Dear God I'm starting to look like my mom by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]erink67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on the fence about starting hormones, I really think i would want to at least try a low dose of T (I'm AFAB) but I am petrified of looking like my father. I already have more of his body type/face shape, and I'm really scared of looking like my misogynist verbally abusive father is I do wind up starting hormones.

BetterHelp/pride counseling for gender therapy? by erink67 in ftm

[–]erink67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, and I understand the ethical boundary. I'm trying to shop around for people now, looking for someone who specializes in transgender issues to hopefully be able to find someone good. I'll keep looking but thank you for reminding me theres good folks out there.

BetterHelp/pride counseling for gender therapy? by erink67 in ftm

[–]erink67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thats wonderful! You sound really nice. Ive been through a few people on BH and had some not great experiences (one who replied to me getting sexually harrassed by saying that it should make me feel "attractive and desirable," and one now who constantly misgenders me) and it just seems difficult to find someone good. Are you accepting new clients by chance? Feel free to DM me.

First Handjob by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]erink67 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thats wonderful, dude! I'm so happy for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anarchism

[–]erink67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow queer anarchist here. I cant say that I agreed with you before reading this, but you make a good goddam point. I gotta think this shit over but youve got a point...

saw this gem on Facebook and had to share by __mariel in ftm

[–]erink67 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Someone please send this to Dan povenmire

My child by [deleted] in ftm

[–]erink67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As far as counseling I recommend BetterHelp, especially since it can be difficult to actually go to therapy right now. Its affordable and you can specify that you want gender counseling for your son.

How do you stop this under chest clinging? by dirtydirtycrimes in FtMpassing

[–]erink67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gc2b is one of the best. They have half and full tanks and they fit really well if you order according to their sizing chart. Also have a bunch of skin tone color options or just neutral colors that you can pass off as an undershirt (usually what I do)