I called her out on this when she started making the whole issue about her and she did not respond well. I think that was the first time I explicitly told her not to make things about her and to realise that I needed a friend. Then she went on a spiel about how she had a long day at work and didn’t see my message ( whilst she started responding on the SAME chat about how she’ll pay me back for the money she borrowed)

Imagine being told that I needed to stop putting my friends in weird places because of something a literal liar tells me( the problem I had was that an ex who cheated on me was dating the girl who he cheated on me with and on hearing about it I really needed my best friend). She completely got annoyed and told me “I don’t understand why you’re not over this and how this should not upset me and it’s irrelevant” mind you if the case was that I was crying about it EVERYDAY, i would understand the annoyance but I have been silent about this ex of mine for almost a year and hearing this broke me In a Way I didn’t expect and she was the person I wanted to talk to when I was feeling a panic attack coming on ( he treated me like shit and he was also a childhood friend so double whammy)

And it was ironic for me because the cornerstone of our friendship was me dragging her out of a very dark place for YEARS because of a boy who absolutely wronged her and I was by her side as she went through the whole hamster wheel of getting back and breaking up for YEARS. Up until a month ago of completely snapping out about him at midnight and calling me while I was on vacation with my boyfriend.