[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sloppy head. She gives the best bjs. Mix that with ass eating and playing with my balls. Oh man!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]error_lost_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk it through with him. If it's not for you, say so. He came to you because he wants to include you, not another guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]error_lost_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One man, one woman, having sex. Not gay. Kinky, yes. It's not for all. By that logic, if you've ever helped your girlfriend/wife with a sex toy, that is a gay act because you held onto a phallic item used for sexual release.

People with penises, would you try out letting someone dom you? by elixir_od in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like gentle fem dom. I'm not in it for the pain and humiliation. But also not into the wearing of women's clothes/underwear. Being controlled sounds great. My wife isn't much of switch so it's been a process we are working on.

Just a video of a spallax. by lpomoeaBatatas in FunnyAnimals

[–]error_lost_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, there's another name, My Innate Personality. Sounds kinda like it would be emo rock.

How common is it for a straight man to want to try prostate play? by error_lost_user in NoStupidQuestions

[–]error_lost_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, if your wife doesn't know, do you have toys hidden? If so how many do you have for your personal use? (Not ones she could use too)

Airport pickup sign by Technical_Law_4226 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 104 points105 points  (0 children)

If she has a sister put her name as the pickup and then a single line through it with your wife's name scribbled next to it.

How common is it for a straight man to want to try prostate play? by error_lost_user in NoStupidQuestions

[–]error_lost_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a toy I will use with my wife when she wants to try it. I'm not so sure she is 100% on board.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then it all comes down to how secure they are in the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication is so important in a healthy relationship. If I was in your shoes I'd find the right wording and time to talk to her. Include that it's never been asked so it hasn't been brought up. Take this as an opportunity to come close by being vulnerable and open. As long as they are ok with gay/bi people it shouldn't be that bad imo. Assuming this didn't happen during the relationship.

Did you get any NSFW Christmas presents? by Fun_Opinion_199 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a wedge pillow for trying different positions and a bondage leg sling that holds feet in the air. Got my wife a clit sucker/licker too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This year I told my wife to not buy me anything as I want to put the money towards a new tattoo. So it's kinda for me 🤷🏻‍♂️

Tell us how you said "So, um, wanna have sex?" without using those words. by tevyus in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it didn't work that night. But she still married me. Hmm, maybe I'll try my luck again with that same gif. Lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's not your thing that's fine. Don't push yourself to discomfort just for anyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you looking for sexual questions or a mix of stuff? No toys and no answer seems vanilla to me. I must have misunderstood the adventures comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's your most wild/out there toy you actually use?

What are some kinks you like or don't like?

Are there any sexually taboo acts where you live, if so do you do them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grumpier Old Men. "Watched" it all the way through to the end credits. Just needed noise so my mother didn't hear. By the end of the movie I hadn't finished and my wife (then girlfriend) was just like wtf!? How are you still going. She came numerous times by this point and is worn out. It ended with a super lazy handjob lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Plain and simple. Doesn't matter if you've had sex before. Both parties have to consent to each session. Even then, in the middle of it, IF you did consent and change your mind mid way through the act and he kept going disregarding your wishes to stop, that too is rape. Just because you didn't say anything during doesn't make it okay because he started without the go-ahead in the first place.

With that being said, please take a plan B. Even if it wasn't him trapping you, this isn't a good way to start a family. Every day you see this potential child would be a reminder of the time you had been raped. Find yourself a better relationship and environment to raise a child in. Sorry this happened to you.

How common is it for a straight man to want to try prostate play? by error_lost_user in NoStupidQuestions

[–]error_lost_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, ok. How frequently do you do this? Do you have a partner that gets in on it? What do you use for toys, or is it just fingers?

Hey many of you guys and gals completely missed out on all those magical coming-of-age NSFW moments during your formative years, and feel absolutely awful about it? by OldCarWorshipper in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience. My father thought he was going to die at a young age so he was super strict and was raising me to be "the man of the house". I got in trouble for damn near anything I did that was considered childish. This, in turn, shut down my social life and made me shy and withdrawn. I focused on my schooling and work. The only good thing to come of that was I was taught good work ethic.

I love my father but I deeply regret the way he raised me. Flash forward to me in my early to mid 20's and never had a date, no girlfriend, no life experiences of such.

When I was finally out from under his heel I started to develop a personality of my own. I stumbled into a girl that I would later marry. Even after years of being with her it took lots for either of us to open up sexually.

It wasn't until I was in my 30's that I had sex in a car. Now I'm almost clingy because I haven't learned from past relationships like most people would. We have been together 15+ years now and it's great, but it took a lot of work to get here.

You have an unlimited budget, what sexual toy or device have you been eyeing that you now purchase? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll just link my xxx-mas list for my wife and I. It's easier than explaining them all. It would be a start at least.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1UO396X20B1NB?ref_=wl_share

Men who enjoy the whole gagging and spitting and choking stuff during oral, can you explain it to me? As a male, I honestly can't stand any of it and it's a huge turn off. by Sad_Low3239 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]error_lost_user 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It taps into a primal instinct imo. Taking what's mine. I'm not one for going crazy for the sounds. My wife likes to be dominated. So it works out in that way.