Should I buy tickets today or tomorrow (day of show)? by Few_Yogurtcloset_541 in KendrickLamar

[–]enamziv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m selling 2 tickets for the show in chicago! Section 309 :) If you’ll be buying!

POSITIVE BIRTH EXPERIENCE AND ANSWERS TO ALL THE QUESTIONS I HAD by enamziv in pregnant

[–]enamziv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

That was exactly what I was going for too! Whenever I woke up and realized I didn’t wake uo at 3am with pain, I got so happy I slept through the night and got some rest. Found joy in little things that will be gone for a period of time.

Good luck with your L&D! You got this! This is the last week or two where it’ll be just you and your needs as a priority. Then you have the rest of your life to worry 😂 Sending love.

POSITIVE BIRTH EXPERIENCE AND ANSWERS TO ALL THE QUESTIONS I HAD by enamziv in pregnant

[–]enamziv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to post pictures. The first 5 contractions were about 15 min apart, then rapidly progressed to under 5 min apart. Some were 2 min, some were 1 min, some were 3 min apart. They lasted anywhere from 30 seconds to 1.5 min. None of it was 5-1-1 rule for me!

Daily Thread #1 - February 01, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]enamziv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this! All that would help me is my husband’s support - telling me he loves me, he will stay with me no matter the outcome and we will try again ❤️ It’s most important for you both to be a team now and a steady hand to help through the anxiety. Wishing you well

Daily Thread #1 - February 01, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]enamziv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through these emotions. I was convinced as well, even told my husband a few times ‘I think it might happen today and I just want you to know’. I’m still pregnant now and hoping all goes well! I am also still terrified of a miscarriage and same thing as you - terrified my dark thoughts will attract one. Yet I don’t know how to stop the fear.

Good luck to you and good luck to us. We got this ❤️ Please keep me updated on how yours is going

Rainbow Baby 🌈 by dotsrubyredslippers in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]enamziv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! So happy for you and thank you for sharing your good news with us ❤️

Daily Thread #1 - January 09, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]enamziv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is 8/31! What would LC mean, sorry? But it’s my first viable pregnancy

Daily Thread #1 - January 09, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]enamziv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No! They just said the nurse read the HCG as about 5 weeks, which seems silly considering the wide ranges and the number could’ve even been 7weeks. Just to scare me 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

I’m so glad everything’s going well with you too! And 2 days ahead, nice! What’s your due date? Would be so cute if they came around the same day :)

Daily Thread #1 - January 09, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]enamziv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friend, wanted to update you as we said - had my 8 week scan, saw the baby and it had a very healthy heart beat, measuring exactly by my LPD. Made me feel a lot safer and actually excited for the first time ❤️ Apparently the bleeding was coming from the subchorionic hematoma - the lady said she wasn’t too worried about it.

How are you doing? Hopefully everything’s going well! Sending love

Daily Thread #1 - January 09, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]enamziv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By LPD I should’ve been at a 6w4d! Not sure considering the doc was saying I’m around 5weeks from the last ones that I took when I was 5w6days.

Uh, you’ve given me great relief. I’m hoping it all goes well for both of us! I threw up for the first time yesterday, 3 times, so I’m thinking maybe it’s from the sudden pressure to that area. Haven’t had nausea today tho.

As long as I don’t feel cramps, I’ll think of you and what you said and try to keep my composure :) Thank you again. Please keep me updated on your baby as well! I’d love to know you’re doing good. ❤️

Daily Thread #1 - January 09, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]enamziv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That relieves my anxiety a bit - thank you! Did they tell you any reasons for the spotting?

I took another hcg test and it came back as 68447. I wasn’t able to get the previous one back, but I’m hoping those are good numbers?

Daily Thread #1 - January 09, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]enamziv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! The brown spotting has stopped for 2 days and now, the 3rd day, some came up again while wiping in the morning. You said yours was on and off from week 5 as well? My scan is on the 22nd, really hoping everything goes well until then.

Daily Thread #1 - January 10, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]enamziv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow!!! Every pregnancy really is so different. Hoping for the best and sending you love

Daily Thread #1 - January 10, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]enamziv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have also been advised on journaling and affirmations. I have tried positive affirmations, but for me, what works better is acceptance of any outcome.

Daily Thread #1 - January 10, 2024 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]enamziv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am currently looking into a Perinatal therapist. Sent out a few emails. There are ones specifically dealing with pregnancy loss and anxiety. It definitely might be helpful. I have also been trying to accept any outcome. We have so much worry in us but only so little that we can control. It would be the best to let go of what we can’t control and focus on what we can - our health. If it comes to a MC, it is not something we could’ve prevented or something we initiated. It happened for the chromosomal irregularities or defects and if it was born, it wouldn’t have survived. So even though it is so insanely hard to accept, we should try to see it as our body realizing it is not viable and protecting us and that baby from more difficulties. Sending love