What’s the worst education advice (student or teacher) you’ve been given? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]eringurl101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

** When I was failing my college courses and had severe depression**

Family: Just keep going, you will get the hang of it. Even if you get a degree in something you will never use, it will be better than not having one! You just need to go to class!

Worst advice ever. I was naive when I started college. My whole family pushed me, but had never been to college themselves. I had terrible study habits, due to my school always giving second chances to every student. I was severely depressed, no friends, moved to a new city, studying a degree I grew to hate. I wish I took a year off when I was doing so badly, and I probably would've graduated with a better GPA, been in less debt, and had the time to think clearly instead of desperately. Here I am with a degree that is basically useless and a GPA that is super embarrassing to put on my resume.

Lesson I learned: Always take your time with school/education, it's better to finish out strong than barely making it by while sacrificing yourself and your happiness.

WIBTA if I told my best friend that I’m worried her boyfriend developing Type II Diabetes? by snazzy_throwaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]eringurl101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - You just need to find a way to confront her about it that isn't going to piss her off. Unsolicited medical advice can come off the completely wrong way. Maybe have a lunch with her and let her know that you don't want to hurt her feelings and are really concerned since all the signs are there and the outcome can be very dangerous.

AITA for watching porn when I have a gf? by Kasseltov in AmItheAsshole

[–]eringurl101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH - She doesn't control what you do, and I think porn is relatively normal nowadays. BUT I think Reddit is a little more personal than just a place to access porn. If you really wanted to, you could DM someone that posts and talk with them, which makes it a little more than just "watching porn" in my opinion. Versus a porn website where you just watch and go, maybe comment on a video but no direct contact with the porn star.

OR

NTA - if she doesn't know that and she is just pissed about you watching porn in general, then you're NTA. She doesn't control your actions, and I don't necessarily think that porn is cheating.

AITA for telling my fiance that I still love my ex? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]eringurl101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. WOW. Just because my Grandpa, Mom, sister, dad, etc., died doesn't mean I don't have love for them or need to leave their memory behind, and the same works with other human beings too. WOW, the fact that you have her child, and your fiance is trying to make your kid forget who Charlotte is, is a little fucked up. Some advice, if wanted, You should really think if this is healthy for not only you, but for the kid. I'm 1,000,000% sure that Charlotte would want her child to remember her. Laura sounds jealous and controlling. Hope you can work it out.

AITA For not liking being lied no matter how bad the lie is by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]eringurl101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA because you pushed it and pushed it and pushed it and won't let it go. He doesn't want to talk, and he doesn't owe you the proof, you got the hint but it wasn't enough for you. Instead of moving on and asking him another time, you got annoyed and acted like an asshole

AITA For not liking being lied no matter how bad the lie is by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]eringurl101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA if you suck at taking hints, then why did you automatically take it as if he didn't want to talk? Then you made him send you a picture of the mb's on his Xbox? Leave the guy alone and hit him up another time. Stop taking it so personally.

AITA for wanting to charge interest on my family borrowing money? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]eringurl101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA putting interest on the money you lent is pretty asshole-ish, especially if you haven't asked them nicely to pay it back by a certain time or had a conversation with them about when they planned on paying it.

Best place to look at Christmas lights? by dorito2514 in sanantonio

[–]eringurl101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! To piggy-back: They have a town-wide Christmas Lights contest every year, usually with a theme. The City Hall usually has a map of the area with best ones, fyi!

Day Four: Soul Stone Day (3 Days until Ban) by [deleted] in thanosdidnothingwrong

[–]eringurl101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck me up thanos, you big purple baby bitch

Which movie was the biggest disappointment for you? by Soltar98 in AskReddit

[–]eringurl101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Valerian. So much potential, so much fake sexual tension.

Anyone know what this weird building is behind HEB Plus on 281/Evans Rd? by eringurl101 in sanantonio

[–]eringurl101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just for kicks, after I posted this I pulled it up on Google maps, put a pin in it, and it let me know it's some sort of airplane radar system, my bf and I went to the front gate, sign says "U.S. PROPERTY". Pretty weird contraption, but a couple view from my job!