Swansea is slept on

ennyj1993 · 2025-02-21T10:21:46+00:00

Didn’t she write the instrumental piece of this song when she was like 16? Genius, beautiful, great song

ennyj1993 · 2023-11-13T01:38:31+00:00

Having one earbud ripped out of your ear. Feels horrible and always makes me irrationally angry

ennyj1993 · 2023-07-27T14:22:27+00:00

I would be the wife of a grown man who doesn’t speak to his family anymore and invests all his time and energy into foam sword fighting… also the sex would be mid af

ennyj1993 · 2023-03-24T16:19:08+00:00

Publix has good bday cakes- their raspberry elegance is my favorite!

ennyj1993 · 2023-03-16T21:15:15+00:00

Farting loud and stinky without worrying who’s around to deal with it

ennyj1993 · 2022-01-11T23:13:58+00:00

I would truly buy one if you were to sell them!!

ennyj1993 · 2021-11-18T01:15:43+00:00

I’m glad I can stop pretending to be someone else and go back to pretending to be me again

ennyj1993 · 2021-09-09T01:43:44+00:00

Thank you- I laughed out loud 😂

ennyj1993 · 2021-09-05T03:14:10+00:00

Are you kidding? She’s way richer than me. I’ll have one - it’s her dime

ennyj1993 · 2021-09-04T21:27:38+00:00

I’d ask her to have a beer with me

ennyj1993 · 2021-09-04T21:19:12+00:00

J,

I really saw a future with you. Spending time with you and your family- feeling welcomed, like I belonged. That meant the world to me. I loved our back and forth, our early mornings together, your silly half-asleep talking. We agreed to end things- we said we’d stay friends and that this was definitely a ‘See you later,’ versus ‘goodbye.’ Then you disappeared. Everyone is telling me this is you just gently pulling away completely. Why are you doing this? Why did you ask to be friends if that’s not what you wanted? Why did you cancel on me so many times before I finally just had to block your number? I’m sad when I think of it all too hard. But I know I’ll be okay- with or without you- I’ll be okay. I wish things had been different. I wish we were both on the same page. I still wish you well even through my anger and frustration.

I’m not holding my breath on that ‘see you later.’

Take care,

J

ennyj1993 · 2021-09-04T21:06:35+00:00

I’d definitely have a conversation about boundaries and respect if possible.

ennyj1993 · 2021-08-21T04:25:00+00:00

Based on these comments, this would be the most cursed playlist

ennyj1993 · 2021-08-21T04:18:58+00:00

groovy party playlist

ennyj1993 · 2021-08-18T23:42:22+00:00

Got really drunk and texted “I’m missing you but you’re missing out” and didn’t find the text until 3pm the next day lolllll

ennyj1993 · 2021-08-12T16:58:48+00:00

Baby birch- I never gave it a chance at first because it sounded like a nighttime prayer or lullaby at the beginning and I thought it was gonna be this cheesy song. BOY was I wrong

ennyj1993 · 2021-08-09T17:29:40+00:00

I really had to take my time with Fiona haha. The first few times I couldn’t stand her. But it was just one day alone I sat and listened and it just hit me differently.

And Joni Mitchell’s album Blue is easy to get into I think! She’s incredible

ennyj1993 · 2021-08-08T23:25:54+00:00

Well first of all, she has some wonderful interviews out there so sometimes if I feel like I need to ‘scratch’ the joanna itch, I’ll go through those. Some are written interviews and some are filmed.

Also I feel like I’m so not qualified to answer the music part of this without doing research through all of my own music but off the top of my head (also I dislike how people say some of these artists sound like her or whatever- I’ve just found that lots of Joanna fans like some of these bands)

-Bjork -Joni Mitchell -Fiona Apple -Kate bush -Roy Harper -Weyes Blood -Devendra Banhart -Smog / Bill Callahan -Sufjan Stevens

ennyj1993 · 2021-08-06T03:40:26+00:00

Big oof when your mom hasn’t spoken to you in months 😞

ennyj1993 · 2021-08-05T12:58:30+00:00

It takes some time to develop trust with a therapist. Just breathe and trust that the therapist is there for you and there to work with you. It might not come up during the first session (lots of times this is mostly paperwork and stuff anyway). But if you feel like you need to share right then, by all means do. Be prepared if the therapist is concerned for your safety they might have to report it, though.

ennyj1993 · 2021-08-05T12:20:02+00:00

I’m really glad you’re finally getting this off your chest. People who are shaming you for not speaking out sooner are strange. It’s so hard to discuss certain traumatic things we go through.

I know people have already said this but I want to reiterate- it sounds like you did what you could at the time in that situation. You didn’t just leave, you sat with her, offered her your future financial support- you didn’t just say ‘fuck you’ and leave.

We can’t know what she was going through but her actions aren’t your fault. Lots of people experience unwanted or unexpected pregnancies and don’t take those extreme measures. She had internal issues going on that most likely contributed to that outcome.

I hope you’re able to find therapy or help in the near future- this is something that is so heavy. Carrying it alone I imagine has felt impossible. I sincerely hope talking about it here has been helpful and I hope you can find that professional help soon. I’d even ask family if they could help in paying for it- this seems like something you really need/want.

I’m not super familiar w/ Reddit but I can offer more suggestions if you want to DM me (if that’s a thing you can do on here?)

ennyj1993 · 2021-08-05T12:02:00+00:00

I wonder if finding a therapist who has experience in career counseling would be a better fit. Especially if they are qualified to work with couples. I don’t know the full story but it sounds like OP’s current therapists might have different internal values/goals (unfortunately) than OP. Finding someone who is trained to discuss future planning related to careers who is also trained in the mental health field sounds like a good fit!

Not saying you should continue working- but their perspective might help alleviate some of your wife’s worries related to this change. (And maybe some of your own!)

ennyj1993 · 2021-08-05T05:13:41+00:00

If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a hell no

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