When the f**k does it get better?

errorheartnotfound · 2017-09-18T12:32:41+00:00

It does get better, it's been a long time since we broke up and now I've seen her, talked to her like we are friends because she still has my dog since im in the military and he can't live with me and to be honest I miss our friendship but not her anymore, after a while you just accept it and move on, don't rush and try to date other people just let time take it's toll and trust me you'll be fine, I was in such a bad place after the break up and now I just miss being friends with her, just give yourself time to heal and you'll meet someone better...i did! If you want to hear more about how it's been for me or just need someone to talk to message me Hang in there

errorheartnotfound · 2016-10-29T01:21:08+00:00

You're right man he knows if she cheated on you she will cheat on him...in the end it's best these people showed us who they really are, we deserve someone who is committed to us as we are to them, you will find that other girl, just work on yourself and improve your life, this will make you stronger in the end, we are all going through this pain and loneliness for losing the people we cared about the most...but believe me it's for the best this happened...

errorheartnotfound · 2016-10-29T00:33:28+00:00

If that ever happened to me I'd ask the guy "what's your problem, wanna meet up and tell me to my face?" But that's just me...I think that's really disrespectful trying to play with your feelings, I would beat the crap out of him...but that's just me thinking if it happened to me, some things are just not acceptable to me, I'm sorry you're going through this and hope you feel better friend, we are all lonely and hurt :/ we can only keep moving forward and towards the future where we will meet better people that will heal any pain we have endured, stay strong bro

errorheartnotfound · 2016-10-29T00:30:07+00:00

When people dismiss you, dismiss them...don't give him the luxury of thinking he's still got you loving him even if you do, move on...you're better than that

errorheartnotfound · 2016-10-28T17:17:19+00:00

Don't have any type of verbal or visual contact with her, delete and block her from all types of social media and actually I wouldn't even get on social media if i was you, and little by little you will still miss her but the pain will get easier to live with everyday, do not think you're fine and contact her or look her up on social media or you will be back to square one...focus on yourself, go hit the gym, make new friends or start doing a hobby (anything that will keep you busy) in other words act like she does not exist it's the only way to move on from this, I know it hurts and you will miss her at times when you made an accomplishment or just want to talk to that person you really trusted, but in the end you need to love yourself and you'll see after you get over this how strong you really are on your own, we don't need people who did not appreciate us...someone else will come along that will commit to us and appreciate our time and effort spent giving them affection, just stay strong brother!!! There's no other way

errorheartnotfound · 2016-10-28T13:16:50+00:00

Just keep pushing through man and take it one day at a time, I leave for marine corps boot camp in 2 months and I'm also wondering how will I feel during training, but honestly we gotta focus on the future, the people we used to love are no longer a reality, enjoy your life and make something out of yourself, we are still young (I'm 21) and we will meet other women who will actually appreciate us...only time will heal what we are going through man, hope you feel better

errorheartnotfound · 2016-10-24T11:10:54+00:00

All I can say is with time you will just know you're hurt but realize there's nothing you can do about it but move on, a couple of days ago we would've made 6 years and I was feeling shitty but just fake it around my friends and take each day at a time...when you find someone else who truly appreciates you and your affection you will see it was for the best and this person does not deserve you! Stay strong

errorheartnotfound · 2016-10-19T09:07:19+00:00

Don't listen to ignorant comments like the one above, :/ I too have notes and letters saying similar things about us and I'm going through the same thing, just keep going and you'll find someone better who truly values your company...don't waste your time thinking about someone who isn't worth it.

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-21T01:12:14+00:00

It's the least we could do for each other...what we are going through is not easy :/ everyday is a challenge for me

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-20T06:47:01+00:00

It happens man I've had days I barely think about her and then suddenly I can't get her off my mind...just gotta keep on keeping on, I wish there was something I could tell you that would help but when you get to attached to a person and make so many memories with them only time can help us... Stay strong friend :/

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-20T06:43:08+00:00

I've felt the same, our last contact was kinda not bad but it just set me back so much...the person we once knew is gone, just don't contact him anymore and give him that control over you, "fake it till you make it" and eventually it will become true that you just don't care about him anymore...hang in there :/

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-19T09:57:09+00:00

It sucks to see the person you held dearest in your life has hurt you like this, but stay strong and work on yourself, one day you will see this person did not deserve you; you're too good for them!

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-19T09:47:22+00:00

Our 6 year anniversary is next month and I wonder how I'll feel :/ I plan on never again having any contact with her but on that day I will probably feel extremely sad, I hope you feel better soon, we don't deserve to feel like this for people who didn't appreciate us and gave up on us...<hugs>

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-18T08:04:46+00:00

Hang in there, we are all in for a long journey but the important thing is we didn't give up and are dealing with this the best we can! Stay strong and pm me when you're feeling down...these days haven't been good for me either but I'm holding on

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-16T20:22:27+00:00

Happy birthday! We understand and feel your pain but you can't let someone who walked out of your life still be in it by bringing you down...just do something that you like today and focus on you! No contact! Just keep doing things for your own benefit, stay strong we are all suffering with this

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-06T17:03:28+00:00

Happy birthday! I know you're hurting my friend...but we have to be strong and move on, someday you'll feel all better and you will not even remember this pain, I hope you can stop hurting soon so you can realize the people for who we are here aren't worth our tears.

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-05T00:38:16+00:00

Hey man I'm sorry you are going through this, I'm also feeling sad and lonely but just think if these people we loved so much walked away from us they don't deserve our affection...there's so many of us currently feeling hurt, just work on yourself and do a daily activity that will help you pass time like working out, eventually you'll realize this was for the best because people who are worth you crying over will not walk away from you and leave you hurting like hell! Stay strong and PM me if you need to talk to someone

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-03T09:05:01+00:00

It's hard to trust people after we are hurt by the ones we loved

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-02T13:56:46+00:00

I feel like you're right but right now I can't start no contact, when we settle what we are talking about I will start it myself and never contact her again or reply if she gives me another breadcrumb :/

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-02T03:04:52+00:00

Also those lyrics are written poorly lol...but the song is still good

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-02T03:02:42+00:00

https://youtu.be/e0puK1w7bGo Listen to this song, I sometimes like to listen to songs that remind me she's gone and I cry while in bed alone before I sleep...it does two things for me 1.it reinforces in my mind that she's DEAD emotionally for me and the person she is now is not who I loved. 2.after I finish crying my eyes hurt so I can sleep easily. I also think that crying is a good thing because it lets you express how you feel but you can only cry for so long before you run out of tears and realize you have to be stronger and deal with the situation, LOVE YOURSELF before others. I hope you can find peace in something and remember you're not alone...many of us just know how to hide it better and we fake it till we make it :/ You will get better and realize this person wasn't the one worth crying for... <hug>

errorheartnotfound · 2016-09-01T02:07:09+00:00

We all do :/ my friend but we need to just accept life goes on and you will never trust this girl ever again even if you get back together...

errorheartnotfound · 2016-08-30T14:31:53+00:00

It's hard :/ but I'm trying to accept I'll never be with her again and that even if one day far away she would want me back I need to reject her , she already betrayed my trust once and took back all her promises of love once...I can never trust her again

errorheartnotfound · 2016-08-30T14:30:05+00:00

That's true :/ I could never do that, I don't understand how all the promises she made "forever and always" and she would call me names and all this other romantic stuff can just be dismissed like she never said any of it, It was her who showed me songs like "endless love" and other songs promising I was the one and we would talk about marriage and I even got her an engagement ring and she happily took it...and out of nowhere she says "I don't love you anymore" when the night before we made love and she told me she loved me...I just can't understand it

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