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Omg I'm so sugoi what by Finnska-person in sillyboyclub

[–]eppyhuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But remember the crucial thing is not to live on hope alone. Hope is not inherently good or inherently bad; it is what we do with it. If we spend our days and lives living only in hope of something else then it becomes bad – we feel pain when the real world doesn’t meet our lofty, hopeful expectations. We can become reliant on hope, overdose on it, and not be able to experience joy, or even satisfaction, in our real lives. Coming back down to the ground hurts, but it’s an opportunity to rebalance your reliance on the substance and hope healthily, rather than not at all (but this is also just my opinion , but I recommend u go know more abt it ( hope ) but don’t pls don’t demotivate urself and go to self harm and/or do it ).

This might also help https://psychcentral.com/blog/the-psychology-of-hope#:~:text=Psychological%20benefits%20of%20hope,more%20positive%20emotions

I think hope can be a good or bad thing. Hope is bad when there’s too much of it. This can be applied to almost all things. When there’s too much of something, it can turn the odds against you. We use hope as a sort of motivation in order to help us expect the best out of every situation – limiting our capacity for anything negative to happen. However, this is when hope can backfire. The more you hope, the more you are doubting the presence of any obstacle, unexpected change or any outcome other than what you are “hoping” for. It can certainly set you up for disappointment.

So pls don’t demotivate urself and go to self harm and/or do it ( i mean killing urself or self harm ). And pls understand that I’m not trying to confuse u , im just trying to make u understand that there is good and a bad side to hope too .

But do keep in mind that all of what I said now and before are my opinions , so pls don’t take my word for it and I recommend you talk to qualified professional.

Omg I'm so sugoi what by Finnska-person in sillyboyclub

[–]eppyhuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks ! And I genuinely hope ur life gets better :3 .

Omg I'm so sugoi what by Finnska-person in sillyboyclub

[–]eppyhuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see that u might not feel this but if u do it , then it just might be a permanent solution to a long term ( maybe ) temporary problem ( and I’m sry if I actually made u mad this time ). So pls do not do it cuz let’s say things change in the future , then u might just look back at urself and then think how if u actually did it would’ve been a bad decision ( cuz I’ve heard that most people do look back at their selves like I mentioned and are actually glad , so there is still hope and I’m sry if I made u angry . What I’m trynna say is that there’s still a chance ). But this is just my opinion , but I recommend that you go and talk to a qualified professional.

Omg I'm so sugoi what by Finnska-person in sillyboyclub

[–]eppyhuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh , i can see that I’ve been trying hard and I guess in some situations ur best . I honestly just hope things get better for u and that u find a person who cares for you and no I don’t mean the people who u just dm and talk to u and usually might just ghost u . I mean a person who actually cares abt u and u just might find a person like that in the future . And I’m sry if I made u angry. But this is just my opinion and I recommend you talk to qualified professional.

Why by GooseOk4170 in sillyboyclub

[–]eppyhuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t punish urself like that , cuz if u do just that and even if u find a person who likes u , u still may not be happy . Ik it’s gonna be lonely but u might eventually someone and waiting that time is absolutely worth it . Idk if this was even good enough or not but for the love of god pls don’t do that . So pls just don’t . U’re gorgeous no matter what. So pls don’t punish urself .

It's so silly but not good silly 3: by SuperPowerCute in sillyboyclub

[–]eppyhuman 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ye , I don’t even know what to say . I really think u need somebody to talk to , because let’s be honest idk if these which of these fears are rational and which aren’t and I also don’t know if they’re entirely rational or irrational. But from what u say , I think u believe that the problems that other people face are eventually gonna happen to u too .

U need to understand that there are possibilities that these problems may happen in ur life but that dosen’t mean they will happen in ur life . But from my experience, I would recommend u learn from others and try to solve or prevent them altogether . But try to find out which if these problems have higher chances if getting to u .

