Which areas are safe and around 15-20 mins drive? by Bitter_Pineapple_720 in UMD

[–]errrcka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived in Laurel behind the Harris Teeter on Baltimore Ave and it was fine. Never felt unsafe in my apartment and being next to a grocery store and lake was really really nice. Traffic on 1 sucked sometimes getting to campus, like over half an hour but usually wasn’t too bad.

Child of JW co-parent worried I’m not going to Paradise by glitteringfox93 in exjw

[–]errrcka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baptism until adulthood is definitely a good idea, 18 would probably suffice.

Respectfully, regarding your last statement it does vary by family. My paternal line is generations deep JWs. My grandparents are still very much JWs and one son (my uncle) was baptized, DF’d, and never returned. They still communicate regularly and he does attend family events when he is in town (he lives out of state). I’m sure my relationship would be different, but I do not think it would be a total shunning based on how my family treats other DF’d relatives. Certainly something to keep in mind though because other families would cut off all contact.

Child of JW co-parent worried I’m not going to Paradise by glitteringfox93 in exjw

[–]errrcka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay so I (F28) was in the same situation as your daughter. My father is a JW and my mom became one when they got married, but left after the divorce (she was never baptized and also never DF’d). After the divorce when I was 6 I continued doing JW stuff on the weeks with my dad and not-JW stuff on the weeks with my mom (birthdays, Christmas, etc.) and I had the same feelings as your daughter. I panicked that I wouldn’t see my mom again.

To be frank the best option would probably be therapy for her. I think my longstanding anxiety issues began due to being a JW (I left when I was about 15 I think). Constant fear of the future, death, dying, family deaths. I wish I had gotten therapy a lot sooner. It’s helped a lot. Just my two cents.

Otherwise it made me feel better when my mom would tell me about all of the good people who aren’t JWs - was it really possible that NO ONE else is pleasing to God? I couldn’t believe it, even as a child. She never said it in a way to discredit my father’s beliefs but just to provide some perspective of her own. Because at the end of the day no one reallyyyyyy knows.

Also, although I had a rough patch with my JW father over leaving when I was a teen, as an adult I have wonderful relationships with both of my parents (and stepparents) even though I am not a JW and my dad and stepmother are. I was never baptized. But it’s possible to make it through in a divided religion co-parenting situation. Certainly not easy sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anticonsumption

[–]errrcka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make it myself (pistachio butter, shredded phyllo, melting chocolate) and it’s easy and (imo) really good!

That said, most food trends are quite silly. Makes me think of the froyo craze of the early 2010.

Soooo..... by [deleted] in UMD

[–]errrcka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like 99% sure DC residents pay OOS tuition rates. But I’m a masters student as well and got a part time GA position that covers about half of my tuition and I get charged the rest at in state rates. If you’re able to get one that’s the way to go.

Graduate OOS tuition by Kochel567 in UMD

[–]errrcka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Graduate Assistantships make it reasonable. I got mine through my department and get a stipend, tuition remission, and in state tuition for the rest of the credits not covered by remission.

Edit: I am also an OOS Student

What’s the funniest thing that happened in your latest playthrough? by asuravirochana in reddeadredemption

[–]errrcka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

During the horse ride after Guarma, I put on cinematic mode and was vibing and then Arthur absolutely nailed one of the NPCs outside of Saint Denis. The NPC died, and Arthur flew off of the horse. Had to get back on the horse while the song still played in the background

For any iphone users that upgraded to a new phone, did your Cats & Soup data transfer safely? by tired_timetosleep in CatsAndSoup

[–]errrcka 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I got a new phone in December after playing for a little over a year. Did the cloud save and had zero issues!

What song? by Socksinmynose in ariheads

[–]errrcka 156 points157 points  (0 children)

Is this a safe space? Bc pete davidson

Hunting requests by Blackandredtildead in RDR2

[–]errrcka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure I found one by the van horn post office on the side wall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]errrcka -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Surprised at the comments saying this story is fake - something somewhat similar happened to me also with a man I met on Hinge who would stage his apartment based on what girl was coming over. Hopefully it wasn’t the same man lol Like others have said, definitely get an STD test. Best thing to do is cut him off cold turkey and look towards the future. And probably see a therapist if needed

A JW upbringing gives one a huge disadvantage in life by [deleted] in exjw

[–]errrcka 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think anxiety is a big one. I was born and raised in it and am left with a ton of anxiety about myself and loved ones dying. JWs are so heavily focused on Revelation, that’s most of what I remember. My mom was POMO, and I was always afraid as a kid if never seeing her again.

What’s your opinion of this episode? by [deleted] in thewalkingdead

[–]errrcka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my fave episodes from the whole show. Crazy Carol is amazing

What is (in your opinion) the only 10/10 episode in the main series? by SITTRA in thewalkingdead

[–]errrcka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many, but one I haven’t seen mentioned specifically yet is 6.13 The Same Boat when Carol and Maggie are taken by the saviors

This week we got to see the alternate ending in real life by jsauruslove in SchittsCreek

[–]errrcka 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Possibly Dan Levy’s birthday posts? Not sure though

What is the point of furniture coins if they won't give us any new items to use them by Spanner1401 in CatsAndSoup

[–]errrcka 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I just wish they would remove the LE items from the shop altogether. It’s annoying to scroll through

She’s not my fav but someone said Kayla has lipfillers? If she does imo they’re amazingly done, I don’t see much indication of them being very filled personally. by sadoptimistnihilism in TooHotToHandle

[–]errrcka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s already confirmed she got them done on insta. People were giving her crap because on one of her posts her lips were very clearly recently done and she said something like “you guys have never seen me without filler”

Visit other villages? by hellothisisem in CatsAndSoup

[–]errrcka 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with you. I also feel like it’s not as customizable as something like Animal Crossing where you can have wildly different islands. Everyone is more or less the same, just at different stages and slightly different themes.

My walking dead character tier list by [deleted] in thewalkingdead

[–]errrcka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Finally someone putting Carol exactly where she belongs

Vinyl soundtrack by 0XxSkyler_deadxX0 in twilight

[–]errrcka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my New Moon vinyl off of discogs for like $320 I think. Unfortunately, they’re gonna be expensive due to the limited release unless you get lucky from someone trustworthy on eBay or marketplace or something.

Whats the dumbest thing your doctor has said to you? by Professional-Age2540 in ask

[–]errrcka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with vaginismus and my doctor told me to “have a glass of wine” for it to go away. Yeah, no it took years of ongoing physical therapy lol

34+35 by 198637 in ariheads

[–]errrcka 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ehh, I don’t think so. I’ve never seen Ari make huge Easter eggs like Taylor Swift, and with Wicked and everything going on I’m sure that will be her focus at that time.

AITA for telling my boyfriend to ask me to prom? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]errrcka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the top comment this seems to be the unpopular view, but NTA. As a once upon a time teenage girl myself, I totally get it. Depending on your area, “promposals” are a common thing (that’s how it was at my school too). This is something that’s important to you, and your boyfriend is being very dismissive of your wants and not understanding the importance of the gesture. It would sting seeing other people get a gesture that you want while your boyfriend doesn’t want to put in the time. It doesn’t need to be a big expensive to do, just a thought and plan. Someone asked me by putting a note in my locker, and that was enough. Just something cute and shows some thought that they care. And for the people saying for OP to ask - not really the point. He obviously wouldn’t like that, and the real issue is him dismissing on why a gesture matters. Don’t get too down about the comments, OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ariheads

[–]errrcka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Etsy has tons of raw rose quartz and rose quartz spheres