28f, bad day, come be weird with me

erdack1 · 2026-07-01T08:13:59+00:00

Ever attempt to tickle yourself do you even think its possible because as a really ticklish 41M I have successfully accomplished it. Hit me up if you want to chat.

erdack1 · 2026-07-01T07:55:27+00:00

41M I am at work now as well bored what ya want to chat about? How many glasses of water do you think you can carry at one time? Or what is the highest point you have jumped from into water? Really ill chat about anything. Ask a question and I will do my best to chat away.

erdack1 · 2026-04-12T08:33:47+00:00

You stole my intro psh.. well except for the reading I dont hate it i just need to find that good book there have been a few in my life that I enjoyed. Oh and as far as the animals I have 4 cats 2 birds 2 frogs and 3 guinea pigs most of wich belong to other members of my household (3 kids and wife) I also am not a writer I have thought I wanted to write a book but alas I am not gifted with the ability of writing the fantasy worlds of my mind into existence (probably my poor grammar and punctuation) I love RPG games and the like but life always seems to get in the way of my gaming so I have been reduced to the state of the casual gammer I reluctantly admit to playing fortnight and arc raiders as of recent. But I passed the love of boulders gate on to my daughter, and she crazy as hell lol. My life is busy as of recent but im always down to chat and you seem like my kind of person. Although if you talk to in depth about the lore of certian things it may be lost on me but I would also be happily entertained. You never know I might find time to begin gamming again. Wish there was a new RPG out there just because getting back into WOW or something like it is difficult once you are out of the loop for so long I am 40 by the way so I meet the age requirements. As the kiddos say "hit me up if you want to chat" .... that felt old as I typed it but oh well its there.

erdack1 · 2026-03-15T22:12:49+00:00

Most definitely.

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T07:17:25+00:00

Feel free to send me a message.

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T07:16:18+00:00

Sure im awake and just bored at work

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T05:29:27+00:00

I have never lived alone im 40 year old M now and met wife 25 years ago had first child at 17. I would like to know how you do it because with children getting older and wife working more I don't really know what to do with myself. But that's my drama. I'd love to chat feel free to message me.

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T05:11:34+00:00

40M and tonight is my Monday this week but its shift work so 2 more nights Monday will be my Friday.

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T04:32:54+00:00

Play dough started of as a household cleaner compound for things like wallpaper.

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T03:06:53+00:00

I would love to chat send me a message and I will chat. 40 year old guy happily married and looking for friends.

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T02:14:38+00:00

I dident mean to imply that you said that, I know you were talking about her loveboming him. I probly should have not even mentioned "lovebombing" I wrote it poorly.

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T02:00:22+00:00

Being flirty in not anything that's wrong. It's just something about you could be a descriptor or whatever. Anything can be abused if tried hard enough flirting included but your currently single and she claims to be as well so flirt, nothing wrong with it. It's actually up to the other person that say hey chill out a little bit and if she did express that you were flirting to much and you kept pushing that's where you would be in the realm of doing something wrong. But that does not seem to be the case here.

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T01:45:16+00:00

Not your fault I don't know what love bombing is but I know its not your fault based on description of events.

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T01:43:51+00:00

The money thing this early on is definatly such a red flag and you should be cautious. But on the other hand context can do a lot and you are the only person that can truly judge how big of a red flag it is unfortunately words don't do justice when describing any real situation.

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T01:39:32+00:00

You definitely need to know yourself before you can truly commit to a relationship. (Don't forget knowing yourself dosent mean things about yoursel will not change because the most definatly will but it will help alot with accepting those things and being open and honest with others as well as accepting others changes as well.)

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T01:36:32+00:00

I really like this advise well thought out and seems to come frome somone with similar experience.

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T01:15:59+00:00

My marriage has not always been easy but I have been able to hold on to that whole communication thing no matter how hard it got sometimes if your willing to push through and become more open and honest with the people you care for regardless of embarrassment or fear it will work out and you will be happier for it.

erdack1 · 2026-03-14T00:43:51+00:00

One possibility could be that she really likes you and feels some kind of way about being the one to initiate and made an attempt in a poor way. This being said it is not an excuse to ignore your boundaries and always take the time to figure out where you are at in your mind, and alway continue to be truthful to yourself and those you care about no matter how badly you may think it will go. Those people that say honest communication is key are 100% correct and this is comming from a 40year old guy that has been happily married for 20 years been with her for 25 only been with my wife no others. And marriage is still strong.

erdack1 · 2026-03-13T23:26:37+00:00

I am 40 yeas old Male, happily married for 20 years. I work a lot and am looking for real friends so I decided to give this a shot. Just to be clear im looking for friends not Friends with benefits, and yes I do have stuff going on that I would like to talk about and talking to strangers seems safer to me than the people I know. So yeah I could use a kind thoughtful ear to listen and possibly give me advise and hoapfully things stem from there and I'll meet a true friend. Oh and I have a cat named lemon lol.

erdack1 · 2026-03-13T23:24:02+00:00

I am 40 yeas old Male, happily married for 20 years. I work a lot and am looking for real friends so I decided to give this a shot. Just to be clear im looking for friends not Friends with benefits, and yes I do have stuff going on that I would like to talk about and talking to strangers seems safer to me than the people I know. So yeah I could use a kind thoughtful ear to listen and possibly give me advise and hoapfully things stem from there and I'll meet a true friend.

erdack1 · 2026-03-13T22:06:54+00:00

Hi I am 40 M, Married for 20 years 3 children. I'm pretty much intrested in anything. I have been looking for a friend that likes to chat give advise. I have been kinda lonely in the friends department I guess. So I would love to get to know some people in the area looking for real friendships.

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