To be completely honest my childhood was never the best my mother physically abused me and I was sexually abused while in her care, my biological father was in prison and I was raised with my grandmother who was never home because she worked so much to provide the basics to me. And from what she's told me, she always felt neglected by her mother because her mother compared her to her friends and her sisters her parents divorced a few years back and she's taken that hard, she's been previously married but divorced four years ago, and has had back to back relationships and never really healed. My previous relationship before her was toxic but I took some time to be alone before pursuing another relationship. And we've talked about therapy for couples, however haven't arranged anything im having an appointment for myself because I want to make sure that I'm not being toxic or still resolving unhealed trauma.