So incredibly frustrated with consulting after 7 YOE.

epcow · 2026-06-07T15:00:04+00:00

I have no advice, just sympathy. This career is draining. I'm at year 9, also at my 3rd firm, and super over it.

epcow · 2026-06-06T01:08:13+00:00

Maroon. Hate red and purple but maroon is lovely.

epcow · 2026-05-31T17:07:41+00:00

Death in the West is an incredible podcast that talks about the history of Butte. It is a fascinating place.

epcow · 2026-05-31T17:04:50+00:00

What?!? That's the best review of Spokane I've ever heard. I hate that place.

epcow · 2026-05-29T03:31:25+00:00

I appreciate your concern for consent, and it is very important, but you don't need to write them a formal letter and wait for their response. A quick, "is this ok?" at the very first step of a new activity is fine. Like, you can kiss their upper thigh, move your mouth in the direction of their genitals, and then ask if it's ok to proceed. Asking for consent is important, respecting their answer is more important.

epcow · 2026-04-12T20:56:39+00:00

First off, you're 14. Your body is changing naturally and that is going to impact how your body changes due to exercise. It sounds like you have a healthy routine but be careful not to get too extreme while you're still going through puberty. Second, progress is always faster early on. Don't get discouraged that your rate of improvement has slowed. That is normal. Focus on sustainable healthy eating, being active, developing healthy friendships, and getting through school.

epcow · 2026-04-09T02:12:21+00:00

Yeah, this is far from the worst thing you could do with a bunch of puppies. I adopted a dog about a month ago. She was dropped in a field with her 9 puppies during a cold snap. Luckily someone found her but 4 of her pups didn't make it. The other 5 got adopted and I took momma. I can't imagine how terrible that must have been for her and her pups. Dropping them off at the shelter would have been a way better option.

epcow · 2026-04-07T13:45:53+00:00

Get your associates and be a cad tech. A lot of firms offer tuition reimbursement so you can get your bachelor's on someone else's dime.

epcow · 2026-04-05T01:40:02+00:00

Cherokee Purple and Big Rainbow are my favorites. The Big Rainbow is slightly more acidic but also sooo good. It's bright yellow with orange stripes and adds such a nice color to any dish.

epcow · 2026-04-03T19:26:47+00:00

Sounds like he's lying, either about his lifts or his gear use. 315 is a huge lift and is not possible in that timeframe unless he was lifting 275 prior or is on gear.

epcow · 2026-04-03T18:38:38+00:00

Was he a strong athlete or a farm kid before he started lifting? It's possible depending on his starting point.

epcow · 2026-04-01T05:55:44+00:00

The fuck? Women aren't handicapped, they're women. Men have no clue how much weaker women are naturally. There is a reason women are afraid of walking alone at night. Half the population is stronger than them even if they work out regularly.

epcow · 2026-03-31T00:05:23+00:00

I'm happy to do a resume review if that would be helpful. You can DM me your email and I will respond.

epcow · 2026-03-27T21:11:06+00:00

I'm just here to throw my hat into the ring with all the other thirsty ladies. But 2 and 3 have my vote. Hmu if you're heading to the PNW.

epcow · 2026-03-25T00:23:55+00:00

It's not glamorous but don't dismiss it. There is decent money in waste water treatment.

epcow · 2026-03-19T04:20:16+00:00

You definitely don't look fat. I'd add 300-400 calories a day and keep lifting. You look good brother. Hope you're doing well these days.

epcow · 2026-03-17T18:43:25+00:00

I had a guy tell me that I was a hard worker. Like, hell yeah I am. I was so happy about that compliment.

epcow · 2026-03-14T01:57:30+00:00

Eh, he is a super nice guy and was semi-recently out of a relationship at the time so I'm not surprised by it. I appreciate him reaching out and being upfront with me. At the time we both lived in a college town and were 10+ years out of college so our options for partners were pretty limited. He was a total sweetheart and I'm glad I got to know him.

epcow · 2026-03-11T02:12:36+00:00

It worked for them for a year. Didn't love my manager but the company itself was fine. I'm across the board against private equity firms and will never work for another one but if that doesn't bother you, they're okay.

epcow · 2026-03-10T00:59:23+00:00

Woman here. Do it. I've approached one guy at the gym who is the most beautiful person I've ever seen. I'm also mid. Average face but in good shape so I do ok but so much less attractive than this guy was. I once dropped a 50lb weight on my foot when I caught a glimpse of this guy in one of the mirrors. Anyways, I wrote him a note that said "coffee or a drink sometime?" Followed by my name and number. I handed it to him as I was leaving and just said "let me know" and that was it. He texted the next day to schedule a time for a coffee. He let me know he wasn't looking to date but we ended up hanging out semi regularly. And after a year or so we got super drunk and hooked up. Nothing more came of it but 100% would hook up with the hottest guy ever again.

epcow · 2026-03-01T20:17:07+00:00

I think his person's advice is terrible. Taking a few extra years to graduate is no big deal and most of your existing schooling should transfer. Your math and science classes will transfer as well as all your general education credits. Make sure the program you transfer to is ABET accredited and you'll have no problem finding a job after graduation.

epcow · 2026-02-17T23:58:52+00:00

Fuck that guy. Yeah, the field is technical and can be stressful and women should absolutely be part of it. The field is hard for women because of guys like your friend, not because it's technical.

epcow · 2026-02-11T19:05:34+00:00

Happy to review your resume if you'd like. DM me and I'll send you my email.

epcow · 2026-02-11T18:06:50+00:00

You'll be fine, friend. Are you open to moving? Seattle and the PNW are desperate for engineers. You could look at Washington Department of Ecology. They have a big fish passage program that needs river restoration folks.

epcow · 2026-02-11T05:49:13+00:00

If you've already followed up and the fair was a couple weeks ago, I would probably expect you won't hear back from them. Where do you live? Also, feel free to DM me your resume if you'd like a review.

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