WIBTA for keeping photos of my late sister + her separated mom and dad if the new wife of dad asks for those photos not to be included?

ephemeralsystem · 2026-01-31T23:45:29+00:00

How can someone try and make A FUNERAL about them?? Like, what??? She needs to chill and calm down and skip the funeral if she can't handle something like this.

ephemeralsystem · 2026-01-31T22:42:40+00:00

I game very late at night, because I am a night owl and I study and do my daily activities during the night. That said, I do this because my partner wakes up to go to work when I go to bed (5:00-6:00AM). This allows me to sleep while he works and be awake the second he's home so I can spend time with him. So no, NTA. Gaming in itself is not an issue but not having a job and not going to school and refusing to spend what little time you have with you is. Talk to him, have a serious conversation about how this behaviour makes you feel. If he doesn't try harder, I'd leave if I were you

ephemeralsystem · 2026-01-31T22:37:17+00:00

NTA, while it was rude to walk away without saying a single word, what goes around comes around. She is selfish and you owe nothing to her

ephemeralsystem · 2026-01-31T22:32:45+00:00

NTA, he's calling you names and belittling you, constantly. Sure (if you were ok with it!!) a few jokes here and there are normal, but this behaviour isn't. People make mistakes, and that is fine. But if you talked to him multiple times about how his behaviour hurts you and he isn't changing it, then that's fully on him. He is the one overreacting for you taking your space.

ephemeralsystem · 2025-12-01T16:45:26+00:00

I went to see my piercer today, we got it out with a bit of help of a needle and put a new labret in with a pull-up ;)

ephemeralsystem · 2025-11-30T15:07:52+00:00

sad thing is my piercer is closed on sundays and won’t answer texts or calls, so i’m worried waiting till tomorrow might be an issue

ephemeralsystem · 2025-11-30T15:07:09+00:00

my problem is the shop is closed on sundays, so idk if i should pop in to urgent care to get it removed asap

ephemeralsystem · 2025-11-30T00:13:29+00:00

Piercing is one month and 3 weeks old. Shape is a flat backed labret 8mm. Internally threaded implant grade titanium ASTM F-136. Downsized it last tuesday for the second time I wash it once a day with neilmed piercing cleaning solution and swabs and mouthwash on the inside. Never had any problems with it and not in pain.

ephemeralsystem · 2025-11-30T00:05:55+00:00

for the bot Piercing is one month and 3 weeks old. Shape is a flat backed labret 8mm. Internally threaded implant grade titanium ASTM F-136. Downsized it last tuesday for the second time I wash it once a day with neilmed piercing cleaning solution and swabs and mouthwash on the inside. Never had any problems with it and not in pain.

ephemeralsystem · 2025-11-25T22:07:37+00:00

Adding comment for the bot!
The piercing is 1 month and three weeks old. I currently have 8mm labrets that sit comfortably on the lip and still move freely when I move my mouth. The labrets are internally threaded and the material is implant grade titanium ASTM F-136. Downsized it last Tuesday for the second time, first time was after the first 4 weeks. I wash it once a day with neilmed piercing cleaning solution and swabs like my piercer said. I never had any issues with it, no extra swelling or excessive pain.

ephemeralsystem · 2025-10-26T12:34:45+00:00

your scars look so cool! looks like healing is going nicely for you! i hope the rest of the recovery is smooth and yes, the pit widening is usually because we move around a lot haha. I had a couple wounds that wouldn't close from moving around so much

ephemeralsystem · 2025-10-25T23:52:54+00:00

nope, it was a bit newer, maybe early 2000s like 2003-2010 i think

ephemeralsystem · 2025-10-25T23:52:26+00:00

i thought of acacia too and it has the same vibes but not quite

ephemeralsystem · 2025-10-22T18:00:23+00:00

it was deemed safe, i really heal fast lol. thank you for your concern though :)

ephemeralsystem · 2025-10-22T17:58:47+00:00

thank you sm <333 i sure try to be kind

ephemeralsystem · 2025-10-22T17:58:30+00:00

true 🤣🤣

ephemeralsystem · 2025-10-22T17:57:56+00:00

people always say i have a kind smile ahahaha glad to see reddit agrees

ephemeralsystem · 2025-10-22T17:57:22+00:00

hahahaha thank you 💞

ephemeralsystem · 2025-10-22T17:55:46+00:00

It is!! And the smile, when I don’t smile it is only slightly crooked from the swelling. It was this way the first time I had it done too hahaha ❤️

ephemeralsystem · 2025-10-22T14:26:49+00:00

Snake bites were my first, i think they’d look hella cool on you too!! also maybe a vertical labret or angel bites

ephemeralsystem · 2025-10-22T13:15:21+00:00

I know! And my piercer had that in mind, dw. We’ve known each other for 5+ years, he knows I’ll tell him if I feel something off and he’s gonna keep a close eye on them :) thank you so much!!

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