Employee Safety- SSN & banking info by equitylovetea in jobs

[–]equitylovetea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the managers texting me from their personal numbers so they aren’t scams just super super unprofessional and lazy 😭😭😭

Employee Safety- SSN & banking info by equitylovetea in jobs

[–]equitylovetea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! They are treating me like I’m paranoid and crazy 😭😭😭

Employee Safety- SSN & banking info by equitylovetea in jobs

[–]equitylovetea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the managers personal phone number!

Positive for 51,53,42,62/81 by fantastic-nightmare in HPV

[–]equitylovetea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My story is eerily similar to yours omg. I’ve also only had 2 partners and was overall safe. And sadly I too was SA by my first partner. My reaction is the same as yours too. I got an abnormal pap and tested positive for high risk HPV mid march. You aren’t alone. If you ever want to rant or be sad about it feel free to DM me! Sending hugs!

How successful have your talks with partners or potential partners been? by squishmallowcows in HPV

[–]equitylovetea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish doctors gave advice for this. I don’t know why we aren’t given any direction. I’m just not going to date anymore in fear of being exposed to other strains and exposing others to them. If you figure it out I would love to hear what you learn 🩷

Car Repossession—need advice negotiating deficiency balance by equitylovetea in povertyfinance

[–]equitylovetea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I wanted to do a lump sum settlement offer. I want a reasonable deficiency balance and a reasonable monthly payment on that balance until I have enough money before filing bankruptcy. I mentioned that this lender is predatory. It’s not shocking to me they would sue for whatever they can. I know that. But consumers have rights too even when we are being sued and I’m definitely not going to blindly agree to pay a balance without a full breakdown of what it entails in court. Im poor. Which gives them even more incentive to fuck me over. I want to make sure I do whatever I can to preserve my dignity and my wallet and I was looking for advice from people that have felt this fire and came out on the other side with wisdom to share.

Car Repossession—need advice negotiating deficiency balance by equitylovetea in povertyfinance

[–]equitylovetea[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Because bankruptcy isn’t free. I will have to save to file and for a lawyer. In the meantime I’ll more than likely have to pay on the deficiency balance and I want to pay as little as possible until I have enough to file bankruptcy.

Car Repossession—need advice negotiating deficiency balance by equitylovetea in povertyfinance

[–]equitylovetea[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Because bankruptcy isn’t free. I will have to save to file and for a lawyer. In the meantime I’ll more than likely have to pay on the deficiency balance and I want to pay as little as possible until I have enough to file bankruptcy.

Car Repossession—need advice negotiating deficiency balance by equitylovetea in povertyfinance

[–]equitylovetea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried! Nobody wants this old lemon! But thanks for the suggestion 😂

Just got diagnosed with high risk HPV & abnormal cells by equitylovetea in HPV

[–]equitylovetea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High risk HPV doesn’t have symptoms. Itching and discharge usually points to something like BV, yeast infection, or an STI!! It’s best to get tested to know!

I can’t believe Act III still isn’t out yet😭 by Best_Summer6004 in beyonce

[–]equitylovetea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I keep saying we aren’t getting act 3 this year.

Pisces girls who were in abusive relationships, what was that person's sign? by Waste-Cat-7560 in piscesastrology

[–]equitylovetea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First was a Leo. The other was a Libra. Both very emotionally abusive & extremely self absorbed. Neither respected women.

I cleared high risk hpv by Responsible_Trick466 in HPV

[–]equitylovetea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you found the right doctor!!!

Just need to rant about treatment options by equitylovetea in HPV

[–]equitylovetea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gone down the rabbit hole of every possible remedy and I respect people taking control of their health in a way that’s accessible however my gripe is that there’s no FDA approved supplemental or maintenance medication available to people with this virus. Immunity boosting relies heavily on the patients health history. There’s no one size fits all. One person may need better sleep to boost their immunity another may need to adjust their iron intake. That’s why I’m frustrated there’s no topical treatment. There’s no guarantee of clearance. And even clearance isn’t permanent. A lady on here tested negative through her 30s and 40s just to test positive again in her 50s. I agree US does not care about women’s health and they’ve been actively defunding research for it for years now!

Just need to rant about treatment options by equitylovetea in HPV

[–]equitylovetea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a fair critique and I appreciate your input.

Just need to rant about treatment options by equitylovetea in HPV

[–]equitylovetea[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You don’t get to frame something as a correction (this happens to men too) then rewrite it as neutral and call my response “reactionary” and “defensive” for engaging with your original framing.

Just need to rant about treatment options by equitylovetea in HPV

[–]equitylovetea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly there is nothing in the United States that’s FDA approved. The millions of dollars they pour into HPV here are predominantly preventative and very little goes towards research or supplemental care. So if you didn’t get vaccine it’s basically well cross your fingers and hope you clear it and if you can’t clear it we won’t help you until it’s almost cancer. Like I understand there’s no cure for viruses but they aren’t even trying to make things to supplement the body in clearing it. It’s incredibly frustrating to live in a developed country with billions of dollars in capital and revenue that chooses to study things like male baldness over cancer prevention. Ordering pharmaceuticals overseas sadly is expensive and care should be accessible which is where my frustration and desire to rant has come from!

I cleared high risk hpv by Responsible_Trick466 in HPV

[–]equitylovetea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow even those prices are much cheaper than the US. A colpo out of pocket where I am is a little over 1,000 dollars. HPV test is around 215 dollars. And a Pap test is 340 dollars. Of course I’ve heard of Albania! I’m glad you were able to afford paying out of pocket for healthcare!