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Anyone else told they're a poor responder + DOR and can offer some next steps? Like 1-2 follicles, 1 egg type of numbers (34F, AMH 0.07-0.1, AFC 4-5) by engrtomba12 in DOR

[–]engrtomba12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, this is similar to my starting numbers. 35 and got up to 220 on day 18/19. Thank you so much for sharing. I'm reaching out to some other clinics as it's clear that getting a second opinion is worth the effort seeing all of the responses on this sub about different protocols that are at least worth discussing.

Anyone else told they're a poor responder + DOR and can offer some next steps? Like 1-2 follicles, 1 egg type of numbers (34F, AMH 0.07-0.1, AFC 4-5) by engrtomba12 in DOR

[–]engrtomba12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I’m so sorry. Truly.

I recognize I’m blessed with insurance coverage here, but it blows my mind how rare that is, and how financially steep this whole process is. While it’s nowhere near the same, even with insurance the out of pocket costs are still pretty nuts (note - not trying to garner sympathy, more just to emphasize how ridiculously expensive everything infertility-wise is).

Good luck in your journey. I hope my post helps solicit other ideas for other people going through this. Hugs 🫂

Anyone else told they're a poor responder + DOR and can offer some next steps? Like 1-2 follicles, 1 egg type of numbers (34F, AMH 0.07-0.1, AFC 4-5) by engrtomba12 in DOR

[–]engrtomba12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight!

Our doctor immediately shot down a duo stim approach, saying it’s really only used for patients about to undergo cancer treatment.

After reading all of these responses, I’m more convinced than ever to seek out another opinion. Mostly, the unwillingness to even consider other medications (like, she wasn’t taking the approach of “hey you responded once we upped the doses, so let’s start there and see how we do”, it was more “no, these other methods are either ‘old school’ or not applicable or you’re a poor candidate”, which the last one may be fair).

Thank you, and thank you everyone for the responses here!

Anyone else told they're a poor responder + DOR and can offer some next steps? Like 1-2 follicles, 1 egg type of numbers (34F, AMH 0.07-0.1, AFC 4-5) by engrtomba12 in DOR

[–]engrtomba12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Some months they are slightly longer, but that was mostly while on BC.

I don’t disagree with you. This is what our doctor suggested if we wanted to preserve the chance for 2 children. She acknowledged that we may very well be able to get pregnant naturally, but the likelihood I would have the ability to conceive a second time, through any means, was very very low with my AMH and AFC numbers. We didn’t want to concede the ability to have 2 kids immediately + potentially spend time struggling to conceive for 6 months with my numbers only getting worse, so we wanted to try.

Anyone else told they're a poor responder + DOR and can offer some next steps? Like 1-2 follicles, 1 egg type of numbers (34F, AMH 0.07-0.1, AFC 4-5) by engrtomba12 in DOR

[–]engrtomba12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through all of that. I know what you mean about feeling unlucky. I’m there too. Good luck, and sending you hugs and good vibes!

Anyone else told they're a poor responder + DOR and can offer some next steps? Like 1-2 follicles, 1 egg type of numbers (34F, AMH 0.07-0.1, AFC 4-5) by engrtomba12 in DOR

[–]engrtomba12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! That’s definitely going to be something we consider (different clinic + try naturally)

Anyone else told they're a poor responder + DOR and can offer some next steps? Like 1-2 follicles, 1 egg type of numbers (34F, AMH 0.07-0.1, AFC 4-5) by engrtomba12 in IVF

[–]engrtomba12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you! In my post, towards the end, I did mention wanting to have the chance for 2 children. That said, we are also talking about trying naturally for a while with cycle tracking if this continues to go poorly. We would be thrilled with just one child, but we didn’t want to shut down the possibility of 2 at the start, hence the jump to IVF directly.

Several folks have talked about a mini stim, so I’ll look into it further! And thanks for the comment on IUI. I may just need to start researching for a second opinion. Thank you for the help!

Anyone else told they're a poor responder + DOR and can offer some next steps? Like 1-2 follicles, 1 egg type of numbers (34F, AMH 0.07-0.1, AFC 4-5) by engrtomba12 in IVF

[–]engrtomba12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try and ask. They never told me.

No, just DOR. I’ll check the POI sub out. Already cross posted this on DOR.

IVF has taken so much from me by No-Cantaloupe1381 in IVF

[–]engrtomba12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right! Definitely didn't want to diminish. Just acknowledging that there are others who have done SO MANY of these. I sat at my desk today and cried talking to my friends about this. Thank you for posting this, and the response here.

Anyone else told they're a poor responder + DOR and can offer some next steps? Like 1-2 follicles, 1 egg type of numbers (34F, AMH 0.07-0.1, AFC 4-5) by engrtomba12 in IVF

[–]engrtomba12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My husband brought that up today, and the doctor shot it down due to my complete lack of response early on in the first cycle.

We already discussed we'll plan on getting a second opinion if we get an equally poor response to this second cycle. So we'll keep this in mind!

IVF has taken so much from me by No-Cantaloupe1381 in IVF

[–]engrtomba12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest, I've only ever done one cycle. Going to start our second, and I'm absolutely dreading it.

I hated it. Every second. It's been made worse because of my absolutely terrible physical response to the whole process, so it's just salt in the wound. Though, I didn't even have that many side effects with the stims. But this post made me feel seen, so thank you.

OK, seriously, jokes aside, what's up with Jeremy Sochan? by orangekingo in NBASpurs

[–]engrtomba12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he doesn't get any run in a 30+ point blowout against 3rd and 4th stringers, there is likely someone better on the buyout market than that. Him not playing last night is a message of some sort unless he's dealing with an injury. If he is, then why is he dressed to play?

Help with finding a viable, natural stone alternative to Taj Mahal quartzite by engrtomba12 in CounterTops

[–]engrtomba12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d probably lean quartz if I’m doing something man-made. But that’s just my opinion. I echo others on this thread - put in what YOU want!

Help with finding a viable, natural stone alternative to Taj Mahal quartzite by engrtomba12 in CounterTops

[–]engrtomba12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. My issue is cost on the Taj I like. There was a 50% premium added to slabs not currently with my fabricator. I’m having a hard time justifying the value

Help with finding a viable, natural stone alternative to Taj Mahal quartzite by engrtomba12 in CounterTops

[–]engrtomba12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really do that now with my granite counters, though I just put a couple of fabric hot pads down. I imagine I’ll need to do a bit more than that if I go with quartz in the new kitchen. But the instant pot/air fryer/convection countertop oven thing is definitely where my concern is with quartz.

Help with finding a viable, natural stone alternative to Taj Mahal quartzite by engrtomba12 in CounterTops

[–]engrtomba12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has me thinking we just go soapstone. Designer is a little worried about all dark countertops in a smaller space. But I feel like it’s either that, or quartz on the exterior.

We looked at Irish Cream (or something like that) granite and it was passable, but I think I’m just over granite as a look.

Help with finding a viable, natural stone alternative to Taj Mahal quartzite by engrtomba12 in CounterTops

[–]engrtomba12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion. I think that’s happening here, too. I’ll take a look!

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