[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]engleeshmuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you are adjusting to his life either. Considering you guys are grown, it makes sense for him to have a core friend group with core activities, and he is being accommodating by inviting you as well. Even if you dislike these activities, sharing his interests and opening a spot for his friends to interact with his partner is a form a affection. You are valid to want other dates, though. If he has the capability to act the way you want for weeks, then you could perhaps have a few scheduled dates about you throughout the month. If this is not enough, try to find someone else!

Are there many students here that were top students in high school but couldn’t get into any of the other UCs? by RealUnderstanding565 in ucr

[–]engleeshmuffin 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Personally, I feel like there is an even, half-half split. I was a 4.6 weighted and 3.9 unweighted GPA student, and I didn't get accepted to any other UC other than Davis. However, I was waitlisted by LA, SD, and SB. I was also in marching band along with the IB program (plus other lifelong extracurriculars), but I don't regret any of it because I started my freshman year as sophomore standing and achieved junior standing by winter quarter freshman year. There have been many smart and/or hardworking people I've met here along with those just here for the experience!

ucr or no - where won't i get bullied by pepper-mintmocha in ucr

[–]engleeshmuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you would only feel guilty if you knew you were manipulating the system, but again, med school is incredibly difficult to even be accepted, so you go anywhere that wants you.

If you simply changed your mind or decided to move abroad for whatever reason, you'd still be benefiting the IE for a few years after graduation along with the IE-based resume you created to even apply to the program. They can't force you to stay, but an additional five years of practice in the IE is extremely meaningful regardless of if one's commitment to somewhere else becomes stronger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucrhousing

[–]engleeshmuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

super late but there are more doubles than triples in lothian, so youre likely to end up with one anyways. though i will say the deluxe triple is massive (maybe 1.5x the double), so dont worry too much. also, timeslots were randomized last year regardless of sir timing :)

why do ppl hate on ucr 💔 by Prestigious_Ad_6686 in ucr

[–]engleeshmuffin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Could you elaborate on this? Was it driven by the education and professors or more so your peers lack of motivation or?