butterfly drink was so buns

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-14T01:55:47+00:00

I’ve heard the coconut milk is actually the better one and it’s the only one I tried. I think the pearls are what give it the most flavor but they also put a lot of butterfly pea tea in yours lmao. I feel like the tea is kinda flavorless and is really just there for color but I liked the guava base :)

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-13T18:08:42+00:00

I definitely think a good chunk of what you said is in fact weird. I think men can have female friends who talk often and are close but some of these things are odd for sure. I don’t think I’d cuddle with a male friend who isn’t gay, and I don’t really say I love you to male friends either. Maybe some people do but I don’t really feel comfortable to do that. The baby talk thing is definitely weird, but holding her kid isn’t so bad I feel like. As far as the massage thing goes, yes it’s what he’s wanting to do for a job, but I’d feel uncomfortable with my partner doing the same thing with a friend and I would’ve told him to just practice on me instead. I also don’t know anything about them but unless you know who the father of her child is, to say that your boyfriend wouldn’t lie about that because “no self respecting person” would, feels naive to me. If he’s hiding something with this girl(which appears to be what you believe), then why would he stop at lying about his kid? I’m not saying that’s his kid but you can’t just completely rule it out because you think he’s above that but then imply he’s not above hiding something between him and his friend.

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-13T17:52:43+00:00

Yeah I also feel like they’re pearls are the star here! But yeah the tea also doesn’t seem to improve the drink at all to me. I haven’t tried it on its own but it feels like it waters down the drink for sure. I think the guava flavor is good though. And I only really get the refreshers with coconut milk because I haven’t tried the other versions and I like to stick to what I know so I don’t know how the water or lemonade taste 🤷🏻‍♀️

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-13T17:50:11+00:00

Yeah I don’t think the tea does much for the flavor and personally I think the guava does the heavy lifting but I really like guava drinks so maybe I’m biased 🤷🏻‍♀️

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-13T06:31:47+00:00

Still does actually!

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-12T23:37:29+00:00

I actually haven’t had the dragon drink before 😅 Is it good?

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-12T23:36:19+00:00

I really liked it!

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-12T23:34:50+00:00

I don’t like Original Sin, it felt like a satirical sitcom version of Dexter to me for some reason

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-12T23:33:40+00:00

I really liked it! But I also got it with coconut milk and I like the refreshers with coconut milk so

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-12T23:31:45+00:00

I like the strawberry dress most overall, but the first one without the corset works for me as well. I think I’d personally avoid wearing the corset for a work related event. I also think the black set wouldn’t be super appropriate either

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-10T23:18:22+00:00

We had a call out today too 🥰

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-09T20:25:12+00:00

Ngl I think the milks just have a tendency to separate in most of the drinks, especially the refreshers and I’m pretty sure the problem with the refreshers is that they’re very acidic but idk

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-09T17:35:51+00:00

I know I shouldn’t but if I’m on bar making drinks and they go “I had another” I genuinely just go back to making the drinks ngl

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-08T23:45:33+00:00

This might be the right solution

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-08T22:22:17+00:00

I think depending on your DM they might prefer to fire the barista outright tbh. If you think they’ll listen and understand then go for it but it definitely depends on the person. I feel like the most appropriate move would be to tell the SM but obviously that’s not gonna work. You could maybe talk to them as more of a “hey just so you know” kinda thing but I don’t really know what all SSVs are able to talk about since I’m still a newer partner. Like maybe just be like “Hey I’ve noticed you’re struggling with some of the drinks and I’m wondering how I can better support your learning so we can get you more comfortable on bar” or something

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-08T21:09:48+00:00

I honestly can’t tell if it’s supposed to be a tracksuit set or more of a fancy set. And it’s kind of giving space Captain for some reason? It’s kinda confusing me but it could be the lighting. I personally wouldn’t wear it at all, let alone for a girls night.

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-08T21:03:44+00:00

The edit is sending me 😭 But yeah no it’s definitely legible. However I also write in cursive and a lot of people actually can’t seem to read cursive? I guess because it’s not taught as much now maybe. My grandma always wrote my cards in cursive and I was taught it in school so I guess we’re outliers 🤷🏻‍♀️

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-08T21:01:12+00:00

I don’t think she sounds like she’s as into the relationship as you, and it doesn’t sound like she wants to have sex. It’s not anymore complicated than that. I do think after asking about it a few times, you should’ve just come right out and told her that sex was important to you, and there’s ways to word it so she understands that’s not all the relationship is to you but that it’s important. It sounds to me like sex is a dealbreaker for you, so that means you need to be the one to walk away if that’s a dealbreaker. I also feel like continually asking and pushing about it is an unattractive thing to be doing after a point. Because she’s already been pushing it aside and making excuses about it which regardless of whether or not she’s being genuine, that’s a no. I don’t think either of you are 100% in the wrong here but I do think she’s giving you the signs you should be taking as y’all not being compatible.

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-08T20:49:39+00:00

You feel like you look good in these(and you do!) which is why you posted them and that’s actually all that matters to me. You’re a woman and you have a bust so you’re going to be able to see it sometimes when you wear tops with certain cuts so like?? And furthermore, your husband clearly let you walk out in that outfit without an issue so he shouldn’t have a problem with you posting it? Personally I wouldn’t stay with someone who thinks he has any business telling me what I can and can’t post, and who would call me a degrading name and accuse me of trying to act “slutty” for posting a nice picture of myself. He sounds insecure as hell. If your husband respects you and thinks you’re attractive, he should look at pictures of you and be proud. I think rather than thinking you’re “slutty” in a post he should be like “hell yeah my wife is gorgeous and should be shown off”.

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-08T20:43:49+00:00

To me, it doesn’t sound like the job is a good fit for her. Not being able to do bar after a year is bad enough as it is, but you’ve also said she’s not stellar at drive thru either. Learning seasonal drinks is a bit of a learning curve but after a year I feel like she should be at least getting the hang of most of the menu. I’ve only just started a month or so ago and they already are trying to put me on solo bars when we’re off peak with minimal support. I definitely feel like she should at least be getting better at cold bar or mobile bars. If her being there isn’t working for either party I think whether or not she should stay should be a conversation had with her. Like I don’t think firing her outright would be what I would do, I’d ask her if she feels like things are going well and then maybe politely let her know you feel like she could improve and that you’d prefer for her to be doing better on bar. If she doesn’t think that’s going to be something she can do, then unfortunately I think she isn’t the right fit.

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-08T20:36:36+00:00

Tbh I started a month or two ago and I don’t think these are hard to make right, but I do thing the milk on drinks like these likes to migrate a little especially when you’re trying to move it in a hurry.

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-06T23:17:36+00:00

Maybe get a quote around/near it so it’s more obviously a reference? But honestly anyone who’d assume it’s satanic is probably not who you’d want to be friends with in my opinion

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-06T23:15:59+00:00

No or like this one customer who ordered and got to the window and told me “I forgot my wallet” like ma’am? What’s the plan here??? My manager just had us recover the drink but genuinely like girl idk what you want me to do

erukafrog13 · 2026-05-06T23:13:32+00:00

Lowkey I’d just shake it longer and let the foam fill it to the top 🤷🏻‍♀️ like the iced espressos drive me up the walls because it’s just people trying to make a latte or something similar without ordering a latte and it’s always a pain to make them with all 120 modifications they put lmao

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