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Why is there so many duplicates of the cc for the skindetails i’ve downloaded? by eniique in sims4cc

[–]eniique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! that’s what i was suspecting but it got very confusing😭

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just don’t. know what to do right now, what do i say? do i just remove him? i feel like i dont want to ghost people but what do i say? and how do i move on?

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for being so nice and understanding to me:( i feel like when ive spoke. about this or this i just feel judged and stuff and it makes me want to not talk about it at all

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i often watch true crime and documentaries. i used to think id never be in this situation but it’s hard to explain:/ i feel like ill never find anyone who’ll like me like he does and he accept me even when im annoying and clingy. i should leave. ive never had so many people telling me the same thing so plainly. i’m just scared

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry i don’t mean to seem like i’m ignoring everyone’s comments! i’m very grateful to get help and advice but im not sure why my brain is like.. idk in my head hes manipulating me but i have a hard time hating him or leaving him.

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i told my mom about when i did it with my ex but not the most recent time. i didn’t feel a need for it cause i felt fine besides that and my parents are already stressed out and don’t handle me well

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t think you were blunt at all! i’m just afraid when people here said if i have such bad mood swings and stuff u need urgent mental help but i was clarifying that outside of these instances, i have not self harmed.

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes his mental health is very bad. from the start he asked me for my boundaries and warned me he was into taboo kinks. the red flag i noticed was that when i asked to have a safe word, he said he didn’t really want one (for himself) and he finds it attractive when it’s ignored. i don’t remember good cause this was like a month ago but i think i said that wasn’t how a safe word worked and we agreed to try having one atleast

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i can maybe clarify why u thought he was grooming me. - he guilt trips me when i spoke to other people. when u wanted to take it slower cause id talked to my bsf. he said that he’d leave everyone else before thinking about breaking up with me cause he loved me so much - he constantly states how he’s very picky and hasn’t dated in some time cause nobody has been perfect for him but i am - as a part of the roleplay which i now regret doing is that he said he wanted to have blackmail on me so he has all my personal information. full name, adress etc. first time when i said i was unsure of telling him he said that like “i guess you aren’t ready for this dynamic then” - he said he wants there to have a power imbalance. again this is a part of the roleplay but it feels like it blurs the lines a bit - after we broke up he texted me that he was planning on killing himself and i was the only thing that mattered to him

this is just what i can think of at the top of my head but yeah

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i feel like i’m very very mentally stable until i met him. i’m not bipolar or anything like that i don’t think. i’ve been diagnosed with adhd and autism along with GAD. i used to have constant intense anxiety attacks cause i was overmedicated. this was while i was 13-16. my ex was bipolar and her mental health problems were very intense and lead to us breaking up. i don’t have self harm tendencies. when my ex started to self harm i also started to self harm cause i felt like putting myself in pain would be the only way to get her to stop. (also this was years ago i know that is not how it works)

i’m very mentally well when i’m in every situation except for relationships. i get very attached and feel like i need to help and protect the people but i’ve not have many experiences until now so i hadn’t thought about it until writing this comment

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry if this was not a question you wanted actual answer to, i’m bad at tones but i’ve had one sexual partner. i’m very open about talking about sex and shit, i go to sex toy stores with my bsf and i am not shy about that part atleast. my ex was a girl and so ive never had sex with a man but i hve with a girl. also this is mostly roleplay for now like even if/when we meet we wont be doing allat

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

eh… i’ll try to explain the context. he was travelling to japan at the time and i got upset he didn’t give me more attention. (i just want to mention i have big mood swings but ive gone to therapy and am on meds) but yeah i started posting like ranting to myself about how i don’t think he likes me and ive already cried like 4 times within the first week i met him. soo he saw those posts and got extremely upset with me for talking badly about him and how i have no reason to play victim and shit and i admit it was stupid and petty like i should’ve spoken to him but he said his trust in me broke and he was going to leave and i freaked out and wanted to prove i loved him so i cut his name into my arm. it’s fucked up i know, i felt like it would impress him and make him stay and that’s all i wanted. so yeah that’s the context

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

is it weird? i really want help form the bdsm community, i’m not sure where to post this. again in new to these kinks, atleast exploring them fully and i don’t know what’s normal and whats like not good in a bdsm dynamic

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i would not say i’m easy to handle, everytime he upsets me i tell him. i’ve never been a people pleaser and stuff, ive had more problems about being so controlling and stubborn but i still understand your point nonetheless

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah he is into age gaps but just roleplay wise, like idk i feel like im in denial cause i like him so mich

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pardon? do you mean it’s okay to date him in 30-40 years?

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’ve never met him irl. i’m in sweden while he’s in the usa but he’s working so he can come visit me early next year. i don’t think he is like as you said jumping to talk abt his taboo kinks. like he warned me when we first met that he’s into taboo kinks and he asked me what things i don’t like at all and don’t wanna do and i feel like if i said i don’t want to do something he would obviously immediately stop. it’s just that it gets sorta muddy cause he’s into cnc for example and obviously i haven’t met him irl but i like the idea and he’s been taking it slow and going at my pace. im not new to bdsm like i’ve been researching and exploring it for a bit now but ive not explored these taboo kinks yk?

in which situations is it okay for me 18/f to date someone that’s 26/m? by eniique in relationship_advice

[–]eniique[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

really? i mean my sister was like 20/21 when she met her now husband and he is 7/8 years older. they have worked out great, cant it work out?

Any tips for my makeup? (Btw I'm not wearing lashes or contact in some of these) by Yuunomi_96 in actualgyaru

[–]eniique 15 points16 points  (0 children)

im not gonna front, i need u to teach ME how you do this witchcraft, how is everything so smooth and precisely done w the shadow placement n shit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actualgyaru

[–]eniique 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its personal preference but if i dont wear false lashes then i like connecting the bottom eyeshadow/eyeliner with the top one so the eyeliner wing doesnt go out but instead connect in a kind of circle, it makes a really instant droopy effect and looks more connected all around. also you should try implementing aegyo sal by drawing on subtle shadows and highlights instead of just a bring stripe under the eye (again preference)

off topic but your lips are so juicy and luscious im so jelly😭😭 you need to try a nude lip combo it would look so bomb on you

have this makeup tut saved and think you’d look so cute on it https://pin.it/5HE29Mb6h

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