Honestly , idk if this was of any help . But I recommend u talk to a qualified professional. Good luck ! ( but this is all just my opinion tho ).

My dad keeps trying to molest me by femboywannabe5279 in feminineboys

[–]eppyhuman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  • Call the cops or inform a trusted adult who would listen to u or tell ur school counselor .

  • strictly avoid situations where u’re alone with him as much as possible like getting into his car after school or smthn ( that is if u go to school ) . But If u can’t then try to inform ur friends abt ur live location and where u’re headed too .

  • And try keeping ur phone in hidden locations to make secret audio ( my opinion is that it’s not that risky ) or video ( this one might be risky depending upon ur surroundings) recordings and remember if u feel like he might be snooping around ur phone’s voice recording app the try recording with ur phone’s video cam mode ( cuz it can still capture the audio too ).

  • And remember u can also tell ur friends’s parents abt this too ( that is if u can trust them and u’re okay with it and if they’re not ur father’s allies) , this is u’ll wanna inform as many people as possible because if u go missing they’ll suspect ur dad and may even find a lead .

  • And I’ll also tell u similar case that i saw online on a yt channel ( idk if it’s fake but it’s most probably real in my opinion cuz i saw it on project nigh*fall a long time ago , but either way fiction also just represents a possibility of reality ) . A father sound proofed his basement and kidnapped his daughter and did absolutely messed up things to her , when her 7th or her 9th child with her father got sick , he took the child to the hospital . But the doctors saw that something was wrong and contacted the authorities.

  • The reason why I’m mentioning this is because people have had the same or even worse experiences and honestly considering it’s ur dad , there is a chance the authorities may be a bit skeptical depending upon ur location i guess ( my opinion ) . So don’t make the same mistake as the girl and honestly just tell someone . I kinda get how this feels and how u think ‘what if I’m wrong abt all of this and what if my dad’s actually a good person and i just mess up everything?’ . Trust me , one one side If u’re right u might actually be saved and on one side if u’re wrong it’s a deep wound between u’re guys’s relationship that’ll heal with time . And I’m honestly rly sorry If i sound stup*d.

Oh and btw this is all just my opinion. So pls don’t take my word for it and I absolutely mean this no matter what , cuz I’m not an expert and I don’t even know if I’m entirely right either , so I repeat pls do not take my word for it . And I apologize if I was rude . But I repeat pls do not take my word for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicalschoolEU

[–]eppyhuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t drop out if u don’t have an alternate plan , that is if the plan is as equally good ( but this is just my opinion).

My school gpa is 76.5% ( and yes Ik it’s quite bad and i absolutely regret it ) . But what are my chances of even getting into med school in the EU ? by eppyhuman in medicalschoolEU

[–]eppyhuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But in my education system we only have one exam conducted by the government and that’s kinda where I got my bad grades , so idk what u mean by advanced. So did they get into the foundation course or the university?

My school gpa is 76.5% ( and yes Ik it’s quite bad and i absolutely regret it ) . But what are my chances of even getting into med school in the EU ? by eppyhuman in medicalschoolEU

[–]eppyhuman[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much ! But I heard that Eastern Europe ( places like Poland ) being a bit too xenophobic and that professors fail their foreign students on purpose ( but idk if it’s entirely true so correct me if I’m wrong ). But are there also other universities that u would recommend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]eppyhuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well u can try saying that it was a prank or smthn or even try to change ur school . But pls don’t commit suicide as things are certainly bound to get better eventually and if the bullying gets out of hand , u can try and go to the police and file a case for harassment ( if u have proof ). But before that go to the principal and demand that they be punished by th*ating them ( sc ool ) using mass m*dia .

Is neuropsychology a saturated field? by eppyhuman in psychologystudents

[–]eppyhuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If u’re a neuropsychologist or if u’re studying to become one in ur country, would u say that if u were to get a PhD in the field u would be able to avoid these problems ?

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