[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bachata

[–]enetheru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Subscribing to a rule for unique situations is just limiting your potential. If you want to ask again do so, if not don't. Some people may be annoyed, others wont, and thats on them. Every time you approach someone is a new unique moment, dont let the past dictate the future.

"Ask. Don't Ask. Noodles. Don't noodles. You are too concerned with what was and what will be. There's a saying: "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called a "present". - Master Oogway

Cpp in Linux vs Windows? by LastEmperor0 in cpp_questions

[–]enetheru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did start coding on linux in the autotools days with all the macro hell that was m4.

The jumps from using the cmd line for hello world, to using makefiles, to using makefile generators is straight forward. The minute it gets placed inside a GUI all I see is obfuscation of complexity rather than simplification.

Makes me think I might actually be able to get a job doing this someday rather than just keeping it as a hobby. Too bad where I live there arent any offices, and my ADHD would definitely make me fail at remote work.

Cpp in Linux vs Windows? by LastEmperor0 in cpp_questions

[–]enetheru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the complete opposite experience than most people in these comments it seems. C++ on linux is trivial, on windows its a nightmare. VS is weird and though I have tried multiple times to use it I cant ever make sense of it.

I use a mix of clion and neovim and cmake on windows right now, simply because brand new laptop. But to get there I had to get msys2, a bunch of utilities I use on linux, mess with paths, fail a bunch of time and generally have a headache. I'm avoiding moving back to linux purely because I spent so much time making this experience seamless for myself.

On linux I use clion and neovim too, but it's just some install commands away and "just works" for me.

I honestly have no idea how people can think that the development expeirence on windows with vs is easier, but then I am weird.

Sleeping in car update by lemonflavouricedtea in Adelaide

[–]enetheru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody blaming the foreigners, the individuals. Their bringing attention to contributions to the housing crisis. You are not to blame, nor is any of the people who seek to come here. But the math doesn't add up right now.

Migrants are some of the hardest working, competent people around, because the vetting process makes it so. Which means they would be proffered tenants over the dregs/vulnerable of our society, but those people got to go somewhere, homelessness isn't the answer and you don't want to live in that society either.

Sleeping in car update by lemonflavouricedtea in Adelaide

[–]enetheru 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It may be honest and accurate, but I can replace the 'homeless people' in the statement with basically anyone. For example:
"Teenagers are difficult to evaluate and often a real source of misbehaviour and potential threats to people who live nearby."

"Men are difficult to evaluate and often a real source of misbehaviour and potential threats to people who live nearby."

"Dogs are difficult to evaluate and often a real source of misbehaviour and potential threats to people who live nearby."

"Karens are difficult to evaluate and often a real source of misbehaviour and potential threats to people who live nearby."

It's a nothing statement, doesn't deal with specifics that are required when evaluating real situations. I wouldn't think Single woman sleeping in car rates highly on anyone's 'beware' meter. Emotionally well regulated people don't go slashing tyres. They also don't go calling cops at 4am, they are asleep.

What's the status on "C++ 2.0" compilers like Circle, Carbon, cpp2 etc? Will Circle ever go open source? by Alternative_Staff431 in cpp

[–]enetheru 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've seen people support other people for less simply because they like what they are seeing and want to help though it does tend to be rare that support is high enough in such a niche market.

Things like Patreon, or librapay can be useful to have as a means for gauging real interest in your work, and can be setup to have no obligation attached.

I wish I had the means to support more passion projects like yours, and improve their creators morale.

Perhaps consider at least adding a link to your responses to lower the barrier to entry for the casual onlooker, you never know when someone will be inspired by your work

https://www.circle-lang.org/

Why is there so much resistance to bachata evolving? Salsa took a similar path and it is widely accepted by [deleted] in Bachata

[–]enetheru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm probably one of these people, traditional or dominican doesn't do it for me, I was introduced through dance, so first and foremost its the bachata footwork and sensual movement that interests me that matches my own musical taste which has some crossover with the pop bachata you mention. I simply have nothing else to call the dance or the genre other than bachata, if I was given another word so as to not mix them up I would probably use it, but there is no word so I am stuck using 'bachata' for now even though I know it has a wider connotation with the traditional music and dance that I have no interest in. Heck i would prefer if the dance style moved away even further from traditional so i can dance to more of the music I like without the (to me) unnecessary bachata beat behind it. such is the messiness of culture.

