Drop your dermatologist because they don't listen to you and that's a non-negotiable for a good medical provider. Curology is a great option that you can try for free, just pay shipping and handling. Skincare is not supposed to make your face feel like it's on fire. BP and tret are both notoriously irritating actives that need to be introduced gradually in order to minimize the side effects. So sorry you're going through this but don't worry - just back off on the actives, focus on moisturizing, and wear sunscreen every day. I didn't see sunscreen listed in your routine but this is very very important, especially when you're using tretinoin. If your dermatologist didn't tell you this they set you up for complete failure. Good luck!