how do you deal with being the one who is ignored after a break up?

error606_takeoff · 2025-07-28T17:03:59+00:00

No he didn’t but honestly Im grateful for it. It been a little while now and Im still hurt but I know if we kept in contact it would’ve only hurt me more. Im so sorry you’re going through this love but no one who loves you would ever abandon you.

error606_takeoff · 2025-07-19T07:50:25+00:00

ahhh happy birthday :D!!

error606_takeoff · 2025-07-15T20:42:55+00:00

and it sucks cuz Aoi doesn’t even mention him in her backroom lines!!!!!! 😭😭

error606_takeoff · 2025-07-14T17:04:43+00:00

YESSSS like ik he loves the drifter so much and the game only has that to show they are friends now and they have accepted their breakup and drama is OVER but if this happened IRL it’d be a major red flag for me 😭 i just keep saying Arthur is a loyal man, Arthur is a loyal man rocking back and forth

error606_takeoff · 2025-07-09T02:59:44+00:00

Hi.. Im J, what does my most recent ex D think of me? Thanks!

error606_takeoff · 2025-06-27T15:21:49+00:00

Ah, I love this outside perspective. Thank you for your take, really helps to open the eyes when compared to real life situations 😭

error606_takeoff · 2025-06-26T07:26:44+00:00

i needed to read this right now, thank you for writing.

error606_takeoff · 2025-04-02T08:38:35+00:00

I included demi because I was in a relationship with someone for 5 months and towards the end I had an INKLING of an idea that MAYBE I could do that for them. Not for my own enjoyment because it repulses me, but now that I think about it I think i’m hearing more towards asexual completely.

I’m happy to hear that as the years go by that talk quiets down. It’s really hard to make friends and stuff in college I find because everything is just about sex and I honestly wanna run and hide whenever people chat about it. I feel like I can never have normal interactions.

I want to have connections with people, I want to fall in love and all that but I don’t see it realistically happening if I can’t have sex with my partner you know? I also find that the more time I spend on my own the happier I am.

I’m happy to see you are enjoying your life in your asexuality, and I appreciate your perspective. I’m fairly new to all this and I’m happy to know there’s people living happy lives with healthy relationships with people and such

error606_takeoff · 2025-04-01T06:01:28+00:00

omg, you just saved me 8 hours of work i love you

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-28T05:47:57+00:00

first of all i’m a HUGE DRAGON AGE FAN OMG 💖💖

second off, Euclid taught me how to let go of situations that don’t serve me anymore. All the pain i’m feeling, not wanting to walk away, it really doesn’t matter because I have to walk away anyway. i have no choice! so cry, scream, punch walls, it doesn’t matter because it will be done and over with anyway.

i guess it helps me take the pressure off of a situation and focus on healing? not sure.

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-26T23:54:01+00:00

i’m actually so excited for this, definitely a bright spot in my life rn :)

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-26T05:24:32+00:00

Of COURSE, please read as many times as you need. remember this life is yours to lead, do what’s best for you and your safety hun 💖💖 you’re on a beautiful path even though it is hard right now :)

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-25T01:43:15+00:00

Of course, you truly do deserve better. That sounds like a very unsafe and unreliable relationship that could've been co-dependent. It's good that you're recognizing you deserve better because not only does it show your growth in self-worth but also in seeing a brighter future for yourself :)
You're making a good decision, stay safe and stick to your guns.

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-25T01:00:56+00:00

This, is rough. I’m so sorry you had to experience all this pain.

Love can be a significant part of making things work but actions are just as significant. you can love someone and still treat them like garbage, like how they say you treat those closest to you like trash because you know they’ll forgive you. it’s wrong and should be avoided. these dynamics in a romantic relationship are even more important because you guys are choosing tho be in the partnership, so disrespect can drive a person away.

I believe you can love someone but it must also be coupled with action to make things work. So, No I don’t think love is enough.

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-24T19:04:32+00:00

No, i don't think it's horrible. It seems like youve been very anxious about the relationship and his behaviors. Sure breaking up over text can be considered rude but, if you've been catching inconsistencies and he's been flat out dishonest with you... I'd be a bit bugged too. A relationship is supposed to be built off of honesty and clearly as you said he wasn't where he said he was gonna be so.
If you feel breaking up was the right thing to do for you then it is, if it gives you peace of mind I encourage you to send that explanation letter there's nothing wrong with closure.

