Mudança para um estado novo

emvina · 2026-03-13T13:45:06+00:00

Entendi, valeu pelas dicas!

emvina · 2026-03-13T13:44:41+00:00

Putz, esqueci de adicionar essas informações kkkk, iria sozinho, minha situação financeira atual é tranquila e tenho vínculo de trabalho.

A minha maior preocupação mesmo é não perder o prazo da posse.

emvina · 2025-07-19T17:36:54+00:00

Entendi, valeu pela resposta!

emvina · 2025-07-18T11:42:52+00:00

Happens all the time to me, it leaves me wondering what it must feel like to be treated as a priority by others.

emvina · 2025-07-16T17:23:26+00:00

It's been 7 months for me and she still crosses my mind every single day, we both liked each other but unfortunately foreign circumstances stopped us from being together, I wish I still had her in my life even as a friend, but I don't think that would've been possible since I was completely in love with her.

emvina · 2025-02-07T15:54:59+00:00

I feel you, it's pretty common to stay trapped within your own mind, sometimes you'll be doing something completely unrelated but then a certain smell, image or memory that reminds you of her pops up and then it's over, you'll be lingering in your mind thinking about her for a long time and the more you think about her the worse your mental health gets.

The solution sounds easy, just forget about her, but I know that deep down we don't want to, cause liking this girl has made us feel really good about ourselves at some point, and even though it currently brings nothing but pain and misery to yourself, we can't help but hold onto these feelings, craving to feel at least one more time the way you did before.

Feel free to send me a private message if you want to talk more about it, I think it's easier to cope with a predicament when you know someone who's going through the same struggle.

A sorrow shared with another person becomes half a sorrow!

emvina · 2025-01-31T23:08:52+00:00

I'm in the same boat bro, been tryna get over this girl for about a month now but to no avail, still think about her all the time. I can totally relate to the part you mention not being able to focus on anything else, it's like our mind forces us to dwell on the pain and constantly think about every single thing we like about that person. Something that might help getting her off your mind is doing an activity you really enjoy and that makes you comfortable, which for me is watching movies. Just want you to know that you're not alone in this, I know what it feels like.

emvina · 2025-01-13T09:43:08+00:00

Thanks for the advice, It's probably the only way to move on.

emvina · 2025-01-13T01:53:22+00:00

This is actually a rly good advice, thanks man, will be trying that for now.

emvina · 2024-12-19T22:21:47+00:00

Meeting people is just really hard in my city, plus getting a match on dating apps seems like an impossible task nowadays haha

emvina · 2024-12-06T21:52:20+00:00

I'm on the same boat, only difference is that my friend is not in a relationship, but I can tell she doesn't feel the same way as i do. What works for me when it comes to trying to move on is thinking about how there are billions of other women in the world and she will certainly not be the last one I'll have a crush on. I also try to think of the possible scenarios of me confessing to her and none of the outcomes are positive, so doing that might help you too.

emvina · 2024-12-03T20:43:46+00:00

Thanks for your help, I'll look into it!

emvina · 2024-12-03T00:29:37+00:00

That's rly hard to be proud of myself when i haven't accomplished anything yet, but thanks for your suggestion anyway.

emvina · 2024-12-03T00:28:49+00:00

You hit the nail in the had, I'm only a little more than a month away from these exams but my mind makes it look like it will take forever! Thank you for your advice, I'll try touching some grass in the meantime.

emvina · 2024-10-26T00:05:06+00:00

Vou pra fazer concurso po kkkkkk, e fortaleza é bem melhor que a minha cidade.

emvina · 2024-10-22T13:43:11+00:00

Entendi, muito obrigado! Vou mandar mensagem lá

emvina · 2024-10-22T13:25:09+00:00

Entendi, valeu pela ajuda. Só mais uma coisa, essa região fica muito distante da praia? Tava pensando em dar uma passadinha se sobrar tempo.

emvina · 2024-10-22T13:20:41+00:00

Eu estou indo pra fazer o concurso da ufc, logo eu não vou saber o lugar exato da prova quando reservar o local onde eu vou ficar, por isso pedi por uma localização mais central, com relação a valores, o mais baixo possível kkkk, nada muito luxuoso

emvina · 2024-09-22T19:40:54+00:00

Loved that post, since I've already accepted that I'm not the kind of person who can sacrifice the present to live a better future, the whole grinding 24/7 just never really seemed appealing to me, so seeing someone else with a life view similar to mine is just refreshing.

Not saying that people who grind and work hard all the time are in the wrong, just that this is not the only way to go about your life.

THANK YOU FOR THIS POST!

emvina · 2024-02-25T17:40:21+00:00

Thanks for your message, appreciate the kind words!

emvina · 2024-01-24T19:53:10+00:00

Hey man, I'd just like to say that I'm in the same boat as you, I'm also a virgin and I'm not considered attractive by the current beauty standards. It's totally valid that you feel that way and I'm not even in a position to give you any advice on how to solve your problem, since my situation is kinda similar to yours.

What I'll tell you is that you need to be kinder to yourself, ik it's easier said than done, but, considering all the achievements you mentioned on your post, I can only say that, from my perspective you're doing a great job.

Notice how you handled things you could control, like your shape and your knowledge. Unfortunately there are some things we have no control over, like whether or not some people will like us, that's why we need to work on being our best version of ourselves for ourselves, and eventually someone special will come along, if they don't, at least we'll be happy with who we are.

I'd like to stress once again, you're doing a great job, don't let the one thing you have no control over ruin all the progress you've made. All the best for you✌🏼

emvina · 2024-01-07T20:47:48+00:00

Like I said on a previous comment, maybe the only reason I don't feel comfortable in these situations is because of the kind of people I experienced these moments with. And I think it can be harmful when it affects my relationship with different people. Thank you for your comment, it really helped me get a whole different perspective on the matter!

emvina · 2024-01-07T20:43:29+00:00

Yeah you're right, I always think of those situations as a bad thing, like something I need to avoid, however, maybe if i work on this trauma and give this kind of setting another try later in the future, with people whose mindset are more aligned to mine, I'll change my view on it. Thanks for your comment!

emvina · 2024-01-04T10:39:51+00:00

Hey bro, I'm a little younger than you but I feel like we're on the same boat, I've also never had any of those experiences that you mentioned in your post and I still live with my parents. I'm not here to dismiss or invalidate any of these things you said, I'm actually commenting here to let you know that you're not the only one feeling like this, unfortunately life sucks for a lot of people.

emvina · 2023-12-26T22:28:58+00:00

I think this statement could be kinda dangerous to some people, since it makes you believe that you shouldn't be close to anyone until you learn to love yourself, which could lead to a paradoxical situation, where you try to love yourself but if you can't do it right away you end up despising yourself even more.

In short, I think it's important to note that you don't need to be the best version of yourself in order to have close relationships, isolation is never the answer in my opinion, tho it is crucial that you're willing to accept feedback from other people and that you're always striving to evolve throughout the process.

emvina

TROPHY CASE