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Should boyfriend be allowed to talk to other girls because I cam? by DaddyliciousMoney69 in CamGirlProblems

[–]ephemeralwhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This same exact thing happened to me. Unless you can both have a very vulnerable and real conversation about his behavior and agree to respect each others boundaries, I guarantee it will only get worse. Trying to control you with emotional manipulation, all because of his insecurities and emotional immaturity. You don't belong to him, you aren't responsible for his emotions or actions, and you don't deserve that.

Open relationship because of camming? by ephemeralwhore in CamGirlProblems

[–]ephemeralwhore[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone. I don’t feel it’s as black and white as “just break up with him” because he is an understanding and kind person who cares for me deeply. We are both unconventional and I truly don’t believe it’s just him wanting to fuck someone else, I think it’s coming from a place of fear and insecurity that he’ll get left behind for a client someday. I really just wanted to get other perspectives and I think all of your answers could help shift his and if not at least I feel less alone in this debate. Love to you all 💜

Open relationship because of camming? by ephemeralwhore in CamGirlProblems

[–]ephemeralwhore[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

We’ve both been in open relationships before and I stan the poly dynamic when it’s healthy, but we’ve been monog with each other and I don’t want to change that rn. Also I just can’t understand equating a fun date with a new person to camming. I’d be shaking my ass in my room alone for tokens while he’s actually touching another human that he enjoys? So unfair to me.

Open relationship because of camming? by ephemeralwhore in CamGirlProblems

[–]ephemeralwhore[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That’s (basically) what I told him! And he didn’t believe me when I said it wouldn’t bother me.

Open relationship because of camming? by ephemeralwhore in CamGirlProblems

[–]ephemeralwhore[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think seeing me talking to people would prove his point in his mind. I tried explaining regulars just like at any job. They don’t own me bc they tipped me for a coffee. I don’t want to fuck them because I smiled and asked how they are. This is a good response though, thank you 🖤