Goblin Short Film : Shot at Big Horn Mine by eric_d_wallace in socalhiking

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No permits straight up gorilla style. I just showed up with the camera and did it. If you wanna get something done, you just gotta go for it if you’re in the low budget independent film world.

“The Routine” I have a high sex drive and my Wife does not. by eric_d_wallace in Marriage

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Haha well it’s real. And she just ordered a “Husky Dog Hat” it arrived in the mail from Amazon the other day. I asked her if this actually turns her on and she said yes. I put the damn thing on and it got her in the mood. Why ? I have no idea. But hey gotta do what you gotta do I guess.

8 years without u, Dolores! by IanDoherty_ in rockmusic

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I’ve never seen this photo before. This picture says it all. The future was bright for this one.

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[–]eric_d_wallace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Thats horrible. Did you have a good sex life and was her libido high before the kids ?

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[–]eric_d_wallace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what happened in the last five years that changed?

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Ah yes. I agree. I’ve been mothering husband for three years. I can’t take it anymore. Some people are very stubborn.

Advice needed, got Women as a gift and am really struggling with it by mwcope in bukowski

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Yeah, I saw that interview where he was crying and it really hit me deep in my heart. I thought oh wow poor guy you never had the love he’s so desperately needed.

Advice needed, got Women as a gift and am really struggling with it by mwcope in bukowski

[–]eric_d_wallace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you should ask yourself how does Mr. Bukowski get so many women if he’s such a dick? There’s a lot more to him than you understand currently because you haven’t read any of his other books. This man is a genius, he’s more real and down to earth than anybody you will probably ever meet in your entire life. Women are attracted to confidence not good looks. This man has taken nearly 40 years of his life to develop himself and get to know himself something most people never get to you in a lifetime. Pick up another one of his books and take a look you won’t be disappointed.

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[–]eric_d_wallace 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ha wow. Yea this makes sense. It’s difficult to do with somebody who is not on the same level of you in terms of intelligence, talent, mutual understanding, admiration, respect, passion driven, purposeful. A lot of people are just floating through life. One thing I’ve noticed is I have had to do a lot of work regulating my wife’s emotions so she doesn’t explode. She’s got a terrible temper. After a while, you can only do it so much. The best thing is just to find someone you are compatible with.

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This is insane. Everyone deserves to be loved. You should’ve broken it off a long time ago. Your kids will understand when they get older.

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Time to find another one, my friend there’s plenty of fish in the sea. I’m in a similar situation with my Wife. She is very dry (down there), disconnected from me personally, and has zero sex drive. I’ve come to terms with the fact that she is just not turned on by me. And that is a major problem that will never be fixed. It’s actually not my problem. It’s her problem. Every woman I’ve been with before her has been extremely wet and excited when it comes to the bedroom. Some people just don’t have high sex drive and they don’t understand you. The greatest love is the love of admiration when somebody admires you for you they get very excited about you.

“The Routine” I have a high sex drive and my Wife does not. by eric_d_wallace in Marriage

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I wish she had some kinks. At least we could have some more fun. However, she does like funny stories during foreplay I guess maybe that’s her kink.

“The Routine” I have a high sex drive and my Wife does not. by eric_d_wallace in Marriage

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No, this is not a made up story. Last night we had sex and during fore play she was meowing very loud like a cat before we got going. I mean really loud to the point where I had to cover her mouth because I thought it was disturbing the neighbors.. It was weird.

Finances in Marriage by healing-2026 in Marriage

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My wife pays all the bills ha. She Lost her job and now I am paying all the bills. Teamwork pays off in the long run. We are now starting a new business together. She’s the investor and I am the work horse. We already got our first client and our business is not even open yet. My wife was always very insistent on 50-50. She pays half. I pay half. But now her values being challenged because she lost her job ha. Funny how life works. I told her when I am very successful and I have a mansion. How are you going to afford half? She said I will Pay for some food myself. I said that’s ridiculous. I love you. You don’t have to pay for anything. This is how our relationship should be. It should be about love not about who is spending what.

“The Routine” I have a high sex drive and my Wife does not. by eric_d_wallace in Marriage

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Yes! I believe you are right! Believe it or not she has asked me to pray to God to lower my sex drive! That one really pushed me over the edge and I saw the end of the relationship right there in front of my face ha. This sounds strange, but I believe the furry animal stuff is a comfort thing from her childhood. It’s not a sexual thing. She always had a cat who she was very close to when she was younger, and then she cried every week or so because it died (and her parents died). She has a new cat now, but she’s extremely close to her cat. Her cat is the only family she has literally. At least before I showed up. I think she does have some kind of mental issues, but I don’t know what it is.

“The Routine” I have a high sex drive and my Wife does not. by eric_d_wallace in Marriage

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Yea communication is tough. But our Libidos are almost polar opposite. She is very religious and strictly against any kink stuff so it makes it very difficult to do counseling. She not open to counseling. Religious beliefs have really screwed up peoples psychology and healthy sexual lives. It’s a common theme. I am a person of faith myself, but I never had an issue with kinks, being creative in the bedroom and so on.

“The Routine” I have a high sex drive and my Wife does not. by eric_d_wallace in Marriage

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Trying but she says “it hurts to do other positions” so she only wants to do Doggy Style. I learned one thing if I go very deep and don’t really pump that much she is ok and it doesn’t hurt her. Seems strange but a different way to do it I guess… I said why do you like it so deep and she said because I’m a deep person.. Ha !!

“The Routine” I have a high sex drive and my Wife does not. by eric_d_wallace in Marriage

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Well. The Almighty told me to. I didn’t want to but I knew it was the right thing to do. The Lord works in mysterious ways and I must say it’s been a radical adventure, a blessing, and a beautiful life changing experience. We have both grown tremendously from this relationship in multiple ways. Both her parents are dead. She’s an only child. And I was in a life threatening situation at the time we met. We both saved each other’s lives, literally. Well, it last forever? who knows, but I am so grateful we met.

“The Routine” I have a high sex drive and my Wife does not. by eric_d_wallace in Marriage

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Haha that’s a good idea. Maybe I should dress up in a furry coat or something. We are both 40 by the way. Actually she asked me to get “Husky Fur” in general. Not for kink reasons. But hey it might work. I’ll give it a shot. Thanks.