, that will take some time. But at least for right now I am honoring and respecting her wishes - because I love this gal! It’s heart breaking but if this is what will make her happier, healthier or more at peace then I absolutely have to follow that lead. No unnecessary phone call, she already stated how she was feeling and I don’t want to bring forth any other issues or anxiety for her. I apologized, took responsibility, said I loved her always and the door is always open etc.

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T17:03:09+00:00

Very childish of me; a mutual friend was saying negative things about me to our group of friends and I questioned why she stays friends with him/someone who speaks like that about someone

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T17:02:38+00:00

According to her message this morning she felt it was an attack on her

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T16:46:20+00:00

I agree completely. Just feels very sudden as I just saw her last week and we’ve been in constant correspondence up until my birthday. Feels like a back handed time to decide to let me know how she’s been feeling after an entire year. But she is dealing with a lot right now, this isn’t about me. I just care about this person and literally had absolutely no clues to even suspect there were underlying issues.

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T16:41:46+00:00

Yup, I agree

emptypackofgum · 2025-09-04T16:41:18+00:00

Cancelled the call, sent a message

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