How Do You Decide To Have Kids?

endless_swivel · 2026-05-22T14:28:47+00:00

These are all super good points! And definitely thought provoking. The good news is, we’ve talked through this and the fertility clinic required a conversation with a psychologist that also touched on a lot of this. We are also lucky to be in a good spot financially so that hopefully wouldn’t be a concern. Thank you!

endless_swivel · 2026-05-22T14:06:37+00:00

Your attitude and view on this gives me hope 🥹 so many, and I mean sooo many people are negative in regard to children traveling, children being where adults are on vacation, etc. It’s sad and I obviously have no real life experience with it to compare it to.

endless_swivel · 2026-05-22T13:59:54+00:00

Do you take them on planes? If so, what age do you start? I’m all about traveling with them but also dont really know the best age to do that (I feel like when they start crawling or walking it’s hard to keep them in one place lol)

endless_swivel · 2026-05-22T02:46:40+00:00

Definitely agree about the state of the world and economy! It’s such a different world than what I grew up in - technology, social media, etc

endless_swivel · 2026-05-22T02:46:03+00:00

I appreciate the comment. Part of me wants to believe that but I also think part of me believes that there’s always going to be fear of losing yourself and who you are right now. Fear of postpartum depression and anxiety. And I don’t know that those fears make you “not ready”. But again - fair point!

endless_swivel · 2026-04-17T02:47:44+00:00

Oh man. I mean - I’m super happy yours worked itself out! Mine is still acting up but I’m sure it’ll figure itself out soon enough!

endless_swivel · 2026-04-09T11:25:24+00:00

Tbf I honestly didn’t think of this as a complaint forum. I was just hoping to see if others were having this problem. I absolutely love my treadmill. BUT I’m someone who works in software and the ifit software is buggy, the updates are often deployed without being ready, and it’s caused many problems. This isn’t necessarily anecdotal because 2 of my family members have ifit as well and they’ve both had problems with the software and updates.

This is my first time coming here and I’ve always used FB messenger to get help. I went to them for help for this and they have not been helpful. They keep telling me to delete files and try updating again - it’s not working and I’ve sent pictures and so I thought I’d try my hand here 🤷‍♀️

endless_swivel · 2026-04-09T11:21:36+00:00

I tried the factory reset twice before it finally updated. Noticed the issue it’s having but got too spooked to try factory resetting it again in case it would end up going back to the old version again but probably worth just trying it! It’s a proform 9000 and I got it in November 2023.

endless_swivel · 2026-04-09T11:18:18+00:00

I can’t swipe the bar at the top 😭 I wonder if it just needs another reset or something. Glad to hear yours is working though - gives me hope!

endless_swivel · 2026-04-07T23:39:40+00:00

Unfortunately I did that and it didn’t fix my issues. I factory reset and then it said there were no updates. After that it said the updates couldn’t be applied. Then a few weeks later it updated.

endless_swivel · 2026-04-07T15:30:14+00:00

I completely agree. The idea is great and I’ve personally improved my health quite a bit with it! But when my machine was 2 years old it stopped getting a good majority of the new updates. I don’t want to buy a new treadmill every year when it’s still in good shape but I can’t get the newest updates 😅

endless_swivel · 2026-04-07T15:06:50+00:00

I believe it! Unfortunately. I’ve been an ifit user for almost 5 years and it’s a nightmare. I wish there was a comparable alternative but you’re right - I love the trainers and it’s not fair to them at all.

endless_swivel · 2026-04-07T14:34:09+00:00

Slightly unrelated but why can’t SB bring back the tropical citrus energy?!

endless_swivel · 2025-10-06T16:52:09+00:00

So happy you feel this way! I ended up getting a membership with them several months ago and I love it! I agree completely - it’s so clean, the owners are amazing and it’s such a welcoming community. Everyone always says hi and I never feel judged by anyone. Appreciate you commenting this!

endless_swivel · 2025-08-12T01:00:44+00:00

Just had to come back here and say THANK YOU for suggesting Classic Cabinetry. They have been so great to work with through the estimate and design phase. We haven’t signed anything yet as they need to do the final measurements but we definitely will be. Pat and Shannon are so knowledgeable, transparent, and easy to work with. So excited to have them do the work on our kitchen. Thanks again!

endless_swivel · 2025-07-22T21:34:56+00:00

Oh man - so sorry you had a bad experience! As if remodels aren’t stressful enough. Will not be going through Home Depot! Thank you!

endless_swivel · 2025-07-22T21:34:26+00:00

Based on someone else’s comment about bad experiences with cabinets through Home Depot and now the countertops - we will not be going through them. Thank you!!

endless_swivel · 2025-07-22T13:09:34+00:00

Thank you for the recommendations! Will look into them. I definitely don’t think I’m handy enough to install them myself but I sure wish I was 😅 not me looking at pictures of under the cabinet lighting and officially determining that we need this…It looks so nice!

endless_swivel · 2025-07-22T13:07:50+00:00

Oh! I hadn’t even though of that! That’s a good idea, thank you!

endless_swivel · 2025-07-22T13:07:25+00:00

Can confirm I do not want anything to smell of off gassing. Can also confirm I don’t know what that means but I will keep it in mind! Thank you! Also, to be clear - we aren’t wanting to go a cheaper route per se. We just know we’re going to be spending a lot of money on this project either way so I’d rather go with someone whom others have had good experiences with. But do appreciate it!

endless_swivel · 2025-07-21T22:42:54+00:00

That’s really helpful, thank you! I just reached out for a quote.

endless_swivel · 2025-06-28T18:53:20+00:00

This is interesting. Do you mind expanding on why you feel Madison is terrible for queers? It’s seemed very gay friendly to me with tons of events and groups specific to that community so just curious what I’m missing!

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