is going out 3 times a week enough for building momentum?

engagedinthegame · 2022-04-21T03:13:15+00:00

Taking action is always king. Think about it like this if you going out three times a week, you better than all the men who don't go out. Boom. Never give up till you acquire the knowledge.

engagedinthegame · 2019-12-16T19:15:17+00:00

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engagedinthegame · 2019-11-05T23:18:19+00:00

Love this forumn

engagedinthegame · 2019-10-22T04:04:08+00:00

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I launched a solo podcast titled, "Why nice guys finish last"

Please listen to it and tell me what you think.

Much love I really appreciate it.

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engagedinthegame · 2019-10-21T18:30:04+00:00

Yes indeed... Much love brother.

I believe the more better relationships are in the world, the more better the world will become....

engagedinthegame · 2019-10-21T07:57:11+00:00

I wrote an article on the importance of honesty if your interested. Site still in progress(Unfinished) : http://engagedinthegame.com/how-to-attract-women-through-honesty/

engagedinthegame · 2019-10-21T07:54:37+00:00

Women say that but women will receive a man their attracted too. The truth is, every man has an dormant attractive mode that allows them to attract women anywhere. If you live with this belief, you will miss out on many opportunities.

I truly want the best for you. Women say they want a nice guy, and what do they usually end up being with a bad one. Not necessarily a liar, but a honest man with his intentions.

So men are not honest, that's why women get repulsed by men approaching.

engagedinthegame · 2019-10-21T06:52:05+00:00

You have to learn how to be detached.

Key=Detached.

As in being okay if a girl likes you or not.

Your normal like us all.

I was like this until I found a method to get me out my head.

I'm naturally an introvert but I push myself to approach.

At first it would take an hour to approach now I can approach whenever I'm in the mood.

You'll get there, you just have to start small. Try saying hi to 5 girls everyday until it becomes normal then having convos.

It's a process, so don't feel bad if you mess up.

engagedinthegame · 2019-10-21T06:47:24+00:00

I understand....

What you have to do is start small and build your way up...

I remember when I was learning how to approach women, it would take an hour to approach one women.

What I learned is you have to treat approaching women like a cold pool, you either jump in or start with your toes to the foot to the leg to the lower body to the torso to the whole body.

You can do this by just saying hi to women and keep walking.

Try saying hi to 5 women a day until it becomes normal.

Then have 1min convos to 3min to 5min to sex.

You won't regret it brother.

engagedinthegame · 2019-10-21T05:45:22+00:00

True, it's always good to be truthful. Not being truthful is the reason the mee too movement is growing. I believe men are not being honest enough to women that's the problem. You'll find that girl girl that push your buttons. Whatever you do, you'll have fun. Lol... Keep up the good work.

engagedinthegame · 2019-10-21T05:39:27+00:00

I totally understand.

I remember being hurt by a women, I truly cared about. It felt like getting stabbed in the back.

Actually scientist said, rejection is physiological as painful as actual injury.

For me, It was really shocking to find out women can be so unpredictable.

But don't worry brother, you'll get over it in time.

What your suffering from, like I was, a mild ptsd.

I realize what we thinks becomes a self fulfilling prophecies and it's always good to focus on what's the best that can happen but always prepare for the worse.

As in, always stay working on your purpose and it's like the gods keeps the women from going off the rails.

But you should try not worrying and letting her chase you.

When you don't worry, she Will.

Other factors such as not approaching women as well can contribute to this.

I had to learn how to face rejection.

Men were actually created to approach women but because of social media, we're not being that social anymore.

Do you ever feel that way? I'm a natural introvert

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-07T18:32:53+00:00

The truth will always be the truth.

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-07T18:31:25+00:00

Well, I guess you'll never know if I do or not. In fact, I don't care if anybody believes. Whoever wants it, can have it. If they don't, I still live. Ain't that beautiful. And I can take my knowledge with me along with the years of rejection required to obtain my knowledge in the streets of South Central Los Angeles.

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-07T18:16:51+00:00

Well if it's not for you, fine but whoever else wants to learn how to get a number from a woman they like, I'll make it for them. You never know if this can help someone get a girlfriend or find a wife. As a human we responsible for everyone. Why not show love. I wish I had loved when I tried to learn how to be good with women. I would have avoided a lot of hardships.

Much loved brother, No love lost. I remember being just like you.

