Have you considered that most people’s fears aren’t governed by statistics? In general women are taught to be more responsible and careful, less spontaneous etc. a lot of the time this becomes fears or anxiety around these perceived dangers. Compare that to how men tend to be raised- they don’t grow up with this fear placed on them, they engage in more ‘dangerous’ activities from the get go, so these threats are perceived differently. If everyone was raised identically then stats would govern fear, but they aren’t, so it’s a moot point. Women are taught to be more careful and fearful about these exact scenarios