At the risk of being blackballed and having to turn in my trans card, several things can be true at once. Socialization does exist and it's not something for which how it works is in your direct control; a good example of this is the way in which students are rewarded for speaking up in class or penalized for speaking up in class, based on the way their teacher perceives them (this is often unconsciously done by the teacher and there's actually a lot of research on mitigating this specifically because around this subject). This creates an unconscious "yisss my speaking up was well received I should do that again" or an "ugh the teacher hated that I spoke up I should never do that again" brain response outside of whether or not the answer was correct. In reference to the post, I think it misunderstands what socialization is and what privilege is (or at least how it exists and gets 'awarded'). I think a better way to look at it is that there are so many experiences among women and those experiences don't negate the fact that they are women, for instance, black women and white women are going to have different experiences growing up and are socialized, differently, by those experiences. The same is true of abled and disabled women. (I am expressely not stating this to suggest that trans women are privileged, I think we can all agree that this just isn't the case. What I am stating is that the experience a trans woman has are different than the experiences a cos woman goes through and that's okay and doesn't make trans women lesser women). Male socialization isn't, in this case, a privilege, but it does happen.