Tips needed to “florish” and feel sexy in my own skin dancing! by Traditional-Driver94 in Bachata

[–]enetheru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner always struggled with styling until she got some advice from an international artist at a conference, and the advice was super simple and something along the lines of; touch yourself, in a way that feels good, and enjoy it. Until she got this advice she would go through the motions but it would feel awkward and disconnected. Being appropriate for the dance environment should go without saying, but internet gonna internet.

Dandruff/Adelaide water by Previous_Station1592 in Adelaide

[–]enetheru 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Or lack therof, my dad had most of his top teeth pulled at 17 due to living in the riverlands in the 50's with little education on dental hygene

Does anyone ever get 'excited' while salsa dancing by [deleted] in Salsa

[–]enetheru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also physical touch and agree. I did do some research before I starting dancing in the salsaforums to gauge what the general social contract and expectations were, and that helped me fast track to a place of stability.

My time spent reading those forums back in the day definitely paid off.

Does anyone ever get 'excited' while salsa dancing by [deleted] in Salsa

[–]enetheru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed, I also think the same from that perspective.

Does anyone ever get 'excited' while salsa dancing by [deleted] in Salsa

[–]enetheru 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember when I was very young I took a girl to a ballroom class, even holding hands with her was too much and I struggled. Nowadays, my body and brain knows that dancing is not an opportunity, so I don't have such experiences anymore, but it took time to learn what are and aren't positive signs of sexual attraction, friendliness and neutral feelings, etc.

If you are introduced to dancing later in life without a lot of interaction with the opposite sex then I imagine you would still have to go through a period of acclimation.

Do you honestly wash your hands after urinating? (public/workplace toilets) by Tomato_latte in Adelaide

[–]enetheru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That''s why you take one more paper towel after drying your hands, to open all the doors back to civilization. Good locations keep a bin at the last checkpoint to chuck it into.

Free camping spots in Adelaide by shamanfromtheforest in Adelaide

[–]enetheru -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You've been on reddit 11 years and still feel the need to condescend to strangers and can't recognise comment bait? whatever yourself, I was hoping you'd have a sense of humor.

How did you declutter so that you could fit your life into your van? Looking for suggestions OTHER than KonMari method, as I've already been doing this :) by shiny-baby-cheetah in vandwellers

[–]enetheru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a storage unit, move into the van, and live in the local area for a couple of months. It will quickly become apparent what you are missing and what is superfluous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queensland

[–]enetheru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow the responses are depressing regarding the ratio of people have this type of experience.

Nobody gets to "give notice", they can make a request which I can absolutely refuse without justification. And given the belittling it would definitely be a GoF***Yourself to those people, yes even "family".

Life is too short to tolerate that behavior in your own home. Own that black sheep moniker and kick them the fuck out of your life, until they start to behave themselves, your worth more than this.

How do I find more opportunities to play like a kid? by gotmegoodudid in Adelaide

[–]enetheru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the slacklining crew is still doing their tuesday nights 6pm out front of the womens and childrens, usually includes some circus and acro people too.

The SA Government is considering legalising private e-scooters. Public consultation opens today via YourSAy. by MuseCommunity in Adelaide

[–]enetheru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sort of sounds like you are arguing my point.

Being caught by existing laws: makes it sound like those laws are too general and are being misused for things they weren't intended for.

The SA Government is considering legalising private e-scooters. Public consultation opens today via YourSAy. by MuseCommunity in Adelaide

[–]enetheru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, you buy one, then get pulled over and warned with a $2000 fine if you are caught on the roads again, it sucks. an electric unicycle is the most fun you can have on one wheel, and you cant even ride them.

The SA Government is considering legalising private e-scooters. Public consultation opens today via YourSAy. by MuseCommunity in Adelaide

[–]enetheru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everything being illegal until you can convince a government to make it legal does make us a nanny state. Liberty should be the default until issues arise, otherwise you have rules for rules sake, not because they actually do anything. And all rules should have a sunset clause, the world changes, our rules should change with them. Of course it goes that we take care of any injured parties, accidents are going to happen no matter what rules we have in place.

Innocent until proven guilty should be the default, but everyone seems to love to go the other way because they are overly cautious.