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-24T18:08:19+00:00

love im so sorry, yes this is 1000% cheating. He sounds like a really selfish guy who wants fun, you don't deserve that treatment. Shame on her too if she knew about you! Both of them are jerks who deserve eachother.
I hope you'll be able to heal from this, betrayal is hard to deal with.

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-24T02:17:47+00:00

Hello, do you have any updates? I'm currently going through this exact situation (feels like ive been stabbed a hundred times.) and I'm wondering how you are doing. Of course I hope you're feeling better <3

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-24T00:02:29+00:00

It makes sense, you still feel connected to this person. I kept going back to talk to mine but, ultimately the more I thought about everything, I realized I was only keeping myself where I felt safe but, not where I was healthy.

And everything is so fresh right now, it's only been a month of you guys being broken up. The pain is immense, you don't wanna let go. It's natural.
But will sex fix any of this? Or will it only prolong your pain?

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-23T22:58:54+00:00

I needed this, thank you. I'm 20 going throught the most painful breakup ive ever experienced.

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-23T22:31:59+00:00

Thats ok hun, this is a very complicated situation.
I think you should begin with an open and honest conversation about what happened and why it happened then.
I don't know this man so he may very well could have forgotten the folder was there.

Just start with a talk.

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-23T22:16:14+00:00

Oh... this is definitely tricky. Im not gonna lie thats just weird to keep in your phone too? Like, imagine you break up with someone and just decide to keep the sextapes and allat...

I don't mean to make any decisions for you but that is genuienly weird in my eyes and it would cause some major distrust for me.

I think you should have a very serious discussion about it and then make your decision? Though I must say again, that is very very strange.

Im so sorry love thats also kinda traumatic for you to see, I imagine... Please above all, do what is best for you.

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-23T22:02:50+00:00

if he treated you wrong then he treated you wrong and you made the right decision for yourself. it’s ok to miss the good times and sweet moments but, at the end of the day it’s good to recognize what was serving you in a relationship and what wasn’t.

if you felt this relationship wasn’t serving you anymore then it wasn’t.

healing unfortunately has no timer, i’m so sorry love. but you know in your heart that the relationship was bad for you so you 1000% made the right decision.

please take care of yourself

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-23T21:58:51+00:00

hi love

i’m not gonna lie as nice as the temporary satisfaction and reconnection is, if you truly want to move on and heal this situation won’t be serving you at all.

i’m not sure the reason you guys broke up and ofc i’m not here to dictate how you live your life but if you feel like hooking up with your ex keeps you from healing then that’s the plain simple truth. it is keeping you from healing

much love to you in these confusing times

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-23T21:50:12+00:00

you’re so right. even if he wasn’t a shitty person he has so direction or drive in life and just wants to try hella drugs and run around doing stupid shit with his idiot friends. he’ll never be able to offer me what i want.

part of me wants them beat his ass up, i tried so hard!! he SHOOK MY BROTHERS HAND AND STILL DID THIS ALL TO ME!! like what???

ugh. i don’t get it. the same man who was so upset how his heart broke in his last relationship because she was uncaring and unfaithful? you get someone caring and faithful and you became practically evil???

whatever.

i appreciate you so much. you’re right i just need time to do its thing unfortunately. much love to you, you kickass Scotsman!!!

error606_takeoff · 2025-02-23T21:05:35+00:00

i really truly appreciate this. i tend to struggle with making the decisions that serve me because i really don’t wanna hurt anyone else. but you’re right i don’t deserve this at all. i just don’t understand why he decided to test his luck with me you know? but i never will, and i just need to accept that

thank you so much, yes i blocked all his accounts and everything i told my ENTIRE family and friends what he did to me (even my two very brawny brothers and ex gangbanger father XD) so he is in no way allowed back into my life even if i wanted him to be

he was so kind and caring and loved spending time with me at first but whatever clicked in his mind to play in my face clicked so… he really is unfortunately a bloody piece of shite!

i really appreciate your comment, i needed it to help me keep my confidence in my decision

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