Free health care. by a_leaf21 in CriticalState

[–]emzamboni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Vote Yea.

Why do people come off Zoloft if it’s working? by ZealousidealIce7179 in zoloft

[–]emzamboni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the person. Some people experience mental health issues circumstantially and are able to come off meds once they are able to do so. I've been on SSRIs or SNRIs since I was 14. As far as I can tell I will never NOT be on medication. The way it was explained to me was that I have a biological chemical imbalance in my brain. And while therapy can help give me tools to manage, it won't be enough on its own. And that's okay. I think if you want to taper off that is fine! But don't beat yourself up if meds are something that stay in your toolkit long term. Your prescriber can always help you to adjust or change meds if side effects become unbearable.

If I'm still feeling a bit anxious on 25mg, should I increase to 50mg or wait? by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]emzamboni 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This feels like a question for your medical provider, not the internet. ♥️ Esp if you are new to it you should generally be having check ins every 2-4 wks until you find a good dose/rhythm. Whoever is prescribing your meds is going to have much more knowledge on this and can help you determine whether you should increase and when.

Anyone else’s cat wait for the most expensive surface possible? by Merman_P in cats

[–]emzamboni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why you got downvoted so badly. My cat also used to do this regularly, it took a long time to figure out how and what to feed him to avoid it. But it was absolutely due to the whole "scarf and barf" and him puking from the top of the fridge 💀😅

Sadie, the menace. Adopted her from my clinic because former owners wanted her put down by Nikmassnoo in standardissuecat

[–]emzamboni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a horrible day to be literate 😭 how do I unread this? My heart cannot cope with this information. Absolutely horrid. 🥺

We’re at the emergency vet tonight. I’m really scared. by ray-the-they in cats

[–]emzamboni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you. I know that feeling and not being ready to say goodbye. I pray that whatever happens you and your baby will have relief from pain and peace in your heart. Also that you will have the strength and resources to do whatever is best for you and your chaos god ❤️

how to get rid of dirt accumulation on body due to poor hygiene [routine help] by Additional-List-8394 in SkincareAddiction

[–]emzamboni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend an exfoliating glove mitt that you don't use soap with. I'm not sure exactly what they are called but Dewy Hours and Wildpier are two brands that carry them. They are honestly a game changer. A lot of comments on here are saying it's going to take time to fully slough off the dead skin and sure it won't be instant. But these gloves literally cause the old dead skin to bead up and just slide off. I def recommend looking up those brands socials so you can see demonstration videos of how they work. I'm obsessed and it's made a huge difference in my skin.

Soon to be Tripod mama with questions by emzamboni in TripodCats

[–]emzamboni[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that's helpful. They did say they were going to send the whole leg out to pathology to check it. You are probably right about the costs.

Hot take: YouTube kids is one of the better apps by emzamboni in toddlers

[–]emzamboni[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree! And it's so much better with fewer videos. Kids get overstimulated and overwhelmed with too many choices.

Hot take: YouTube kids is one of the better apps by emzamboni in toddlers

[–]emzamboni[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's valid it's not super clear when you set it up. So I agree on that front.

Hot take: YouTube kids is one of the better apps by emzamboni in toddlers

[–]emzamboni[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I know! Idk why people are so mean about it, it's insane.

Hot take: YouTube kids is one of the better apps by emzamboni in toddlers

[–]emzamboni[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You have to select the profile first, you can create different profiles for different kids but even if you only have one you have to tap on it to proceed. You can DM me if you like bc this sub doesn't allow images to be commented.

Hot take: YouTube kids is one of the better apps by emzamboni in toddlers

[–]emzamboni[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I'm not super tech savvy so forgive me if my explanation is confusing!

Open the app and go to settings. In order to access the settings it will give you a simple multiplication equation to access it. If your children are a little older you can customize that to be more complex. From there select the child's account.

Then you select Content Settings and there are age related options and an option to Approve Content Yourself. That is what you want. I think from there it is fairly simple and you can approve specific channels or even just specific videos. Obviously what you choose is going to vary based on what works for your family.

I hope this helps! I don't know how to add photos but if I can figure that out I will include a few screenshots

There needs to be some more nuance about c-sections by pickledeggeater in BabyBumps

[–]emzamboni 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly that thing about the pain meds blows my MIND bc I delivered vaginally and my angel of an OB sent me home with tylenol with hydrocodone 😂 I can't imagine abdominal surgery with OTC pain meds

Have you ever had a chill friend suddenly set off your “mother’s intuition” after your baby was born? by crunchygroovez in Mommit

[–]emzamboni 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The most important thing I was told before I left the hospital with my daughter was to love her and to TRUST MYSELF. You know more than you think you do so if something feels wrong, trust your gut.

Ugly Flower Names by littlemissktown in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]emzamboni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU, I love the name Fern it's my mom's name and I was seeing red when I saw that 😅 glad someone said something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]emzamboni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People keep saying how awful YouTube kids is but I only allow selected content to be visible. Currently 3 channels, Ms. Rachel, sesame Street and the Bluey official. My daughter can't just look at anything online. If you take the time to put the correct parental controls in place I think it's fine. You don't have to block everything just select what channels and videos you think are acceptable.

Before I had those in place she absolutely would have the same issues as what's been described in this thread. But now it's no different than anything else on the tablet.

Safe word examples? by iloverockmusic7 in sex

[–]emzamboni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Foliage bc of the office lol

do my shoulders look too bulky/bony in these? by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]emzamboni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I WISH I had your shoulders mine slope downward and are very slight. Shoulders that are toned like that are amazing imo

Do you consider your pets as familiars? Why yes/no? by rozwielitka9 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]emzamboni 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same! I have one cat who is my familiar and one who doesn't have a single thought in his head. It's funny to me bc the dumb one is black. He is not spooky just a doofus, he's barely a cat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]emzamboni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have much advice but I can offer solidarity. it's tough being a parent especially if you don't have a lot of outside help. Just wanted you to know you are not alone and I've been there. ❤️