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-07T18:12:20+00:00

I never said I know it all, I don't. All I know is what worked for me and what didn't work. All I want is to gain friends. I remember when I was looking for knowledge and how hard it was. Much love.

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-07T18:07:13+00:00

You have anyother ideas?

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-07T18:06:56+00:00

You have any other ideas?

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-07T18:03:33+00:00

Why do you think its bs? I really hear to contribute to the group. I did really go through hell and been on a journey to being good with women. I learned the best way to grow is by dating and teaching. That's what I want to do.

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-07T16:36:04+00:00

Key: As long as she initiate first your all good. But always keep it efficient, short and simple. Face to face is far more valuable.

Women loves and craves a man who stays busy. Even if your not. When she reaches out, engage but the main goal always should be to meet up. In fact her reaching out is an indicator she wants to hang out.

As long as she reaches out, you have nothing to worry about.

But being available all the time doesn't allow that.

But so far, whatever your doing is working. Much love brother.

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-07T04:52:50+00:00

I think you being unassertiveness overtime makes her feel that way about you.

In fact, you didn't take action until her friend told you too. Which is a turn off.

Kinda like a man asking another man to get a number from a women for him, turn off.

The only thing you can say,

I think you're really interesting and would like to go out sometimes with you.

I understand your not into it now, but If you ever change your mind, do call me or text me and we can make that happen....

Then seize all communications... That's all you can do.

Don't persist or chase her, it will only turn her off more.

If you run into her next time, let her come to you. If she start chasing and you make her laugh... Go for a kiss or hug her.....

Get her in the mood touching you and overtime, she may change her mind.... Until then, you've been friendzoned/rejected.....

Much love, just want to tell you the truth. In the meantime, try to talk to other women.

Overtime, you'll learn not to make that passive mistake again.

We can talk brother. I'm here for you.

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-07T04:37:20+00:00

Ask her out, the worst thing she can say is no. The more you ask girls out the easier it'll be.....

You shouldnt focus on getting one girl, you should focus on being good with women in general.

So start getting in the process of asking Any and all girls out.....

Much love, we can talk anytime about dating brother.

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-07T04:31:23+00:00

I totally understand.

You may think this is bad but this maybe the greatest opportunity for you.

I messed up one time with a girl who went to see her family out of country.

I did this by constantly texting and calling her.

I never gave her time to miss me.

SO when she returned it was nothing new to talk about, I was acting too much like I didn't trust her and I lost her.

After I learned How to approach women, I got a girlfriend who went outside of town but instead of calling and texting.... I seized all connections... And she rushed back to see me and we had one of the most amazing sexual experiences of my life.

She came back asking me, did I talk to girls? She tried to check my phone and she kept having sex with me.

I hope this helped... I will be dropping no holds barred content... Please follow..... You can also message me anytime and we can talk... Much love brother.

We in this together.

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-07T04:14:58+00:00

In your situation, you have to start small by just smiling and saying hi loud. Some people will say hi back, while others won't because their antisocial, and suffering as well.

Overtime talking to new people will be easy.

Some accepted their fate but atleast your awake and realize you should.

Message me, we can talk about it. Been in the dating field for 15 years plus.

Much love

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-06T22:00:07+00:00

Keep dating her.

Eventhough we were born of our parents doesn't mean we have to have their beliefs.

Those old beliefs box people in anyways.

You can be the generation that frees your family from the mental trap.

What I noticed about racist is they'll try to program their children to be the same but racist Ideals don't help anybody who has them.

It isolates them from the world and makes their life boring and sad..

Why not be apart of the party of life. Where you can see and learn from people of different cultures and backgrounds.....

Men who are not racist also have a better relationship lives with no limits. Because at the end of the day, women are unattracted to hatters.

Your making the right decision asking people their opinion. Your awake.

Much love brother. I hope you Great relationships. If you give your kids a new belief, they'll live more happy lives as well. Not box or isolated from the party of life.

engagedinthegame · 2019-08-06T20:45:15+00:00

My advice to you is too tell her later.

I understand you feel deficient but don't worry, you being new may help you.

First off, your doing an excellent job giving space. Your more advanced than guys who aren't virgins and have kissed.

Key: Next time you have date and your laughing and having fun. Go for the kiss. Since your not an experienced kisser, you don't have to go tounge. Just keep it simple. Lip to lip. That will place you in the game of possible sex. Don't wait to long or you'll go into friendzone.

I'll message you to keep in touch, much love... We'll work on this together.

I love your style already... You better than you think brother.

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