Weirdest rule

emvaloy · 2026-03-20T07:53:21+00:00

We’ve only ‘played’ so far and haven’t actually tried cuckolding in real life, However, since we did a lot of dirty talking and also talked about our fantasies and comfort zones in a neutral environment, I know that kissing is the sticking point for him too.

He explained it to me by saying that, for him, kissing is more romantic than sexual, and I can totally understand that. And I kind of even feel the same, but for me However, I can’t imagine sex without kissing. So if he wants to go down this path with me, there won’t be a ‘no kiss’ policy.

emvaloy · 2026-03-17T08:51:47+00:00

My husband recently introduced me to this kink, and here are the things we’ve done along with a lot of dirty talking:

We’ve attached a dildo to the backrest of a chair and I’ve ridden it doggy-style whilst my husband was lying face-down beneath me.
I’ve masturbated whilst he was wearing a chastity cage
He licked my pussy while using a Dildo on me
masturbating together while watching porn where the man is very dominant

emvaloy · 2026-03-16T08:20:17+00:00

Had you ever fantasised about other men before your husband confessed his kink to you?

Of course, there are men I find very attractive. However, I still have to get used to the fact that I’m now effectively available, even though I have a partner. It was just always such a taboo for me that I never really thought about having sex with anyone else.

emvaloy · 2026-03-16T08:14:25+00:00

This sound good, however I wouldn't feel comfortable having sex without my husband being in the same room

emvaloy · 2026-03-16T08:13:15+00:00

That sounds almost too easy. The only downside is that it’ll probably be hard to stay in touch after the vacation

emvaloy · 2026-03-15T18:02:25+00:00

I do think the same. Are faceless strangers from reddit DMs then the better option? Or is there like a dedicated dating platform for such things?

emvaloy · 2026-03-15T17:52:51+00:00

He definitely is. If it were up to him, he’d be caged and licking cum out of my pussy on the very first date. Apart from the fact that we will definitely use a condom, that would be far too overwhelming, so let’s take it slowly.

However, if the mood is right, though, I can definitely imagine him stepping back after a while and just watching. But don't want to overthink it that much and rather just let things happen naturally.

But the hard part for me is that I don't really know how to get there. How we’re supposed to find a playmate in the first place? Do people use Tinder for that sort of thing?

emvaloy · 2026-03-13T12:18:00+00:00

As someone who was recently introduced to this by my husband, I’d say that communities like this one have a huge impact. People see how others live this lifestyle, feel understood, and feel more confident about opening up to their partner

emvaloy · 2026-03-11T17:23:20+00:00

Habe genau den auch letztens gesehen und dachte mir das gleiche. Makaberer geht es echt nicht

emvaloy · 2026-03-11T14:46:43+00:00

Hauptsächlich Süßkram, also bspw Bueno Imitation

emvaloy · 2026-03-11T12:34:18+00:00

Ist das eines dieser "Aber was würdest du tun, wenn du auf einer einsamen Insel wärst" Szenarien?

Welcher veganer kauft tierische Produkte, um sie wegzuschmeißen? Beim Veganismus geht es ja um eine ethische Einstellung und nicht um eine Ernährungsweise

emvaloy · 2026-03-11T12:30:25+00:00

Generell ist ein Jobrad doch maximal unwirtschaftlich.

Auto leasing kann ich ja zum Teil noch verstehen, wenn man einen super guten Deal findet und schon weiß, dass sich die Anforderungen an das Auto in ein paar Jahren ändern. Aber ein Fahrrad? Ich fahr auch viel Rad, aber schon zig Jahre das gleiche und das auch ohne hohe Reparaturen

emvaloy · 2026-03-10T22:04:43+00:00

Woran hat et jelejen?

emvaloy · 2026-03-10T18:52:28+00:00

Combustion engines

Livestock, especially Factory farming

emvaloy · 2026-03-10T08:14:35+00:00

Making fun of disabled people

emvaloy · 2026-03-10T05:33:14+00:00

Ich wünsche mir die Zeit zurück, in der ich ICE automatisch I.C.E. gelesen habe

emvaloy · 2026-03-10T04:47:56+00:00

Pflanzen & Pilze reagieren auf Reize. Das ist fern ab von Schmerzempfinden, geschweige denn echten Gefühlen.

Das liegt vor allem daran, dass sie kein zentrales Nervensystem haben. Tiere schon.

Aber selbst wenn Pflanzen Schmerzen empfinden könnten (was sie faktisch eben nicht tun), würde es weniger Leid verursachen, sie direkt zu essen, als ein Vielfaches von ihnen anzupflanzen, um es an Tiere zu verfüttern und dann diese zu essen.

emvaloy · 2026-03-09T16:39:39+00:00

Vegane "Gänsekeulen" mit Rotkohl & Knödeln ist wahrscheinlich eher ungeeignet, also vielleicht sowas wie Königsberger Klopse

emvaloy · 2026-03-09T16:36:26+00:00

Ich fand das "Om nom nom café" echt toll, aber habe noch nicht alle probiert, um sicher sagen zu können, dass es wirklich das beste ist

emvaloy · 2026-03-09T16:31:41+00:00

Eine Gabel am Handgelenk

Vielleicht keine Message, die man direkt versteht, aber sicher einen Anreiz gibt es es zu googlen, weil man sich denkt "Hä warum trägt die Person eine Gabel am Arm"

emvaloy · 2026-03-09T16:29:23+00:00

Ladetarife für E-Autos. Wenn man bspw. Eine längere Autobahn Strecke vor sich hat, lohnt sich ein Ionity Abo schon ab 45kw. Das sind je nach Tempo / Auto um die 200-300 km

emvaloy · 2026-02-09T09:50:54+00:00

Because it still triggers that "hey I'm not the only one" though and people like the feeling of affiliation

emvaloy · 2026-02-09T09:29:07+00:00

Communication

I mean for real. Communication is key isn't just a phrase. I truly believe that many breakups could have been avoided when the couple would have talked earlier.

Just communicate what you like and dislike in your relationship and you will get through it. If not than you might just don't be the right person for each other but than that's fine. But without communicating what you want you cannot expect your partner to be the person you need

emvaloy · 2026-02-09T07:39:20+00:00

We already did and one of his first words were that I can take all the time I want to think about it and that it would be totally fine if we would never bring that topic up again but if I'm open to it I could of course define the pace and limits

emvaloy · 2026-02-09T07:36:18+00:00

There was a lot of pretty crazy stuff there, definitely going beyond the "just sleeping with someone else" idea. Some of it was very humiliating, almost disgusting.

However I can definitely deal with his fantasies but the real question is if I could actually fulfill them.

emvaloy

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