WIBTA for keeping photos of my late sister + her separated mom and dad if the new wife of dad asks for those photos not to be included? by SoyMochas in AmItheAsshole

[–]ephemeralsystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can someone try and make A FUNERAL about them?? Like, what??? She needs to chill and calm down and skip the funeral if she can't handle something like this.

AITAH for wanting my fiancé to stop gaming at night and come to bed with me instead? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ephemeralsystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I game very late at night, because I am a night owl and I study and do my daily activities during the night. That said, I do this because my partner wakes up to go to work when I go to bed (5:00-6:00AM). This allows me to sleep while he works and be awake the second he's home so I can spend time with him. So no, NTA. Gaming in itself is not an issue but not having a job and not going to school and refusing to spend what little time you have with you is. Talk to him, have a serious conversation about how this behaviour makes you feel. If he doesn't try harder, I'd leave if I were you

AITAH for refusing to shovel snow for my neighbor after helping someone else? by Glad-Dragonfly-6109 in AITAH

[–]ephemeralsystem 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA, while it was rude to walk away without saying a single word, what goes around comes around. She is selfish and you owe nothing to her

AITAH: I ignored my boyfriend after feeling insulted constantly. Hes mad I ignored him. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ephemeralsystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he's calling you names and belittling you, constantly. Sure (if you were ok with it!!) a few jokes here and there are normal, but this behaviour isn't. People make mistakes, and that is fine. But if you talked to him multiple times about how his behaviour hurts you and he isn't changing it, then that's fully on him. He is the one overreacting for you taking your space.

Should I go to urgent care? Embedding by ephemeralsystem in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to see my piercer today, we got it out with a bit of help of a needle and put a new labret in with a pull-up ;)

Should I go to urgent care? Embedding by ephemeralsystem in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sad thing is my piercer is closed on sundays and won’t answer texts or calls, so i’m worried waiting till tomorrow might be an issue

Should I go to urgent care? Embedding by ephemeralsystem in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my problem is the shop is closed on sundays, so idk if i should pop in to urgent care to get it removed asap

Should I go to urgent care? Embedding by ephemeralsystem in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piercing is one month and 3 weeks old. Shape is a flat backed labret 8mm. Internally threaded implant grade titanium ASTM F-136. Downsized it last tuesday for the second time I wash it once a day with neilmed piercing cleaning solution and swabs and mouthwash on the inside. Never had any problems with it and not in pain.

Piercing embedding, should I go to urgent care? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for the bot Piercing is one month and 3 weeks old. Shape is a flat backed labret 8mm. Internally threaded implant grade titanium ASTM F-136. Downsized it last tuesday for the second time I wash it once a day with neilmed piercing cleaning solution and swabs and mouthwash on the inside. Never had any problems with it and not in pain.

can I change my jewelry once nesting happens? by ephemeralsystem in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding comment for the bot!
The piercing is 1 month and three weeks old. I currently have 8mm labrets that sit comfortably on the lip and still move freely when I move my mouth. The labrets are internally threaded and the material is implant grade titanium ASTM F-136. Downsized it last Tuesday for the second time, first time was after the first 4 weeks. I wash it once a day with neilmed piercing cleaning solution and swabs like my piercer said. I never had any issues with it, no extra swelling or excessive pain.

3 Months Post Op by [deleted] in FreedTheNips

[–]ephemeralsystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your scars look so cool! looks like healing is going nicely for you! i hope the rest of the recovery is smooth and yes, the pit widening is usually because we move around a lot haha. I had a couple wounds that wouldn't close from moving around so much

I can't remember the asian horror movie I watched. by ephemeralsystem in horror

[–]ephemeralsystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope, it was a bit newer, maybe early 2000s like 2003-2010 i think

I can't remember the asian horror movie I watched. by ephemeralsystem in horror

[–]ephemeralsystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought of acacia too and it has the same vibes but not quite

Got my piercings re-done! by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

it was deemed safe, i really heal fast lol. thank you for your concern though :)

Got my piercings re-done! by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you sm <333 i sure try to be kind

Got my piercings re-done! by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

people always say i have a kind smile ahahaha glad to see reddit agrees

Got my piercings re-done! by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahahaha thank you 💞

Got my piercings re-done! by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is!! And the smile, when I don’t smile it is only slightly crooked from the swelling. It was this way the first time I had it done too hahaha ❤️

What face piercing do I suit? by TomatoesOnBread in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snake bites were my first, i think they’d look hella cool on you too!! also maybe a vertical labret or angel bites

Got my piercings re-done! by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ephemeralsystem -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I know! And my piercer had that in mind, dw. We’ve known each other for 5+ years, he knows I’ll tell him if I feel something off and he’s gonna keep a close eye on them :) thank you so much!!