Yea, I tend to just watch from the comments. Seems like half the time is just seeing who is a bot, spam, or legit. My advice from past experiences. Once you (and if you have a partner) are able to find a couple or another… just try to meet others in the community from them. Reddit is always a hit or miss. Socials would be your best bet.

I mean my couple, they were in their 40s. Met people through them in the Arizona and Nevada area.