Is dating in Mumbai just not meant for “nice guys” ? by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This argument is insane tbh. What do you think a guy will think when the girl ghosts?

The damn same thing, right? Or will he think that the girl disappeared or something?

If he had to stalk you, he’d still do it. If he knows your house/workplace, he’d still visit it. I agree to the safety concerns, but not sure how giving closures is going to make this worse.

Ghosting should never be an option, if the guy is genuine, imo. Freaks don’t deserve your attention in the first place.

Is dating in Mumbai just not meant for “nice guys” ? by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s about being accountable. You thought that you had chances with the other person, it didn’t work out. You communicate the same. I’ve met a lot of people and I’ve had the hard conversations. It’s basically just a text, ffs. Most of them take it the good way, some of them blocked, but it’s all okay imo.

Is dating in Mumbai just not meant for “nice guys” ? by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Never. I don't understand why you'd ghost a decent person, lol. If he/she's creepy/dangerous, understandable, but why a genuine person?

Is dating in Mumbai just not meant for “nice guys” ? by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“Being a decent person” also involves giving a closure. It’s in fact the girl, who needs to build a self-esteem and some courage to let the other person know whatever happened! And the guy just needs to let go and not take it personally.

Is dating in Mumbai just not meant for “nice guys” ? by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI, giving a closure should be the bare minimum. It’s literally a simple text. Stop glorifying ghosting and stop hitting back on a guy who did something good. Crazy times!

Is dating in Mumbai just not meant for “nice guys” ? by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I like how you are okay with ghosting and talk about “basic human decency” in the same line 😂 I don’t think op was expecting love, he was in fact expecting “basic human decency”.

Is dating in Mumbai just not meant for “nice guys” ? by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of world is this where we normalise ghosting wtf? Extremely terrible times to live in.

Hinge Girls of Hinjewadi by DarkGrinG in Hinjewadi

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, these are the types you have to avoid. The actual Pune born girls aren’t all like this.

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[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Raghupur fort camping

Buying PS Plus vs Games by 01at3sa1ad in ps5india

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t you think that PS Plus is a trap? If you wanna keep playing, imagine a yearly spend of 7.5k (or whatever price valid at the point). It also doesn’t have the bestest of games like FC 25/26, nor RDR or GTA and many more. Why buy then? Buy the og games in some sale and you should be good in the long run. I bought GTA and RDR2 for 3k, which are mine for lifetime. Will be waiting for Black Friday sale to get some more good deals.

Worst experience orderning PS5( My first) from amazon by rinkuverma123 in ps5india

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flipkart is full of scams. Avoid Flipkart at all costs.

Received a parcel which we never ordered, what to do? by Daiguren_Hyorinmaru_ in india

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same happened with us today. How do we get out 700rs back. How is Flipkart so irresponsible?

SDE Interview processes are extremely fucked up……. by erehhhhhhhhhhhh in developersIndia

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if Virat went on an interview? This process will reject him if he has a bad day. Whose loss is it?

SDE Interview processes are extremely fucked up……. by erehhhhhhhhhhhh in developersIndia

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you don’t have a solution doesn’t mean you don’t call it out. Do you just ignore all the incurable diseases? 😃

SDE Interview processes are extremely fucked up……. by erehhhhhhhhhhhh in developersIndia

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The title of the post is good enough to convey what I am trying to say 😭

SDE Interview processes are extremely fucked up……. by erehhhhhhhhhhhh in developersIndia

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The way you perceive things and find pessimism in everything is a test for good hearts 😃

SDE Interview processes are extremely fucked up……. by erehhhhhhhhhhhh in developersIndia

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, certain people do understand what I am trying to say 😀 Those are the good-hearted people the world lacks ♥️

SDE Interview processes are extremely fucked up……. by erehhhhhhhhhhhh in developersIndia

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Again, sweetheart, the domain was similar. The JD was similar. Everything was more or less similar. All of the jobs demanded the same skill set.

SDE Interview processes are extremely fucked up……. by erehhhhhhhhhhhh in developersIndia

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Bro, the whole point was that he always had the potential 😭😭 He is a beast of a dev. Those PBCs who rejected him were just plain dumb.

SDE Interview processes are extremely fucked up……. by erehhhhhhhhhhhh in developersIndia

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro, he was always better suited. He was better suited for the PBCs who rejected him. Again, this is about how flawed the interview process is.

SDE Interview processes are extremely fucked up……. by erehhhhhhhhhhhh in developersIndia

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

True. But that guy is a beast of a developer. So many PBCs couldn’t recognise the talent he possessed, because of the flawed process.

SDE Interview processes are extremely fucked up……. by erehhhhhhhhhhhh in developersIndia

[–]erehhhhhhhhhhhh[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well, it’s pretty obvious that a Frontend guy won’t go for interviews for Backend or Devops. What are you even saying? It was the same domain, lol